That is not what is happening. We want people to speak their minds, but do it in a different manner. If there is an issue, try to deal with it outside of the server and not cause drama in the server. The server is there for fun, not drama.
The culture on the server needs to change. There are far too many hacking accusations happening on the server. It is rude to call out someone for cheating on the server. As other people have stated before, don't do it in the server. If you suspect someone, get ahold of an admin, and ask them to check it out. If you can't find one, get a demo and send it to an admin. As soon as one person calls out someone, mob mentality takes over, and things deteriorate from there, and that is what we are trying to avoid. We have had many people chased away (including members) from our servers because of constant accusations from members and non-members. If someone new comes to our server and sees the accusations all the time, why would they want to come back?? We probably look like we run a shitty server to them.
It isn't easy to change a culture. It takes time, and there will be growing pains, and this thread is a perfect example. It will be a group effort on the part of everyone: admins, members and non-members. Us admins are trying to figure out how this will all work too and how to best bring about changes, and we will make mistakes, and people will get pissed. We don't have all of the answers, so we need help from everyone.
The direction we are trying to move towards will make our server far superior to what it already is. And if things don't get better, Rugger will break out his whip and chaps, and I'm pretty sure we don't want to see that.