Thanks all for the kind words and prays means alot too me . my dad had 3 major stokes to go along with multipable minor T. I .A .S , and brain cancer will all have loved ones that go thru this , we all need to rember why we are here and to enjoy life ! just spent 5 hrs with my dad . HE was asleep most of the time but talked to him anyway , hope he heard the words, felt the touches and knew i was there for him and my mom . I always ask my kids what have you done for someone else today , make a memory to put in the old brain box and heart ! will never ever forget my mom kissing my day today ,her holding his hand telling she loves him ......... thanks again all