Everything is always better in moderation. A drink or few is alright brother, smoking some ? a great way to ease the pain.. pills and other nonsense ? HELL THE FUCK NO MULE !!!! Women are mystifying creatures brotha and dont ever let one get you down ! I feel where your coming from because ive been there and at this moment im teeter tottering on that subject. Just give it some time, not to be cliche but time does heal all wounds...its just sometimes the wound is deeper and takes more time. But keep your head up, revert back to your family and friends that stuck thru it all and thats where youll find what your missing. One love brotha and please... dont do anything stupid we love ya too much !