Brother its real tough when this happens, specially when kids are involved , But, There is a purpose for everything in life. When one door closes another one opens..
I have not seen my daughter since she was 2, she just turned 17 , I face book message her her about 2 years ago, when I finally found her (friend of family actually did) , it took her that long to answer me back.
Her first question was..Why was I not there? When her mother left she everything in her power to denied my access , even accused me of trying to throw her off a balcony, Yeah..That fucked up,
She even legally took my last name of her. I try to explain to her briefly what happen , even showed her pictures of her brother and sister, she was excited to talk to me, we agreed to talk next day, only to find out I was now blocked from her profile, Thanks to mommy again for sure..
Explains my bitchy attitude there for a while..
I hope this does NOT happen to you and dont wish it on my worse enemy.
What I am trying to say here brother is. Try your BEST so divorce goes as smooth as possible and you get see those kids..Be smart and patience brother..
Good luck to you my amigo..
Here if you want to talk..