Syckle Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 2694 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 115 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 424 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 322 Achievement Points: 5513 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 07/26/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 16 Birthday: 08/11/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted November 6, 2013 the ex just told me that she was thinking about leaving the state with my two boys in tow! i told her no F@#%$^g way!!!!!!!!!!!!! she flipped out and refused to talk to me after i told her to stop yelling at me. now, i need legal advice ,,my boys are old enough to choose where they live but i get a feeling she is going to make this as difficult as possible i have heard about a group of pissed off lawyers who are also fathers who started a group to help fathers like me protect thier rights , anyone ? i need thier contact info , any help at this moment, i will not let that woman leave with my children, they are 13 and 15 and this is a bit too late for thier mother to decide to remove me , i have also asked them about it and my oldest says he will not go and the younger says " moms crazy" help! im not panicking yet but its coming! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
loaderXI Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 71 Topic Count: 392 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6420 Content Per Day: 1.19 Reputation: 6496 Achievement Points: 54364 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 30 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 04:05 PM Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted November 6, 2013 You need to file in Court asap a motion for partial (shared) custody and inform them of her threats to leave the State... That in its self will prevent her from leaving the state and if she does she will be charged with parental kidnapping and contempt Do not tell her or anyone that will advise her of you doing so.... File tomorrow morning as they open the door do not put this off.. The sooner she is served the better Your children are old enough to decide where to live I wish you the best and above all else keep a level head and kill her with kindness loADER>XI< Angel and baldie 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TBC_Shaggy Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 3440 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 29 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 106 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 83 Achievement Points: 812 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/13/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 26, 2018 Birthday: 02/12/1967 Share Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) You need to file in Court asap a motion for partial (shared) custody and inform them of her threats to leave the State... That in its self will prevent her from leaving the state and if she does she will be charged with parental kidnapping and contempt Do not tell her or anyone that will advise her of you doing so.... File tomorrow morning as they open the door do not put this off.. The sooner she is served the better Your children are old enough to decide where to live I wish you the best and above all else keep a level head and kill her with kindness loADER>XI< Kill her with kindness don't work. Maybe it will make him feel better as she sticks it in his bum. The courts (overall) are still biased to the Female gender when it comes to child custody. Get a lawyer and get one quick. That part I do agree with. Edited November 6, 2013 by TBC_Shaggy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loaderXI Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 71 Topic Count: 392 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6420 Content Per Day: 1.19 Reputation: 6496 Achievement Points: 54364 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 30 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 04:05 PM Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted November 6, 2013 True Shaggy but the Courts now favor a father that comes forward 1st.....Been there done that with a Attorney in the back ground....By the way that was a few years back when they really favored the Women and she had 2 Attorneys...The killing with kindness throws them all in a loop as they do not want you happy Angel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
CobraBites Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 2313 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 330 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 4924 Content Per Day: 1.02 Reputation: 3034 Achievement Points: 33897 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 03/19/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 2, 2017 Birthday: 05/26/1974 Share Posted November 6, 2013 loader has the best advice....i would do wat he says immediately....cause as it stands...mom always has the ability to move out of the state and the law will be on her side Angel and baldie 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Canadian Posted November 6, 2013 Member ID: 822 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 87 Topic Count: 317 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5477 Content Per Day: 1.03 Reputation: 5025 Achievement Points: 42632 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 20 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2023 Birthday: 03/01/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) Loader is absolutely right. You must act quickly and be "stone cold", no emotions here. Courts are biased, but your kids don't wanna go with her. Good luck!! and remember, no emotions, no tears. Your kids are human beings, not property Edited November 6, 2013 by Joe Canadian Angel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Tri0xin245 Posted November 7, 2013 Member ID: 19320 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 55 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 51 Achievement Points: 409 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/26/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 18, 2014 Birthday: 04/04/1990 Share Posted November 7, 2013 You need to move fast and start file a case at the court and file for custody. Talk to an ACTUAL layer near to you, find one that specializes in that category. Best of luck man, I've known too many people who got screwed up as a child because of stuff like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel Posted November 7, 2013 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 132 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4316 Content Per Day: 0.80 Reputation: 2955 Achievement Points: 34774 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 18, 2021 Share Posted November 7, 2013 Get a lawyer asap!!! U can also file for temporary custoday I think as well. Wish you the best. As for an organization like your talking about, every state..usually county has a place like that. Search your local phonebook or maybe Chamber of Commerce could help guide you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syckle Posted November 7, 2013 Member ID: 2694 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 115 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 424 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 322 Achievement Points: 5513 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 07/26/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 16 Birthday: 08/11/1965 Device: Windows Author Share Posted November 7, 2013 thanks all!, contacted a few people tenetively and i forgot we have joint custody, ( though she has 75% physical) so i think i got a good base to stand on,,, we will see,,, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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