WeednFeed Posted December 2, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 344 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2328 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3796 Achievement Points: 24006 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted December 2, 2020 Just a quick note. I've been leaving in the middle of games lately. Both of My Parents are quite frail Mom is 85 and dad is 88. In the last 2 weeks My dad has been in the hospital twice. He has been in the hospital close to 30 times since totaling his car on, Dec 12. 2017. He suffers from Congestive Heart failure and Kidney failure both of these are directly related. It's been a long hard road for him over the last 15 plus years but the accident really played havoc with both of their health. It seems he will be going on Dialysis this week. We thought we were going to loose him last night. The reality is we will loose him sometime it might be days, weeks or months but it still hurts thinking about it. You see he is the most perfect father, loving, caring, compassionate, kind, strict, strong and god fearing. He loves all his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Last night I told him over FaceTime I loved him He told me he loves me and his family is his WHOLE WORLD. With Covid-19 I can not even go see him. Our area is in what they call code orange. So if you got a moment please think of him in your prayers if that is your thing, good vibes accepted as well. He would love that. If you love someone don't put it off tell them. Sorry for not being more attentive in game but I know you guys realize where priorities lie. Thanks Wayne AthenA, RobMc, Timmah! and 9 others 2 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
MikeB Posted December 2, 2020 Member ID: 59 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 12 Topic Count: 137 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2109 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 2327 Achievement Points: 15107 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Device: Windows Share Posted December 2, 2020 Lost my father last year in August, same situation minus the car wreck. My mother is not doing well and misses him every day. As do we. My father was a fantastic father too. My mother is too. But hang in there and we will definitely get the prayers out. Just enjoy what time you have left and keep in mind he is probably a little scared. I know my dad broke down and cried a few times with me, because he felt useless and was afraid. I was with my father when he passed. I had just told him I loved him, and that I would take care of mom and that he could let go. Told him I would see him soon. He passed a few minutes after. WeednFeed and RobMc 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WeednFeed Posted December 2, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 344 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2328 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3796 Achievement Points: 24006 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Author Share Posted December 2, 2020 I'm really glad you were with him. I know what you went through. We have had great talks too. RobMc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Smeggie Posted December 2, 2020 Member ID: 24118 Group: + COD4 Moderator Followers: 25 Topic Count: 54 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1077 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 2014 Achievement Points: 10010 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 02/19/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1962 Device: Windows Share Posted December 2, 2020 Thinking of you, your father and the rest of your family, @WeednFeed. I can tell you're as genuine as he is. BUDMAN, WeednFeed and RobMc 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
blackcat Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 122 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2843 Content Per Day: 0.53 Reputation: 2048 Achievement Points: 21919 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 15 Birthday: 10/10/1964 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Prayers and thoughts for your Dad, you and all your family. Lost my Dad Dec. 6, 1999, its tough still. Even if you can't see him, talk to him as much as you can. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
ViPRZ Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 2978 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1656 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 1106 Achievement Points: 26102 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/11/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 09/23/1970 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Wow..soo sorry to hear this Weed.. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. Take care WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BUDMAN Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 135 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6936 Content Per Day: 1.32 Reputation: 4484 Achievement Points: 58167 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Thoughts and prayers heading your way for you and your family. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BlackRose Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 2208 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 305 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3617 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 3937 Achievement Points: 37717 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 54 Joined: 02/09/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 11 hours ago Birthday: 06/09/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 so sorry to hear,,thinking of you WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.74 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Well I hope things go well for him Weed and as others have said it's tough loosing a parent. I have lost both of mine but I think of them often and it's always good thoughts. Thinking of you and your family in these troubling times. BUDMAN and WeednFeed 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TBB Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 989 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 264 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 18123 Content Per Day: 3.47 Reputation: 20132 Achievement Points: 132801 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 263 Joined: 01/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 01/27/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Sorry to hear this Weed - thoughts and prayers for you and yours WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WeednFeed Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 344 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2328 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3796 Achievement Points: 24006 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Author Share Posted December 3, 2020 Thanks everyone, he's a great man. Al we can do is see if this dialysis buys him a little more time. He still wants to stay around he loves the great granddaughters so much. He always loves the kids and the kids always love him. He is the last one of his of all his siblings. He is the only one who made it to 88. I believe on of his sisters lived to 82. We sure have been blessed to have him this long. Some folks tell nightmares about the Canadian health care but my family have had the greatest treatment. Yes we pay big taxes but in my eyes it's been worth it. Wayne ViPRZ, major-mark63 and Hunter1948 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
GhostfaceJim Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 2314 Group: ++ Conan Exiles Admin Followers: 32 Topic Count: 112 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 20717 Content Per Day: 4.33 Reputation: 5314 Achievement Points: 113891 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 50 Joined: 03/19/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 17 hours ago Birthday: 04/22/1975 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Sorry to hear that Bud! My best advice to people is to make sure he has a smart phone and charger so as to stay in touch! WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
lTplkey336 Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 27768 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 10 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 935 Content Per Day: 0.52 Reputation: 1133 Achievement Points: 7741 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 05/18/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Timmah! Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 26443 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 469 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 5962 Content Per Day: 2.52 Reputation: 10339 Achievement Points: 51003 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 118 Joined: 11/01/17 Status: Online Last Seen: 11 minutes ago Birthday: 09/26/1971 Device: Android Share Posted December 3, 2020 I feel you. It's tough watching one's parents grow old, weak, & pass away. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
AthenA Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 22619 Group: ++ COD5 Admin Followers: 132 Topic Count: 48 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3600 Content Per Day: 1.11 Reputation: 4350 Achievement Points: 35110 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 06/05/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: Friday at 12:36 AM Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 I'm very sorry to hear this Weed and I feel you... you and your family will be in my prayers. I lost my dad 35th years ago on Nov.27th... so many years, but still so very by my side all the time. Our parents are the so precious ! Talk to him as much as you can and tell him how much you love him. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Guest FunkyJosh>XI< Posted December 3, 2020 Share Posted December 3, 2020 Prayers and thoughts are with you buddy Stay strong for him and your family, here for a chat if ever you need. Take care brother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J3st3r Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 2162 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 153 Topic Count: 152 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 5086 Content Per Day: 1.05 Reputation: 5009 Achievement Points: 44649 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 01/25/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:34 AM Birthday: 02/26/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 Sorry to hear that @WeednFeed Dialysis is a good thing. I'm surprised they didn't offer it sooner. It will flush all of the nasty toxins out of his blood. It will also help Congestive Heart failure. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WeednFeed Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 344 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2328 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3796 Achievement Points: 24006 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Author Share Posted December 3, 2020 Again thanks a bunch! Very much appreciate the prayers and kind words. he has his iPad with him that way he can contact us. That’s been a great tool to help stay in contact with him. I’ll be dropping off his sleep apnea machine this afternoon. Every time I drop something off the hospital has to disinfect everything. thanks again Wayne J3st3r and RobMc 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
major-mark63 Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 23233 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 21 Topic Count: 43 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2419 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 1899 Achievement Points: 19105 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/10/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 7 hours ago Birthday: 08/11/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 so sorry for you and your family . Hold on , and what only counts now is your loved ones and yourself , take care!! WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SnullerDk Posted December 3, 2020 Member ID: 23800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 37 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 396 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 320 Achievement Points: 3439 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 19 hours ago Device: Windows Share Posted December 3, 2020 so sorry to hear , take care of them WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
animalxi Posted December 4, 2020 Member ID: 126 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 15 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 549 Content Per Day: 0.10 Reputation: 249 Achievement Points: 3881 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 01:59 PM Birthday: 08/28/1965 Device: Android Share Posted December 4, 2020 Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WeednFeed Posted December 4, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 344 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2328 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3796 Achievement Points: 24006 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Author Share Posted December 4, 2020 (edited) Thanks again folks. He's slowly coming around. They are still trying to get the fluid out of his lungs. He's been Face Timing us, it's good to be able to talk to him. They have to get rid of that fluid so they can move forward with the dialysis. He was told he will be in for a week just to learn the process. He has been told he must learn to use manual dialysis in case of a power failure but he will normally be on the machine every night while he sleeps. Man that's something to go through when your 88. He told them he wants to stay around because he has all these great grandchildren he has to love up! Wayne Here he is from left, my youngest brother, oldest brother, dad and myself. IMG_4885.MOV Edited December 4, 2020 by WeednFeed monkie and ViPRZ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
HudsoN Posted December 4, 2020 Member ID: 27327 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 5 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 365 Content Per Day: 0.18 Reputation: 214 Achievement Points: 2303 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/22/18 Status: Offline Last Seen: Thursday at 06:21 PM Birthday: 08/04/1971 Device: Windows Share Posted December 4, 2020 my prayers are with you all at this time in need. hope he gets well again very soon. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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iBrock Posted December 5, 2020 Member ID: 27313 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 6 Topic Count: 21 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 164 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 130 Achievement Points: 1639 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/14/18 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 12 Birthday: 05/07/1977 Device: Windows Share Posted December 5, 2020 Weed my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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