WldPenguin Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 2995 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 181 Topic Count: 690 Topics Per Day: 0.15 Content Count: 4434 Content Per Day: 0.98 Reputation: 6771 Achievement Points: 48547 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 68 Joined: 11/17/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 02/13/1966 Device: Windows Share Posted April 10, 2016 Don't "weasel out of chores" = no more nagging lol Damage_inc-, Labob, Elmo and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
7Toes Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 87 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 57 Topic Count: 98 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3789 Content Per Day: 0.71 Reputation: 3589 Achievement Points: 27249 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 18, 2022 Birthday: 04/02/1871 Share Posted April 10, 2016 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Blackbart Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 51 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 51 Topic Count: 342 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5974 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 3766 Achievement Points: 45818 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 27, 2021 Birthday: 06/26/1949 Share Posted April 10, 2016 (edited) I'll be married 38yrs next month (2nd marriage was 11yrs first time)...In marriage there is no chores for the adults...Chores are what you give your children to learn responsibility...Adults have shared responsibility...It should never be thought of 50/50...Some days you will give more and some days she will...It's not a competition and you don't keep score...You just do what needs doing as it arises...Women need to be told they are loved frequently...Men just assume they are, women need to hear it...Spend time with her one on one...A walk in the park, or sitting in the backyard just talking is all it takes...The simplest things in life are often the most memorable...If you both want the marriage to succeed it will...It really isn't that difficult... Edited April 10, 2016 by Blackbart Drooling Moron, WldPenguin, Damage_inc- and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
DEEJAYKEG Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 1238 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.18 Reputation: 4984 Achievement Points: 50727 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11 Device: Kindle Fire Share Posted April 10, 2016 30 years here, this year. I usually say,"There's no need to have a cow!" and that settles things...I think... If you haven't seen this educational video about men's and women's brains, you'll find it useful: Merlin007, WeednFeed, JohnnyDos and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WldPenguin Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 2995 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 181 Topic Count: 690 Topics Per Day: 0.15 Content Count: 4434 Content Per Day: 0.98 Reputation: 6771 Achievement Points: 48547 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 68 Joined: 11/17/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 02/13/1966 Device: Windows Share Posted April 10, 2016 Well said, @@Blackbart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Drooling Moron Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 24199 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 11 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 5 Achievement Points: 106 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/06/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 30, 2023 Birthday: 05/29/1960 Device: Windows Share Posted April 10, 2016 Remember these words: "Thank you gracious princess, how further may I serve thee?"Marriage is about sharing ~ the good, the bad, and the mundane. WeednFeed and Damage_inc- 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elmo Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 24188 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 42 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 51 Achievement Points: 350 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/05/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 29, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2016 "I'm just browsing" works every time! store clerks walk away quickly! err wrong subject... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackRose Posted April 10, 2016 Member ID: 2208 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 305 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3618 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 3942 Achievement Points: 37728 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 54 Joined: 02/09/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 06/09/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted April 10, 2016 from the other side,,you get what you give,its your house as well ....lol Angelz, Spartacus and Damage_inc- 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Bazza Posted April 11, 2016 Member ID: 340 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1078 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 391 Achievement Points: 6669 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 3 Birthday: 06/21/1971 Device: Android Share Posted April 11, 2016 a lot of sound advice. Mine was compromise, and basicaly try to do things before they got to her attention. seperated nearly 2 yrs, now, but were married for 21yrs, tho 18 of those were for the kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
HarryWeezer Posted April 11, 2016 Member ID: 20166 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 611 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 7652 Content Per Day: 1.98 Reputation: 7228 Achievement Points: 53663 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 36 Joined: 10/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 16 Birthday: 10/16/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted April 11, 2016 Your wife asks for help and you call it "nagging?" And you're asking for advice on how to avoid helping her? Here's the secret to a long and happy marriage: Both put the needs and interests of the other ahead of their own. If that's not something you're willing to do, she can do better, and in time, will. Spartacus, Wild Fire, WldPenguin and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SGTRyon Posted April 11, 2016 Member ID: 24362 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 11 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 14 Achievement Points: 150 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 24, 2019 Birthday: 05/18/1992 Share Posted April 11, 2016 Just nod and smile man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iboomboom Posted April 11, 2016 Member ID: 20343 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 89 Topic Count: 203 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 3381 Content Per Day: 0.88 Reputation: 3019 Achievement Points: 30033 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/11/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 08:14 PM Birthday: 07/01/1983 Device: Windows Share Posted April 11, 2016 (edited) Respect one another, love will follow, love will fade come back but never lose respect for one another. Your marriage is a partnership between two people who take on life together. If you set your foundation solid and right all else is just fuzz. Every once in a while sit her down and share with her what it means to you to share your life with her. Feel free to make shit up. Set a precedent, establish boundaries and responsibilities, do your share. After your love goggles come off and you are both living a routine - reminiscence of the good memories will keep the flame lit. My two cents. Edited April 11, 2016 by iboomboom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Sweatnbullets Posted April 11, 2016 Member ID: 213 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 819 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 517 Achievement Points: 5644 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 14 Birthday: 06/06/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted April 11, 2016 Well my wife never nags... I do shit around the House, and do my Service in The Bedroom. Its really simple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
MrBubbles Posted April 12, 2016 Member ID: 349 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 30 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 821 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 541 Achievement Points: 5195 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 5, 2017 Birthday: 01/27/1971 Share Posted April 12, 2016 I took 2 1/2 men's Charlie Sheen's approach. "Yes dear, I understand/ you're right". It worked for a long time. The best you can do is say such things and take care of family first. My wife and I split up for completely different reasons. Not the normal rationale! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cold fusion Posted April 23, 2016 Member ID: 455 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 6 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 99 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 48 Achievement Points: 1167 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/19/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 16, 2018 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Good fucken luck!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
AyeAyeRon Posted April 23, 2016 Member ID: 1371 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 348 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 1906 Content Per Day: 0.37 Reputation: 585 Achievement Points: 14042 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 04/26/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 2, 2018 Birthday: 03/01/1990 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Ive only been married 3 years but i will say..... just do as you are asked or told. then she wont nag if you do it trsut me when i say, "Happy wife, Happy life." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Wild Fire Posted April 23, 2016 Member ID: 5468 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 36 Topic Count: 19 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 674 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 655 Achievement Points: 6446 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 11:37 PM Birthday: 06/22/1965 Device: Android Share Posted April 23, 2016 Your wife asks for help and you call it "nagging?" And you're asking for advice on how to avoid helping her? Here's the secret to a long and happy marriage: Both put the needs and interests of the other ahead of their own. If that's not something you're willing to do, she can do better, and in time, will. This post says it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Damage_inc- Posted April 23, 2016 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.37 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted April 23, 2016 if she asks you to vacuum just vacuum the cord up.dishes drop some and be extra clumsy .laundry mix it all up colors all blended .try that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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