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Servus all !!! Im not a member but i play with you guys last 4 years and i make some frendship with bunch of you and you are sec family for me,kinda.Right now i have hard time coz im geting divorce after 12 y and two beatifull daughters and my life is in ruins.Never mind whose falt is it,there is no more love between us and thats it.She wanna take my kids and thats  the problem.Cant live  without  see them every day like i use to.Long story short i could use few nice words or pep talk.Every coment counts, bad or nice.(thats for chile u old cabron,feel free to mock me).Sry for my english at the end im guy from Croatia and i hope you will have no trouble to read this.thanks !!!

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Best of luck to you, I hope it gets better soon.

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Sorry to hear this. Hope everything works out for the best. Both parents should always see their kids. :ermm:

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I did after 16 years your kids will always love you and it will work ii self out, Trust me

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Sorry to hear, we understand your pain and all we can provide is support and best wishes, not enough we know but we mean it.

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2 hours ago, blackcrow said:

Servus all !!! Im not a member but i play with you guys last 4 years and i make some frendship with bunch of you and you are sec family for me,kinda.Right now i have hard time coz im geting divorce after 12 y and two beatifull daughters and my life is in ruins.Never mind whose falt is it,there is no more love between us and thats it.She wanna take my kids and thats  the problem.Cant live  without  see them every day like i use to.Long story short i could use few nice words or pep talk.Every coment counts, bad or nice.(thats for chile u old cabron,feel free to mock me).Sry for my english at the end im guy from Croatia and i hope you will have no trouble to read this.thanks !!!

Brother its real tough when this happens, specially when kids are involved , But, There is a purpose for everything in life. When one door closes another one opens..

I have not seen my daughter since she was 2, she just turned 17 , I face book  message her her about 2 years ago, when I finally found her (friend of family actually did) , it took her that long to answer me back.

Her first question was..Why was I not there?  When her mother left she everything in her power to denied my access , even accused me of trying to throw her off a balcony, Yeah..That fucked up,

She even legally took my  last name of her.  I try to explain to her briefly what happen , even showed her pictures of her brother and sister, she was excited to talk to me, we agreed to talk next day, only to find out I was now blocked from her profile, Thanks to mommy again for sure..

Explains my bitchy attitude there for a while..

I hope this does NOT happen to you and dont wish it on my worse enemy.

What I am trying to say here brother is. Try your BEST so divorce goes as smooth as possible and you get see those kids..Be smart and patience brother..

Good luck to you my amigo..

Here if you want to talk..

 

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Hang in there things will get better, wishing you the best!!

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Time to upgrade? 

 

Fight for Joint custody of the girls if it's possible. Stay strong and everything will work out.

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Bottom line is your still alive and you have two beautiful children who will need their DAD in their lives....No matter how: in person,phone,Skype,emails,short videos on the phone...you get the picture.You live for them ,if your serious.Good luck and hang in there BC.

 

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9 hours ago, blackcrow said:

Servus all !!! Im not a member but i play with you guys last 4 years and i make some frendship with bunch of you and you are sec family for me,kinda.Right now i have hard time coz im geting divorce after 12 y and two beatifull daughters and my life is in ruins.Never mind whose falt is it,there is no more love between us and thats it.She wanna take my kids and thats  the problem.Cant live  without  see them every day like i use to.Long story short i could use few nice words or pep talk.Every coment counts, bad or nice.(thats for chile u old cabron,feel free to mock me).Sry for my english at the end im guy from Croatia and i hope you will have no trouble to read this.thanks !!!

Sounds like a "deja vu" for be, but I had 22 years of faithful mileage "under my belt."

I had to spend $7,000 in attorney's fees (Q:  What do attorneys and @Unchileno have in common?  A:  What DON'T they have in common?  Lol, JK, Oon-Chillay-No) just to be able to see my kids.

This too, shall pass.

Like @J3st3rXI said, it probably wasn't meant to be, anyway.  I'm actually talking to a woman right now who wants to have my next baby, and we're not even "going" together.  She told me any baby I make will be good-looking.

(No, it's not who you think it is, @TBB--she is actually here in the same town in which I reside--notice I didn't end with a preposition by not saying "she's here in the same town I'm in?"  Hmm?  Cleared the grammatical stuff with the likes of @Hoth.)

Bottom line, Blackened Crow, hang in there.  As hard as it is now, this is part of God's plan.

Ayaq

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Picture of @AyaqGuyaq "girlfriend".  She's quite the looker eh? lmao

  Mountain_Goat.jpg.ae613acd804f394b6f6670852c218f53.jpg

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sry to hear about ur issues and hard times u have to go thru now.

Like the others sais, keep ur head up, be calm (!) and patient and u will get the right and time to see ur kids, im at least crossing my fingers for u and hope all goes well.

At least u have alot of possibilities to see them, technical and physically. ;)

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I think a lot of us have gone through that and it's not very nice. What I can say it always seems to work out in the end. Just have faith!

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The feelings of sadness that you experience now are going to fade as time goes on, but it also depends in large part on you and on the attitude you take in the face of this situation. Courage, friend, that you have done the right thing by putting an end to a relationship that did not lead to more. Courage friend, you can move forward with your life because this is not the end, it is the beginning of a new stage of your life in which you can be happy again and find love again. Be patient because your children will be with you soon, in a different way but they will always be yours. I admire that courage and that attitude of not settle for less ... so dear, I send you a lot of strength and always fight to be happy

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On 5/31/2018 at 12:18 AM, AyaqGuyaq said:

Sounds like a "deja vu" for be, but I had 22 years of faithful mileage "under my belt."

I had to spend $7,000 in attorney's fees (Q:  What do attorneys and @Unchileno have in common?  A:  What DON'T they have in common?  Lol, JK, Oon-Chillay-No) just to be able to see my kids.

This too, shall pass.

Like @J3st3rXI said, it probably wasn't meant to be, anyway.  I'm actually talking to a woman right now who wants to have my next baby, and we're not even "going" together.  She told me any baby I make will be good-looking.

(No, it's not who you think it is, @TBB--she is actually here in the same town in which I reside--notice I didn't end with a preposition by not saying "she's here in the same town I'm in?"  Hmm?  Cleared the grammatical stuff with the likes of @Hoth.)

Bottom line, Blackened Crow, hang in there.  As hard as it is now, this is part of God's plan.

Ayaq

Grammar police. Hmm can I earn an income with that?    :0

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keep your chin up

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On ‎5‎/‎31‎/‎2018 at 12:46 AM, J3st3rXI said:

 

Picture of @AyaqGuyaq "girlfriend".  She's quite the looker eh? lmao

  Mountain_Goat.jpg.ae613acd804f394b6f6670852c218f53.jpg

his b/f is a moose ;) that was just a thing he had to test to see if you push a goat to the edge of a cliff it keeps backing up ;) 

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Sorry you're going through that. Always a miserble time in the lives of every one involved. But it's absolutely true that time heals all wounds and next year at this time, all of it will be just a bad memory. I hope you get to spend as much time as you can with your children. Best of luck.

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