i dont condone drinking of anything, smoking of anything and illegal drugs and pot is illegal IMO... I dont even allow anyone to smoke in my house and if someone is to drive me and my kids they cannot be on the cell while driving or not even smoke in the car with me and the kids....
My brother is an ex druggie, he has done all kinds of crap and he even says pot fucks you up, you cannot think stright, you want to do stuff yet all you do is sit on your ass and say all the wrong stuff... and if you happen to get off your ass, you end up getting hurt or into major trouble with other people cause you cannot think stright. When my brother is around me and my kids he is all clean and he has seen his life improved 100x better, able to hold a job, get his own place and have a better relationship with girls n etc... And my family thanks me for it.
I have tried to drink wine/beer/etc but i just get sick after one sip, i start throwing up constantly... So I am thankful for not being able to drink cause it will cause major issues with family stuff since my dad was a heavy drinker and so is my father in law which is divorced. And i won't let my father in law around my kids when he is drunk since he doesnt know what the hell he is saying, and when he said he hasnt had anything to drink he picked up my oldest son when he was a baby when visiting his sister(my husband's aunt) he nearly fell over a chair and almost dropped my oldest son. I was majorly pissed off at him and even went off on my husband about his dad.
My brother has done a lot of stupid shit so yes my mom called the cops on her own son, I would do the same to my kids.... IMO if you fucked up, i ain't taking cover for your ass for something you have done. I even called the cops on my ex-step cousin for being a pot head and a run away from foster home and came to my house to seek shelter... I don't need stupid shit on my records cause I enjoy working at a daycare. So I don't want to waste my college certificate for teachers aide down the drain.... i give a shit about life....
IMO there are other ways to solve issues without drugs/drinking/smoking cigs/illegal crap..... Seek couseling, listen to music, find a hobby, go outdoors to explore something that you enjoy to look at/whatever, find a job that wont cause you to stress out or whatever.... There are other ways but i think those who look into bad stuff are too fucken lazy and rather "drown" their problems into the crap....
there is a pot head at my hubby's work and he is suppose to pack stuff for shipping when buyers put in their orders, well.... he doesnt do shit, he is too fucken slow, gotten orders wrong, packs stuff wrong, doesnt make sense when he talks or when told to do something he just stands there and says "oooooooh", a hoodie kind of guy and he stinks of pot... and the guy wanted to take 4/20 off as well but his boss declinded. My husband is going to talk to his boss to see about getting that guy fired. and my hubby is the "manager." Since his boss fired his ex wife who was the 2nd person in charge.
sorry for this being long and for the way i see it n etc but its fact that it does mess you up..