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my ex is going for child support after 3 years and wants to change our parenting agreement...

if she gets the money I will no longer be able to keep the house that my kids know as "home"...

and how much she gets will depend on a new parenting agreement...

unfortunately she treats the kids like a fashion accessory and makes them sleep at her boyfriends house together in the same bed... btw 13 year old boy and 8&9 year old girls

they always complain to me about it but she don't listen to me or them 

 

but even after all this is done, I am going to try to get full custody of my kids so I know they are well taken care of and can sleep in their own beds...... I should have done that a long time ago

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Best of luck to you buddy and hope you get full full custody. Kids that age should have their own bed. 

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I fucking hate people that is like that, seriusly you should need a permit to able to be a parent....

I bloody hope you get custody, growing up like that will just damage the children...

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Let the oldest speak for him self....... A good judge will listen!

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Good luck, sounds like a bad buzz. Hope you come out on top!

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Edit: double post.

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Good luck Tinman..hope it all works out for you!

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Like BUDMAN said.. Kids that age are well aware of most of the things that go on around them and they certainly have their own opinions. Good luck with it all!

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Best of luck to u

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My Prayers are with you keep the faith it will work out you will have custody, do not back down.

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keep the faith and good luck ,,,,  :stuart:  :zorro:  :rtfm: 

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I always hate to hear these situations...Praying for you! Here is a organization in your area that can help...

 

http://www.fatherhoodinitiative.cuyahogacounty.us/

 

I assume you already have a lawyer but if not...GET ONE!

 

http://www.lawyers.com/fathers-rights/parma/ohio/law-firms/

 

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You are definitely in our prayers. As a minister I have seen this stuff many times. Praying God will bless!!

 

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let the kids tell the judge about that sleeping arrangement most judges will listen to the kids 

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Hang in there! I'll be praying for you and the kids. I'll also pray that God opens this woman's heart and does a THOROUGH house cleaning in it! It's no secret that the court systems all across America FAVOR the mother in cases like these REGARDLESS of how sorry or low-down she is. Sadly, the ones who are hurt most in all this are the children. You're quite a man for putting up with the whole situation and I'm proud to call you FRIEND...

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i do have a lawyer.

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Thank you all!

i couldn't ask for a better extended family

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update.... currently having a trial run of the new parenting agreement. the big difference is I do all the driving now increasing my fuel consumption. supposed to go to court Wednesday but my lawyer is trying to postpone it to see how this will work out.  also in the new parenting agreement will be a clause that states no sleepovers at boyfriends house on school nights...  right now my lawyer has the child support paperwork from her lawyer, she told me im looking at a quarter of my monthly income in support but we are going to try to get that down.

I need to look at my budget and see how much I can do without.

im not gonna get away with paying nothing, but that will be temporary as I will be going for custody

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today I let my ex get some dining furniture that I no longer need and she demanded I give her back her wedding ring and anniversary band  that she gave to me 4 years ago...she threatened to tell the judge that she wants them back and a bunch of other stuff too... she doesn't know yet that I sold them for the gold and used the money to give my kids a nice Christmas in 2012. lol

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It was yours she can want what she wants but she can not touch your personal effects. She gave them back to you just say you tossed them that it did not have anymore value to you or tell them the truth you spent it on the kids. Either way there was no signed written agreement that they were to be returned. Good Luck my brother I truly hopes it all works out for you.

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So sorry your going through this, will be sending some prayers for you!

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after speaking to my lawyer, she cannot demand anything I have once the divorce was finalized and she had plenty of time after to take whatever she wanted.

I find it entertaining to get a text this morning from my ex asking about the jewelry she left here. I will not answer it.

 

todays court date has been postponed till October to give me another month with the new parenting agreement

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