A few months ago I was talking to a couple of my friends who happened to be ladies. I asked them what they looked for in a guy when they were looking for a partner/mate/husband. One thing they each told me really has me puzzled, cause I do not understand what they really mean by it. For information purposes only by their own admissions neither one of them are real good character judges. They told me that they didn't like a guy for a long term relationship that was, "too nice." Sorry but I have never heard that before in my life, and most ladies I know complain that their men are not nice enough and they refer to them as "jerks". Would some of you ladies please give me your opinion and tell straight out which you would prefer? I know all about the looks and all that stuff, but what about the personality of your man? where does that rate in your assessment of what you really want him to be like. Remember if he's not nice when you meet him he is not going to change> Now I give you the microphone and fire away so not only me but all us men have a better understanding what you really want.