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I have a need for prayers and good thoughts for the situation I have been living with for a few years now. I filed bankruptcy on my condo as I was also getting a divorce back then. I knew some day the day would come when I would be required to move and vacate this place. In the long run that will do me worlds of good as it is where most of my bad memories are vested! My problem is I am supporting 2 other people on my measly disability check and have not been able so save up the required funds to do so. I know I am going to need quite a bit of cash to move and I have no idea where or how that will happen. Tomorrow I am going to call the local Section 8 Div and see where I am on the present list. I have been on it for about 4-5 yrs now knowing this was coming. As far as help moving I believe my immediate family will assist me in that. I do not know exactly how this will happen but I was notified via mail that the procedure for foreclosure had begun. There may not be a problem but then again my luck would have it turn into a huge ordeal for me. Just keep me in your mind and send me all the positive thoughts and prayers you can when you remember to. This is not meant to sound like I am complaining because other than the finacial hardship I am really looking forward to this move when it happens! 

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Prayers sent Dean. Saying you are supporting two other people.. why the hell are they not helping them support themselves or helping you. Seems backwards of you ask me.

Well erase that criticism from my mind and hope you work through this. This world is temporary and we will suffer in hopes to make it to the other side. That is why it says.. the rich have a harder time making it in.

Keep your head up buddy but whip some whippersnappers into shape. It will do all of you some good.

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hope it all ends well for you. I have kids, but ex has them, and she declared a mini bankrupcy, now she is rolling in it, cos   she has to make minimal payments to her bills. grrrrrr.  I rent a tiny room for half my paycheck, another quarter of pay goes to bills my ex  got up, so in about 4 years I may be able to finish paying them of, and think about saving up to rent a whole flat or something.

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Thoughts and prayers your way BPD - hang in there - nothing worse can happen than hanging out with a bunch of >IDIOTS<

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Most people don't like change but it works out okay in the long run. I wish you all the best Dean.

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We haven't talked or anything but I understand what this can be like! Hope and prayers sent your way and good luck! Wish you all the best! :D

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All the best BigPapa i hope everything works out for you! Thoughts and prayers for a smooth transition and some ease on the financials. If supporting two other people is affecting your life or finances in a negative way then in my opinion that is one of the first things that needs to be addressed no matter how hard it may be to tell them to support themselves...at the end of the day you are number one and the first person you should be worrying about. Good luck brother.

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Good luck Dean. If you ever need people who care to use as a sounding board, we're always here.

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My thoughts are with you Buddy. On the 20th, I am flying into SeaTac and if possible, I can make a detour and drop by. We could easily share a beer my friend.

 

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My thoughts are with you Buddy. On the 20th, I am flying into SeaTac and if possible, I can make a detour and drop by. We could easily share a beer my friend.

 

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That's ironic as my birthday is on the 21st! lol and sure I would love to meet up! I can't drive but just short distances! Just let me know when!

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oh I am so sorry Dean.  I will be praying for you.   Sometimes things like this happen for the better.  I am here if u need and if I was closer, I'd certainly help get ya moved.   Maybe me and Giggles need to make a roadtrip :)  lol

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Thoughts and prayers headed your way.

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Praying for you Dean!

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