I'm back, thanks everyone for the good wishes. Angel how am I suppose to contact you ? lol I have no number for you. 1,500 miles, in my van seemed like two days. Hmmm I guess I was lol Drove down and back with my daughter's half brother Dave who had driven in from AZ and looked me up. We got there about 7 AM Sat morning. Discovered my daughter not at home but we found her when Dave decided to see if the neighbors at the bottom of hill knew where she might be. Then I hug and kiss my daughter, she's crying. Us 3 walk up the hill to the house and I see this guy walking up the hill after us. I ask my daughter who is that is and she says Chris and I say who is he and she tells me that he's her husband. Surprise surprise. This I did not know. We are sitting on the steps and he walks over and extends his hand for me to shake. Eric said I looked at him like he was a snake. I refused his hand. I looked him in the eye and had a few words and asked him if we were clear. If I had to come back I would be leaving with his balls hanging from my review mirror like a pair of fuzzy dice. Now Dave is about 6'3" 220lbs and solid and he wanted to play some baseball with Chris but I said no this is just a friendly warning. Chris seem to take it to heart that we were concerned and would do what ever was necessary to insure my daughter's happiness. We orded my daughter a new land line phone since her cell phone had seem to have vanished and she has to stay in contact or else we visit again with a purpose and solution. I try to be nice but some people just won't let you.