Sorry Gator, but I really don't see your point here. I have no problems with having one, I even use it in my own advantage...
In my opinion the whole thing has to do with respect. If someone lost a family member or a friend from cancer and you know that you would never use that word to "insult" that person (insult in a funny way like we do a lot in cod4). If you have a problem with some words I will not use them for you and neither should others. In respect for you. On the other hand, you should respect that people don't feel offended and you should respect that as well.
Also, a personal attack goes futher then just calling someone a (read whatever you like). All of us get frustrated sometimes and sometimes you let that frustration out. No biggie to me. As long as you don't keep it going in a long lasting argument. We are human idiots after all.
Third, SOB you prick get back on the cod4 server asap!
Regards,
MissD