I wasn't going to respond to this, but I can't help myself.
Here we have five pages of Idiots wishing Zoe and Brotinde all the best. Obviously, they have many friends here and are highly respected. Yet, they have made a decision to leave this community, apparently (I'm just guessing here - I don't know the details; and if I'm wrong, I apologize) because of a problem with just one or two members.
Why would you walk away from a large group of friends because one or two of them have pissed you off? Would you walk away from your family - your real family - because of one or two bad apples? No, you walk away from the bad apples, and keep your family intact.
I am offended when long-time XI members leave this clan and a bunch of their friends only because of a personal problem with a few. In effect, we're being told that because one or two of us have given offense, that all of us can go to hell, that all of us are being cast out.
It seems like an immature decision to me, and a hurtful one. It seems like there was not a real and deep commitment to the folks who make up this clan. I get pissed on occasion too, but I would never leave XI because of that.