I can understand what you are saying and agree with the majority of it. The people I am not happy with are the ones who say one thing and then do not follow up on it. Over the last few months I have asked for advice from some of our members and they have responded and helped me out and at the time I HAVE THANKED EVERYONE OF THEM because I really do apreiciate their help.
But I do not agree with the people who say they would make a donation or such and then never follow up that is wrong and is not the way to do things.....
On another note I really do understand the way you are feeling.. I have 2 step children who have the same problems no sorry gifts you have. One is AUTISTIC and takes everything that is said to him litterally as if it was law the second has ADHD, ADD. AND OCD and gets very frustrated when things do not happen his way or if people let him down. All i can say is Please just take a minuite to relax and chill with your girl leave the computer alone for a little while and things will be better I promise ...
Things always seem worse when you feel let down and used, just realise some people just do not understand that a promise is a promise to someone with ADHD or ADD there is no in between only black or white. So to them I say if you make a promise follow it through or just say THANK YOU its only 2 little words but it means a hell of a lot.......