ok Il just tell you this,my oldest son has alot of issues with his aspbergers and was a hyper and extrmily adventurous and sneaky when young.He would climb over child gates unlock doors and run out of the house if you didnt watch him 24/7.You would turn around and the kid was gone...Im talking he was 4 yrs old .He had another infant sibling at the time so watching him was a chore and taking care of baby and home...I had to put hook latches ontop of all the doors and exits ...it was crazy...once he got out and we found him 4 houses down playing with the one box of legos the older couple had in storage in there basemant closet..they herard something and found him .once he wanted to swim in the neighbors pool.they called the police ...once while visiting my mom in another town we were all together in her backyard and the next moment it wa omg where is wes...he went across the street walked thru the house and was in the backyard eating cake and icecream at a kids birthday party he heard....we wree so scared he would wander off someday because he was so curious or got distracted ...so
we were just like that demon of a mother you insulted..YES we put a kids leash on him whene we had to cart up the whole family and go to the mall or public shopping so he wouldnt dash .ya know it worked and we may have gotten some looks and never a shit comment from someone that has no clue btw-but its better then loseing my son in the middle of nowhere and being on the news later that day...so next time perhaps politely mabe just ask why and not just insult someone dealing with an obviously awkward for them situation that you are prejudging