Dark Asylumn Posted October 6, 2015 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 251 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2835 Content Per Day: 0.54 Reputation: 1016 Achievement Points: 20374 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Share Posted October 6, 2015 hey guys I have been holding this in for a week or so. my dad isnt doing so well. he had fluid on his lungs again so he went in sept 9 to have drained and a pleurx port installed. they released him from the hospital on the 28th. the 29th was his bd and he was still super weak. home health was coming everyday to nurse him. well by saturday he was is really really bad shape. so weak he couldnt hold his head up or say more than a few words. we got him into the er at 2pm on sat. at 330 they had decided to put him on a ventilator bc the cpap was not pulling the co2 out of his system like it suppose to. 10 mins after they vented he coded they spent about 5 mins reviving him at which time his bp shot up to 255/201 and it took about 20 mins to bring it down from there.. he is currently in the CCU still on a vent. his mind is great, might have some speech and writing issues he may need to relearn. we wont know until the vent is taken out. they have tried twice but heart and lungs couldnt handle it yet and numbers went crazy. they are hopeful he will recover but it will me many many months before he even leaves the hospital. we were informed today he is afib but due to his blood already being thin due to other things they cant do anything about it. his heart is a little hard and his lungs have seen better days. they said he acquired strep pneumonia in the hospital b4 they released him its the hap version and can only be picked up in a hospital. it is soooo hard and heartbreaking watching him and he tries to communicate what he needs or whatever and we cant understand. he is sooo frustrated and scared. I am holding up pretty well for my family under the circumstances, but it is completely ripping me apart inside BigPapaDean and Joe Canadian 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Damage_inc- Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.37 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted October 7, 2015 horrible to hear so sorry-just be with him as much as possible so he isnt alone and scared -have the kids visit too Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Blackbart Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 51 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 51 Topic Count: 342 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5974 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 3766 Achievement Points: 45818 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 27, 2021 Birthday: 06/26/1949 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Sorry to hear this Dark...I hope things get better for him soon...I will keep him and you and your family in my prayers... Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Dark Asylumn Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 251 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2835 Content Per Day: 0.54 Reputation: 1016 Achievement Points: 20374 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted October 7, 2015 thank you guys. my middle sister has stayed with him there the last 4 nights. her kids came and held his hand and talked to him today. i told him i knew he had to be scared and he nodded yes. let him know what was going on and that he was improving. that this is just temporary even though every second must feel like an eternity. he agreed. me and that sister agreed that he hasnt lost his ability to say a lot with just his looks lol. Lady Asylumn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Lady Asylumn Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 22347 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 65 Topic Count: 24 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 624 Content Per Day: 0.18 Reputation: 130 Achievement Points: 4148 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 01/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 3 Birthday: 08/29/1985 Device: Android Share Posted October 7, 2015 Thank you guys . Dark Asylumn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
DEEJAYKEG Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 1238 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.18 Reputation: 4984 Achievement Points: 50727 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11 Device: Kindle Fire Share Posted October 7, 2015 You're in my prayers folks. Dark Asylumn and Lady Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Bazza Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 340 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1078 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 391 Achievement Points: 6669 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 3 Birthday: 06/21/1971 Device: Android Share Posted October 7, 2015 hope he pulls thro, and keep staying with him. my thoughts and prayers are with you all Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted October 7, 2015 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.74 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Device: Windows Share Posted October 7, 2015 Glad you and your family are there to give him support that most likely will help him to relax as much as he can. I hope he has a full recovery. Dark Asylumn and Lady Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
RANDALL Posted October 8, 2015 Member ID: 2582 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 28 Topic Count: 149 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 778 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 599 Achievement Points: 6919 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 06/11/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 18, 2021 Birthday: 07/22/1991 Share Posted October 8, 2015 Hang in there, I know it's tough. I just lost my father, so for your sake, I'll pray for you both. Dark Asylumn and Lady Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigPapaDean Posted October 8, 2015 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1193 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6512 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4407 Achievement Points: 63320 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 03:54 AM Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted October 8, 2015 Well brother there isn't much I can say except HANG IN THERE and I am praying things take a much needed turn for the better! I know how tough things can be when everyone is depending on you! That my brother ended up being my undoing. I hope and pray you are able to maintain AND GROW IN STRENGTH AND COURAGE! God bless you and your father and family! Joe Canadian, Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Joe Canadian Posted October 8, 2015 Member ID: 822 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 87 Topic Count: 317 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5477 Content Per Day: 1.04 Reputation: 5025 Achievement Points: 42632 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 20 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2023 Birthday: 03/01/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted October 8, 2015 (edited) Hang in there buddy. I understand how you and your family must feel. My son was very sick last year. I learned, based on my own experience that an optimistic, casual approach to the seriousness of the situation has a calming effect and works wonders for the person who is sick. Try to figure out a way to mask your feelings, show your Dad love rather than fear or concern. Try to avoid talking about his illness in front of him and ask people who visit to do the same. Psychology is extremely important in this situations. Its just my humble opinion. Good luck, wish your Dad the very best. Joe Edited October 8, 2015 by Joe Canadian Dark Asylumn, NITRO, BigPapaDean and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
NITRO Posted October 8, 2015 Member ID: 1095 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 34 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3639 Content Per Day: 0.70 Reputation: 2460 Achievement Points: 24702 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/06/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 24 Birthday: 03/23/1979 Device: Android Share Posted October 8, 2015 That is sad news indeed, sorry you and your family are going through this. I hope your dad recovers well and everything can go back to normal and stress free. All tge best for his recovery. Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Dark Asylumn Posted October 8, 2015 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 251 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2835 Content Per Day: 0.54 Reputation: 1016 Achievement Points: 20374 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted October 8, 2015 we were informed that his lungs wont hold on for much longer, a day a few weeks, if his heart doesnt give out first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Noears711XI Posted October 9, 2015 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Share Posted October 9, 2015 My prayers are with you and your family Dark Asylumn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Dark Asylumn Posted October 9, 2015 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 251 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2835 Content Per Day: 0.54 Reputation: 1016 Achievement Points: 20374 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted October 9, 2015 he decided last night that he didnt want to live like that anymore he would rather go than to be on a machine. family was gathered around, we sang amazing grace for him he mouthed along. he reached for the ceiling when asked what he was reaching for and seeing. he said home beautiful home sooo beautiful. heaven heaven. and after that there was just a body winding down. his body finally went 12 hours later Lady Asylumn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted October 9, 2015 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 08:21 PM Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Share Posted October 9, 2015 so sorry for your loss. Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Bazza Posted October 9, 2015 Member ID: 340 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1078 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 391 Achievement Points: 6669 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 3 Birthday: 06/21/1971 Device: Android Share Posted October 9, 2015 i'm so sorry for your loss. At least you were all there for him at the end. Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
loaderXI Posted October 9, 2015 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 71 Topic Count: 392 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6417 Content Per Day: 1.20 Reputation: 6494 Achievement Points: 54334 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 30 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 01:14 PM Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted October 9, 2015 Very sorry to hear of your loss ....May he Rest in Eternal Peace I will keep you all in my Thoughts and Prayers ! Please accept my deepest of condolences loADER>XI< Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Dark Asylumn Posted October 10, 2015 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 251 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2835 Content Per Day: 0.54 Reputation: 1016 Achievement Points: 20374 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted October 10, 2015 Thank you guys for all your words and thoughts Lady Asylumn, Twinkie 13 and BigPapaDean 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Joe Canadian Posted October 10, 2015 Member ID: 822 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 87 Topic Count: 317 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5477 Content Per Day: 1.04 Reputation: 5025 Achievement Points: 42632 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 20 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2023 Birthday: 03/01/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted October 10, 2015 I'm sorry for your loss Dark. You and your family were there for your Dad at all times. I'm sure he apreciated it. My condolences Dark Asylumn and Lady Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Ramistar Posted October 10, 2015 Member ID: 1395 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 76 Topic Count: 16 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1600 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 873 Achievement Points: 10623 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/05/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 12, 2018 Birthday: 03/04/1964 Share Posted October 10, 2015 Thoughts and Prayers for you and your family Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigPapaDean Posted October 10, 2015 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1193 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6512 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4407 Achievement Points: 63320 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 03:54 AM Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted October 10, 2015 Prayers coming your way! Lady Asylumn and Dark Asylumn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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