loaderXI Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 (edited) Hey everyone I have been putting off and hoping for another miracle...I have received some very bad news from my daughter Jessica a month or so back and well just did not want to share with everyone for the time being...Today Jessica turned 34 and we do not know if she will make 35 as she has been diagnosed with end stage congestive heart disease and has a very low ejection rate (was as low as 16%)...She has shown some improvement in that area with meds (36%)...She was sent home with a lifevest heart defibrillator for now and still hoping she can get some more strength back in her heart... She had this underlying and had failed to be diagnosed at another hospital for at least 2 yrs (multi stays)...They kept treating her for anxiety and oddly she went to a different hospital for the first time and they caught it straight away...The hardest thing ever was telling her she would not die from this but she is at peace and knows in her heart it is Gods will not Ours...With covid I dare not travel to be around her and that is tearing me up more then her... The plus for her is she has never smoked,drank or partied and her lungs seem good so she could be a good candidate for a transplant if they can get her on the list...I am not a kind of person who shows stress or worry but deep down im scared to death...God has been more then Gracious to me and my family with more miracles then I can count on both hands and im just going to ask if you are a believer and you pray Please pray for her and her care takers and her family and keep them in your thoughts... Thank you everyone I will try to update as I can...For now it is the waiting Edited January 20, 2021 by loaderXI ShadyBrady, YACCster, price and 18 others 1 13 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 My cousin had a heart transplant and is doing well. Wishing you and your family all the best. loaderXI, BlackRose and TedsofBeverlyHills 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BlackRose Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 I am sorry to hear this,,hopefully they will discover something that will help her TedsofBeverlyHills and loaderXI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Ironcity Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 Hey Loader, That's a real tough one man. Sorry to hear the news about your daughters health. Terrible. I have three daughters and can't imagine how you're dealing with that. It's heartbreaking when it involves our children when it's out of our hands. That's why you need prayer. God bless you bro. I will keep her in my prayers. You have a beautiful daughter and family. Thanks for sharing your story of her and this fight she has ahead and let's pray she will pull through. We're all a big family here and I'm sure a lot of us will keep her in our thought's and prayers. TedsofBeverlyHills and loaderXI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
AthenA Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 I'm very, very sorry to hear this Loader. I wish her only the best and you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. ... and remember to still be strong for her loaderXI, KaptCrunch and TedsofBeverlyHills 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
RobMc Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 Hey buddy I'm not normally a praying man, but she will get my prayers, think positive. loaderXI, SnullerDk, TedsofBeverlyHills and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaptCrunch Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 thoughts are with you, so your not alone in this, keeping good thoughts and prayers TedsofBeverlyHills, loaderXI and coolmd 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WeednFeed Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 We’ll add her and all of you to our prayer list. Wayne loaderXI, coolmd and TedsofBeverlyHills 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Crack Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 PRAYERS MY FRIEND TedsofBeverlyHills and loaderXI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
YACCster Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 So sorry to hear about this @loaderXI I wish the best for her. TedsofBeverlyHills and loaderXI 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SGTSmeg Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 @loADERJr>XI<, so sorry to hear about this. Keep the faith, we'll we be praying for you all! loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Morris Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 Sorry to hear your news, try and remain positive as miracles do happen, we will send you all our thoughts and prayers from across the pond. loaderXI and coolmd 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
bds1961 Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 Prayers for her, you and the entire family loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Majbasil Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 SO so sorry! Scary news! Isn't it wonderful that it was discovered though? Now they can be working on fixing things up so she will have many, many, many more years! I am always amazed at modern medicine and what they can do nowadays. Try not to worry, let her know how much you love her. You are a great dad. loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 This is heartbreaking to hear, I'm so sorry. I'll be hoping and wishing for a transplant for her loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Labob Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 hoping for the best for your family Loader loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Snap Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 So sorry to hear. Its worse for you as a parent. Prayers help so Ill add mine to the others. loaderXI and coolmd 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
HudsoN Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 prayers for your daughter and family. keep faith in God and were all keep praying. loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TBB Posted January 20, 2021 Share Posted January 20, 2021 So sorry to hear about this - prayers for your daughter and family - stay strong we're here for you loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Timmah! Posted January 21, 2021 Share Posted January 21, 2021 Will keep you & yours in my prayers. Tough news. loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WldPenguin Posted January 22, 2021 Share Posted January 22, 2021 Keeping you & your family in my thoughts and prayers, loader loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
kleinehexe Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 You and your familiy in our prayers.... loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Butch58 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Keep the Faith Loader. Thoughts & Prayers for you all. loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Evil-Monkey Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Thoughts and Prayers my Friend loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
HarryWeezer Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 Hope for all the best for your lovely daughter. Keep the Faith! loaderXI 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
