BigPapaDean Posted December 31, 2012 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1217 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6581 Content Per Day: 1.17 Reputation: 4444 Achievement Points: 63855 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Posted December 31, 2012 It seems that there are people who have children that they try in their own way to teach them wrong from right! Yet for whatever reason the child refuses to obey. They go around with a chip on their shoulder with the idea that nobody is their boss and no one and I mean no one will tell them how to behave or what to do. I have one of those. They think you should respect them while they walk all over you and disrespect you. Some of them venture onto our servers here and I for one would love to digitally reach out and slap them into the next server for permanently banned players. Then I read an appeal from a friend of one of these kids dad. I was really touched and felt so horrible for this man. Yet I know we are not, nor can be baby sitters for these kids. I am torn between trying to help the dad and beating the kids ass with my digital ugly stick. I understand the rules and that we can't make exceptions just because they are our friends, but it doesn't mean we can't have emotionally activated feelings for the poor parent whether it be a mom or dad. Here this Dad gave his life in service for our country and his child is fatherless most of that time then when he comes home unable to do things with him the child doesn't understand that the dad is disabled and can't do normal stuff fathers and sons do. So he acts out anyway he can to strike out at his dad! It wouldn't matter if the dad could actually whip his ass he would still act this way. Why? Because he is angry at his dad for being this way. It makes no difference if the dad can't change how things are just that he is not able to have the normal relationship fathers have with their child. I know this is not an excuse for misbehavior but it is reality of their lives. Rugger I believe you did the right thing concerning this and gave the poor father a second chance. I want to thank you for this for the father and his friend. I hope that this does not happen again. Just my thoughts for all you idiots to read and ponder. Awards
hxtr Posted December 31, 2012 Member ID: 220 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 147 Topic Count: 595 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 16950 Content Per Day: 2.93 Reputation: 13538 Achievement Points: 129714 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 120 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 26, 2023 Birthday: 04/05/1970 Posted December 31, 2012 i was very lucky. both my kids gave me no problems growing up. they did great in school and both are still great young adults being productive is the cruel world we live in. Then again I was expecting at least one of them to be like me so i made sure the did their homework and trust me... you can pass off past homework as new with me. hahahaha. But God new I could not handle one like me. For sure it would have sent me 6 feet under or 182.88 centimeters for you metric heads. lol Not sure I 100% understand the entire context of this message nor do I want to... but i get the gits of it. Nicely spoken dean. BigPapaDean 1
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