Twinkie 13 Posted June 13, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Online Last Seen: 9 minutes ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Share Posted June 13, 2014 Well its official. I signed the divorce papers today. Friday the 13th, raining like hell on me, and getting divorced. God hates me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BUDMAN Posted June 13, 2014 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 135 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6938 Content Per Day: 1.32 Reputation: 4485 Achievement Points: 58180 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 23 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted June 13, 2014 Hold your head up ..... been there got the T-shirt. Things will get better .... thoughts are with you KingStinger!, CobraBites, Nisty* and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Gatorgirl Posted June 13, 2014 Member ID: 2986 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 206 Topic Count: 384 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6454 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 7140 Achievement Points: 50699 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 21 Joined: 11/13/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 22 hours ago Birthday: 12/19/1967 Device: iPhone Share Posted June 13, 2014 ((((hugs)))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Merlin007 Posted June 13, 2014 Member ID: 2068 Group: +++ COD5 Head Admin Followers: 69 Topic Count: 1072 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 8429 Content Per Day: 1.73 Reputation: 7288 Achievement Points: 74877 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 64 Joined: 12/25/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 05/23/1973 Device: Windows Share Posted June 13, 2014 Sorry to hear Twink. Been there and yes it does suck at first but things will get better. Your friends are here for you and that my brother makes a world of difference. It did for me. Take care. Noears711XI, Mule and Nisty* 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Cooika Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 21151 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 10 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 2 Achievement Points: 82 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/11/14 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 4, 2014 Share Posted June 14, 2014 Hope you will be okay man dont give up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3rdCdnInfty Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1444 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 39 Topic Count: 412 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 3808 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 1509 Achievement Points: 25299 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 05/24/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 28, 2023 Birthday: 05/01/1988 Device: Android Share Posted June 14, 2014 That's sad to hear, I wish you all the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
little_old_man Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1194 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 436 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6692 Content Per Day: 1.29 Reputation: 11691 Achievement Points: 53094 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 76 Joined: 02/27/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 16, 2023 Birthday: 04/15/1960 Share Posted June 14, 2014 I was right where you are in 1987, and it's all been uphill since then. I dated for 2 years and had a blast doing it, then met and married the love of my life who gave me three great kids. This is a new chapter for you. Don't be depressed, embrace the change and own it. You're young and have plenty of time left to do a lot of great things with your life. google, KingStinger!, Noears711XI and 9 others 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
hxtr Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 220 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 147 Topic Count: 595 Topics Per Day: 0.11 Content Count: 16950 Content Per Day: 3.17 Reputation: 13538 Achievement Points: 129713 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 120 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 26, 2023 Birthday: 04/05/1970 Device: Windows Share Posted June 14, 2014 Well its official. I signed the divorce papers today. Friday the 13th, raining like hell on me, and getting divorced. God hates me! You know what I will say to that Twinkie..... congratulations. You are way fucking better without her. She forgot the part in your vows about "think and thin". Imagine if you were 65 and then she decided to do that shit to you. At least you have time to bounce back. BTW I will be divorced in about a month. FINALLY!!! Damage_inc- and NostradewmusXI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KingStinger! Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 2465 Group: +++ Minecraft Head Admin Followers: 30 Topic Count: 170 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1818 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1937 Achievement Points: 14559 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/06/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 29 Birthday: 04/17/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted June 14, 2014 (edited) Well its official. I signed the divorce papers today. Friday the 13th, raining like hell on me, and getting divorced. God hates me! Been in your shoes. I can promise you this, it gets easier. And in a few months you will look back and say to your self "I LOVE THIS" its stress free. I went through it to and I truly believe the stress only stems from the loss of lifes routine. You will find your way again. You are new at the middle of the long dark tunnel and its only light you will see from here on out. Try not to be depressed, its a normal faze that most go through in divorce. Believe in yourself and tell yourself often "I CAN DO THIS". I wish you much strength and praying for you.. P.S. Friends, family and people that will listen to you without judgment are the best people to be around right now. Spend lots of time with them and you will pull through. I always found that having a non judgmental person to vent on and that is willing to listen helped ease the pain. Edited June 14, 2014 by KingStinger! Leadfinger, BUDMAN and Mule 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BigPapaDean Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1195 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6518 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4407 Achievement Points: 63361 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 16 hours ago Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted June 14, 2014 Well its official. I signed the divorce papers today. Friday the 13th, raining like hell on me, and getting divorced. God hates me! You need to find a group for people just like you so you have someone to relate to. At first you may feel uncomfortable but hang with it and you will see how much it helps! Good luck! Wild Fire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Online Last Seen: 9 minutes ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 14, 2014 Thanks guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
FRENCHI Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1729 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 105 Topic Count: 279 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 7521 Content Per Day: 1.51 Reputation: 3632 Achievement Points: 49200 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 16, 2021 Birthday: 12/26/1969 Share Posted June 14, 2014 l avenir est devant vous : pas derrière vous bon courage pour la suite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Chris Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 65 Topic Count: 181 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2285 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1724 Achievement Points: 16566 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 10 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted June 14, 2014 I can't get my papers signed fast enough... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
blackcat Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 122 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2843 Content Per Day: 0.53 Reputation: 2048 Achievement Points: 21919 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 15 Birthday: 10/10/1964 Device: Windows Share Posted June 14, 2014 Things will get better twinkie, She couldn't have been the right one anyway, the right one will stay with you thru better or worse, God probably has bigger and better plans for you. Don't sit around and mope, get out and live your life and enjoy it. The RIGHT one will come along, and you will be glad you're there to be with her. Just give yourself some time . KnightWolf, Twinkie 13, loaderXI and 6 others 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
LordOfChaos Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 3174 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 100 Topic Count: 78 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.48 Reputation: 1645 Achievement Points: 17423 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/03/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 27, 2017 Birthday: 07/24/1957 Share Posted June 14, 2014 Hey Twinkie! you are FREE!!! Just think there is a sea full of fish out there! let the minnow go and find your whale! I know you have had a tough time but life was never meant to be fair! The strong survive, and thrive! it may be tough to see the forest for the trees atm, but trust me you will look back at this and think... "should have done this earlier"! When God throws me a few broken eggs, I make an omelet! hey cheer up bud! hope to see you online soon. hxtr, Noears711XI and Twinkie 13 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
7Toes Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 87 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 57 Topic Count: 98 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3789 Content Per Day: 0.71 Reputation: 3589 Achievement Points: 27249 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 18, 2022 Birthday: 04/02/1871 Share Posted June 14, 2014 THIS ALLOWS YOU TO GET OUT THERE AND EAT MORE BEAVERS TO SAVE THE TREES HMMMMMMMMMMM hxtr, Dirk Diggler, Twinkie 13 and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
3rdCdnInfty Posted June 14, 2014 Member ID: 1444 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 39 Topic Count: 412 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 3808 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 1509 Achievement Points: 25299 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 05/24/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 28, 2023 Birthday: 05/01/1988 Device: Android Share Posted June 14, 2014 THIS ALLOWS YOU TO GET OUT THERE AND EAT MORE BEAVERS TO SAVE THE TREES HMMMMMMMMMMM I hope you mean hairless beavers hahaha this aint the 70's any more hxtr and Noears711XI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Damage_inc- Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.37 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 15, 2014 (edited) u either get depressed or get laid -don't be a Debbie downer turn that frown upside down...did she hook up with someone? Edited June 15, 2014 by Damage_inc- Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Noears711XI Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Share Posted June 15, 2014 This is hard it is not an easy decision to come too but once it's done you have to move forward. The worse about divorce is if their are children involved if not the rest is just material things that can always be re-coped. Go out stick you hand in a cows ass LMAO, AKA: this is my metaphor for grabbing the bull by the balls, and take a deep breath, after you washed your hands LOL, and get out there and enjoy this new chapter in your life. What counts is your health all rest is bull-shit. Wish you the best always. CobraBites, LordOfChaos and Damage_inc- 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Evil-Monkey Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 221 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 85 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1864 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 745 Achievement Points: 12302 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 17, 2023 Birthday: 06/10/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 15, 2014 Been there done that twice it gets better . Thought's and prayers twinkie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Sweatnbullets Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 213 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 819 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 517 Achievement Points: 5644 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 14 Birthday: 06/06/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted June 15, 2014 It will get better, keep busy, don't dwell on it too much it wont help.... Time will heal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Online Last Seen: 9 minutes ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 15, 2014 No kids involved. I tore my knee up at work and ended up having 4 operations trying to fix it. I can barely walk now. I have no acl and pcl. The doctors used cadaver ligaments in the first operation and it got infected and rotted in my knee. My left knee stays swollen about twice the size of my right one and is always in pain. It is still very unstable but workers comp refuses to do any more operations. A knee replacement has been suggested could possible fix my problem but workers comp will not pay for it because they say I'm too young to get one. I'm 35 and if it worked for 15 years and I lived a normal life span workers comp might have to pay for 2 or 3 knee replacements and they won't do that. So long story short I got depressed because all of the operations and problems with the medications bringing my mood down. I know she deserved better than that from me but I thought we made a bond for better or worse. She refused to even try and work things out and even go to a marriage counselor. I guess she just didn't want to be married to a cripple. It runs in the family though. Her mom divorced her husband 6 months after he was diagnosed with severe diabetes. I had never even so much as raised my voice to her. Lots of people have had way worse problems than we did and were able to work them out. Even worse the settlement I got from workers comp she cleaned out of our account. Just feel so numb now. No direction. Confusion, anger, hatred. Lost in Black Sea of torment and despair. CobraBites 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
CobraBites Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 2313 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 330 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 4924 Content Per Day: 1.03 Reputation: 3034 Achievement Points: 33897 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 03/19/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 2, 2017 Birthday: 05/26/1974 Share Posted June 15, 2014 well...she must be someone who wants a man to take care of her....pfffftttt to that....any woman like that doesnt deserve someone like you...you loved her no matter what but when life turnd focus on you she walked away and turnd her back on you...what shitty person to do that to you...i would have to say good riddens she wasnt the right one for you....i can honestly say that queencobra has stuck by me thru alot...even tho some of the things she has done to me i shoulda divorced her long ago...i chose to work things out with her...here we are...this october will be 14 yrs of marriage and this august we will have been together for 16 yrs....things got little sour for us as you my health became an issue....i had a heart attack on 9/11/01 of all days...had triple by pass surgery when i was 27...i was told i wasnt goin to be able to work ever again...after time being disabled...i tried to go back to work after i went back to school and got my GED and then did 2 yrs at college for my associates in I.T.....that didnt pan out too well for me...so i went back to workn in pizza place for 6 yrs...cause of that i had put my health at risk had 2 congestive heart failures and another heart attack ...at that point my body was done with work....but queen has stuck by me this whole time....so i can honestly say we were meant to be together....so keep your head up...there is someone for you...you just have to be patient and look in the right places Twinkie 13 and Nisty* 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nisty* Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 21058 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 220 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2494 Content Per Day: 0.68 Reputation: 2778 Achievement Points: 20963 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 04/25/14 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 18, 2021 Birthday: 03/07/1987 Share Posted June 15, 2014 I can repeat what LOM said. . And others. But thet said it all very well. It's amazing to see how many friends stand by you. You guys know what it is about. Keep ya head up Twinky. This might just be a great thing for you buddy. Get yourself a bottle of whiskey. .. take the night away and start a new exciting chapter of your life. Some people don't get what they have and they don't deserve you. Hope you find the one that meets you half way with that. Take care buddy! ! If you feel like talking about whatever. . I'm on ts a lot. *hug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
blackcat Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 122 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2843 Content Per Day: 0.53 Reputation: 2048 Achievement Points: 21919 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 15 Birthday: 10/10/1964 Device: Windows Share Posted June 15, 2014 That even sucks more, she took ;your money, could you take her to court and get it back? Either way krama is a bitch and she's got it coming to her. Go out and meet new people, all women arn't like that. Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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