B3AN Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 4306 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 102 Topic Count: 18 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 188 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 158 Achievement Points: 2078 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/14/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 2, 2015 Birthday: 09/16/1980 Share Posted June 15, 2014 Stay Strong my friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twinkie 13 Posted June 15, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 15, 2014 Yeah it was close to 32 grand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
MrBubbles Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 349 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 30 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 821 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 541 Achievement Points: 5195 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 5, 2017 Birthday: 01/27/1971 Share Posted June 16, 2014 I'm in the process of divorcing my wife as well, as you know its not easy. Hang in there buddy, we're all here for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BurnnBright Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 22339 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 167 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 1714 Content Per Day: 0.51 Reputation: 679 Achievement Points: 12960 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 01/13/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 5 Birthday: 03/20/1972 Device: Android Share Posted June 16, 2014 I'm so sorry that you're going through this Twinkie. It's always sad when a couple divorces. I'm appalled that she would take your money on top of everything else. I really hope you can somehow get that money back. Was that not addressed in court? I pray that you find peace and can move on with your life. KingStinger! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 I got 32 grand for my workers comp settlement. 15 of that went straight to pay off her credit cards. I had about 4.5 in my credit cards. The rest went into our joint savings which she emptied. I had noticed that she was logged into Skype all the time when she was supposed to be at work. So I logged in as her one days because since I set up her skype account and new the password. I found chat logs with a guy that were basically chat/Skype sex. Things like touch yourself this way and do that and all kinds of shit that really pisses me off. I can eventually get over the fact that she doesn't love me anymore but I see this skype shit as cheating on me. Some of you may not think of it as cheating. Watching porn by yourself in my opinion is not cheating but a live interaction with a piece of shit scumbag is cheating in my book. She could have at least waited until we divorced to do that shit. But cheating is what her family does. Her mom and dad cheated on each other and they split. Her mom was seeing a married man whom she eventually married after he divorced his wife. Her real dad cheated on his second wife before she overdosed on cocaine. Her brother cheated on his wife before they divorced. Her mom left her last husband 6 months after he was diagnosed with severe diabetes. There is a special spot in hell for cheaters. I would spend eternity in hell just to see her get what's coming to her. Sorry about my rant people. I just feel so betrayed. I don't think I will ever trust anyone again. I don't have any friends to talk to. I hope you don't mind me venting on here. If you do just let me know and I will stop. Thanks for all your support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BUDMAN Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 135 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6938 Content Per Day: 1.32 Reputation: 4484 Achievement Points: 58177 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted June 16, 2014 That is what we are here for ....let rip the sooner the better. Just remember keep your head up !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
MtDeW Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 49 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 6 Topic Count: 113 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 835 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 992 Achievement Points: 11411 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 4 Birthday: 02/09/1966 Device: Windows Share Posted June 16, 2014 hey twinkie just remember there are about 3 billion other women on this planet for you to pick from! think + ! billyblade 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wild Fire Posted June 16, 2014 Member ID: 5468 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 36 Topic Count: 19 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 674 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 655 Achievement Points: 6446 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 18 hours ago Birthday: 06/22/1965 Device: Android Share Posted June 16, 2014 (edited) Hey Twinkie, I am not a member of Xi, but have been around this group for about a year now. The one thing I realized very quickly is that Xi is more than a clan/website/gaming server, it is a community. A community that supports each other to the best of their ability. And you are a member of that community. Don't ever be afraid/concerned to share with Xi, and if anyone has an objection to you venting here, I'm sure there would be a long line of people wanting to slap that person silly, myself included. So please KEEP sharing. You do have plenty of friends here at Xi who will do what they can to help you out. Now with that said, someone earlier had suggested you look for groups of people who have had similar experiences and making the effort to get out there. There is nothing more therapeutic than hearing the stories of others, who have gone what you have. Some are at your stage, some are well on their way out of the dark depths. They can all add valuable support to your situation. AND, as importantly, it will give you some human contact. I just googled and found this link. http://www.divorcecare.org/ Check it out for your community, and if you ever need to talk, send me a PM. Edited June 16, 2014 by Wild Bill Noears711XI and Damage_inc- 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
concours Posted June 17, 2014 Member ID: 5839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 31 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 204 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 121 Achievement Points: 1606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/02/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 30, 2023 Birthday: 07/01/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted June 17, 2014 sorry about the way your ex treated you and stole from you. wow, she really wasn't the one for you and you now have time to heal and find someone new. chances are you won't even be looking for her and one day you will turn a corner then WHAM . there she is. thats how it happened for me. two kids and 30 years later. get yourself healed mind and body first then life will take care of the rest. all the best man. Unchileno 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Morris Posted June 17, 2014 Member ID: 1942 Group: +++ COD5 Head Admin Followers: 20 Topic Count: 142 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1424 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 894 Achievement Points: 10848 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 10/31/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 02:03 PM Birthday: 09/21/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted June 17, 2014 Hope it all works out for you as I am sure it will ........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted June 17, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 Hey Belted. Can I get the "I'm divorced" badge. And the "She took all my money". Badge Wild Fire and Noears711XI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SupaDupa Posted June 17, 2014 Member ID: 20988 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 29 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 317 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 310 Achievement Points: 2300 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/23/14 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 21, 2017 Birthday: 10/16/1980 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I want to just take a moment to express to you how it feels to not be seperated from my woman yet have been sleeping on the couch for the past 4 years. Its worse than being seperated. Sheer torture. I can understand. Just remember to NEVER let yourself feel like the victim. Even if it may be true, it does not help your mind and heart. Reality is subjective. Remind yourself that your ex is not doing it to you. It's just what your going through. Live for tomorrow,not only protect your heart, but let your heart grow from this. Be strong and hang in there. Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrBubbles Posted June 17, 2014 Member ID: 349 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 30 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 821 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 541 Achievement Points: 5195 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 5, 2017 Birthday: 01/27/1971 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If I happen to run into the guy that is doing my soon to be 'X'. I'm gonna give him a huge hug! Honestly, without him, I would still be in a bad marriage. I suspect he will come to the same conclusion that I have, run! For me seeing a therapist has been very helpful. She sure put my wife in perspective for me, which I found invaluable. I was surprised how affordable her sessions were. Hang in there buddy! Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hemps Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 1482 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 37 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2018 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 1440 Achievement Points: 15303 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/05/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 15 Birthday: 07/13/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 sorry you're having a bad time with this, been there also and it will suck for a bit, but you WILL get over it. My X wife (girlfriend and living with for 8 years,then married for only 2 months) cheated on me with my boss's son so i lost my job also. but a short time later i was better and was doing things, things i couldn't do before cause i had this baggage clinging to me....it does get better and before you know it you won't think about it at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Damage_inc- Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.37 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 xi boobs section for starters .a lot of ho ties that share the same interests Twinkie 13 and Noears711XI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Leadfinger Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 4888 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 56 Topic Count: 69 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2020 Content Per Day: 0.49 Reputation: 3795 Achievement Points: 26312 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 01/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 29, 2023 Birthday: 08/29/1962 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 If you need to vent . . .here we are . .the only limitation is the skin on your fingers. Forget about the money . . look at it like you paid that money to get her removed from your life . . . besides your gonna find (or she's gonna find you) a wealthy attractive down home lady that loves you for who you are. Until then Party Party Party Idiots make great listeners Idiots give good advice Idiots can make everything nice Idiots are good Idiots are glad Idiots can keep you from going mad Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 18, 2014 Thanks damage. So for all you XI ladies that want to help Twinkie out of the funk please add your personal parts to the women of XI section or you could just post here if you want. Ladies....have you helped out a Twinkie today? Wild Fire and Damage_inc- 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Giggles Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 1217 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 72 Topic Count: 93 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1596 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 1840 Achievement Points: 14592 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 03/04/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 12 Birthday: 01/21/1978 Device: Android Share Posted June 18, 2014 I am very sorry to hear about this but remember your still young and you know what not to look for in the next lady of your life until then PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Coffee4You Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 2617 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 28 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 107 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 89 Achievement Points: 911 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/22/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 2, 2016 Birthday: 03/11/1969 Share Posted June 18, 2014 Hang In There Bud! We All Got Your Back! Keep Your Head Up High! Think In Bout You! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twinkie 13 Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 415 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 340 Achievement Points: 3564 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Share Posted June 18, 2014 So party at giggles' house? Damage_inc- 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Giggles Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 1217 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 72 Topic Count: 93 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1596 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 1840 Achievement Points: 14592 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 03/04/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 12 Birthday: 01/21/1978 Device: Android Share Posted June 18, 2014 It's a bit of a drive lol Damage_inc- 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Belle Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 503 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 181 Topic Count: 71 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2461 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 1213 Achievement Points: 15555 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/24/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 22 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 so she likes HOs I mean HO HO's, not TWINKIES !! Just trying to cheer you up Been over a year since my "unexpected" divorce and as sad and difficult as it was for me, the only thing I regret now is not emptying the bank account lol Hang in there Sgt it gets better Noears711XI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
LandShark Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 698 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 43 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1145 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 782 Achievement Points: 7232 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/06/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 2, 2022 Share Posted June 18, 2014 By the way, God doesn't hate you. Bad times fall on good people. Sometimes what appears as trouble is really God clearing out a mess to get you to a huge blessing that's ahead. Consider this, David was chased by King Saul who was jealous and wanted to kill him. David ended up with Saul's Crown. Job lost everything, but in the end found himself blessed many times more. Abraham was told to sacrifice his son, and when he demonstrated his obedience, God not only did not require him to sacrifice Isaac, but made him the father of all nations. Look for the blessing in your situation. God has amazing things headed your way!! "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 Be strong, sir! Landshark Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Joe Canadian Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 822 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 87 Topic Count: 317 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5477 Content Per Day: 1.04 Reputation: 5025 Achievement Points: 42632 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 20 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2023 Birthday: 03/01/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 I can't get my papers signed fast enough... I'll sign them for you for $20 lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Joe Canadian Posted June 18, 2014 Member ID: 822 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 87 Topic Count: 317 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5477 Content Per Day: 1.04 Reputation: 5025 Achievement Points: 42632 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 20 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2023 Birthday: 03/01/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 18, 2014 I've been there Twinkie, it might suck at the very beginning but things will definitely get better for you. It takes about 3-4 weeks to realize that the term "freedom" is again part of your life, and freedom is a beautiful thing. Trust me on that one and listen to HXTR who has gone through this 6 times ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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