I'm am very very sorry to hear this. Nothing can really be said to express how all this must feel for you and your family, and I can not express in words my feelings on the subject either. I will prayer for your family's strength and will to get through this tough time. I think it is safe to say that all of us here at XI are here for you in anyway we can be of help. Hang in there, and don't hesitate to lean on us when you need a steady hand.
And to not overshadow a glorious event, congratulations on the birth of your adorable son Zander. He is precious and I am sure you do not take that for granted. =)