The bottom line is we were raised differently and so many post's here ring true for me and my upbringing.
I tried to raise my 2 kids the way I was raised but with so much bad parenting going on its hard to explain to your kids why the neighbor kid gets away with anything. Like LOM I taught my kids respect because I feel that if a person has respect for elders, the law, women, teachers, nature, other kids ect. then that's a good foundation for being successful. How many boys do you see hurry to open the door for a lady or elderly couple . . . . . rarely.
There are some things that are better now but there is something special about how we were raised and one day scientists will look back on that period in time and scratch their head trying to figure out what went RIGHT.
The hand basket is here the world is lined up to get in . . . .. next stop . . . . .HELL (the world is going to hell in a hand basket)