Bigmeandean
My roommate tells me that there is a place in California Lompock (pronounced-Lompoke) that has all the aforementioned criterion. Only about 70-80 degrees in the summer and nice all yr long and its a relatively small town.
Is a nice little town.....if you wanna live in a prison town That prison holds some serious offenders.
California would be your best bet Bushape somewhere like San Diego...just turn on the golf tourney going on there this weekend, and check out the weather they're having! or in the Napa Valley......like Napa, or Sonoma! Beautiful weather, low crime, good schools, and relatively close to some of the Most Beautiful places in the World!