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Mother passed away....


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My mom passed recently and I found myself totally devastated and quite frankly, lost for quite a few days...but being the oldest surviving child your forced into being the "strong one" for the rest of the family ......and then everyone is gone and your left alone and then it hits...waves of uncontrollable emotions and deep sadness i'd never experienced. So, like an 'Idiot' I jumped inside a whiskey bottle and stayed there until a few days ago.

 

The reason I felt compelled to share this is that when I returned to the BreakfastClub  after being gone for quite a while and actually only being a daily player for about 3 months, and not really knowing anyone all that well, djMot acknowledged my return and I shared what had happened, instantly him and a bunch of the guys offered condolences and prayers to me....Honestly I was kind of surprised and confused but deeply touched...see, I figured  I would log on to take out my frustrations, kill as many guys as possible, blow up a bunch of crap, cause as much mayhem as possible, not talk to anyone, in hopes that somehow that would make me feel better....but no....empathy stepped up in the form of a kind gesture from a group of guys that I thought had written me off as some "outsider" 

 

I wanted to thank you guys from the bottom of my heart for your kindness!

 

P.S.  No matter the circumstances, forgive those that may have wronged you, hug those you love daily and tell them so, we never know the day they may pass...

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Well said. It's a hard thing rAzor. I lost my Mom in July 2012, we were very close and I definitely understand where you've been.

 

Prayers to you and your family.

 

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My prayers and condolences to you rAzor.

 

And thanks for sharing that rAzor.  I lost my Mom on August 14, 2013 (on my wedding anniversary).  I don't deal well with grief so I just don't deal with it, period.  I am sure that isn't a good thing.

 

I haven't been here very long but the one thing I see time and time again, is the care and compassion XI members and guests have for each other.  I am happy that you got to experience that.

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I am so sorry to hear of the sad news. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts today.

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sorry to hear that ..it is hard.. lost my mom just 2 year's ago ..and sure do miss her ..

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im sorry for ya razor. I used to be in the breakfast club while working night shift, but havent been in a few months so i dont recognize you per se, but i just lost my mother Jan 23 2014, so i know its a tough one. Best of luck to you and stay strong. Funny thing, this is my clan and my folks, and i havent shared that until now...but my heart definitely goes out to you. Take care.

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Soo sorry for your loss...thoughts and prayers sent your way...take care

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So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers with you and your family

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im so sorry bud .we have all lost family and understand your heartache.hang in there and play with us in the servers it will take your mind off things..

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Very sorry for your loss rAzor time will heal and memories will be with you always.

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Sorry for your loss . Make sure you keep the memories .

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 sorry for your loss

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My deepest sympathy to your family. It's so true what they say about not knowing what you have until you don't have it anymore. My mom is still alive and well, but I know I take it for granted at times. We need to slow down sometimes and smell the roses.

 

She's in a better place now for sure :innocent:

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thanks guys

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My condolences, I'm the youngest of the family so I can totally understand that the oldest has the 'duty' to stay together and take care of all and everything.. I hope u can find ur way back away from the alcohol, good luck and take care!

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So sorry to hear Razor. As to the breakfast club, there's no finer bunch of folks.

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@rAzor: Very sorry for your loss. Lots of prayers for your mother. May God grant your mother eternal peace and strength to your family to bear this tragic loss...

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I can relate to what your saying rAzor.   Just don't put too much pressure on yourself for being the oldest.   After mom died a couple years ago my oldest brother thought had to take charge and be the strong one but we were all in it together.     It's tough..... hang in there.

 

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