Kush, when I suddenly found myself looking at dating again after 28 yrs of unhappy marriage I couldnt understand women at all as far as what they wanted from men. I had two very close friends, both women, tell me that they don't like all sweet all the time. Its like having to much sugar its an over load. I didnt understand that thinking as both women had come from horrible relationships where the men were asshole pigs! I decided I couldnt be any different than I was so I would just wait and see what happened. One day this beautiful woman the kind I had dreamed of since I was a young boy walked into my life and we are now madly in love and she tells me I am everything to her as she is to me also! Your a young man and dont let anyone change who you are and yes Kush you are someones diamond that they are looking for but dont have any preconceived ideas what she may be. If they leave its their loss and you dont need them anyway! Hang in and it will happen but enjoy the ride!