Absolutely right, unfortunately buddy this is a regular argument
1/. Yes seen this a couple of times where the admin changes without a vote, or worse you count the votes too and it goes the other way. What can also be confusing can be the way they call the vote, some say do you want to play the map or do you want to skip, Yes then has two effects. Please type 'Do you want to play this map, yes or no'
2/. Spot on, we have some fantastic larger maps that we hardly ever see because of the run and gunners
3/. Map skipping stopped but apparently is reappearing, needs nipping in the bud now, what is worse is that many times members want to play and are voted off their own servers, that is ludicrous.
4/. Dream on, if they don't get their own way the dummy comes out the pram