First, thanks Sun for the continued work in sorting out the server, I know it's a pain in the ass.
Couple of observations: first, it's impossible to NOT spawnkill in this game the way they have set the dynamic spawning system. I don't know of anyone who bitches because they are occassionaly spawnkilled. I know if you run a circuit around a map in free for all, for instance, you can catch someone spawning right in front of you 2 or 3 times. The problem is when a person sets up on a known spawnpoint and camps it for an extended time period. If you are not doing that, in my opinion, you're not doing anything wrong.
Second, the "hacker" moniker gets thrown around in TS alot. Most of the time it's good natured ball-busting, but maybe some people aren't taking it as such. last, it's very difficult to really "see" someone hacking. I've played almost 400 hours and I've only seen 1 definite hacker in our servers and that was last night. I've seen some fishy play, but nothing that could conclusively be seen as a hack. IMHO, if you are going to seriously accuse someone of hacking, you'd better have some damn solid evidence to back it up.
People are always going to bitch on TS, hell, I do it too, when they are getting smacked around by someone in game. I don't have a problem with it, it's part of the game. I don't take it personally when people bitch about my style of play, but if you do, maybe people should just tell the other TS members to lay off for awhile. I haven't heard anyone intentionally trying to piss anyone off in TS when I've been on.
My poorly thought out 2 cents.