I know I'm far from your favorite player on here... but really, I do understand the frustration in trying to get things done. However, this is why patience is called a virtue. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference. Acting out when things don't go your way doesn't do anyone any good. I don't know how this will come across, but try to believe I don't want it to sound like I'm "piling on" This is not my intent. I'm really am trying to come at this as more of a peace maker. You are a great asset to the clan, and have been for a long time. Whether you are told this or not, your efforts ARE appreciated. That being said, I have a hard time seeing the equivalency between being told to lighten up on your bashing of senior admins and someone threatening to show up at your house and kick the crap out of you. Most especially when it is a man saying this to a woman. NOT COOL. While we all know the odds of this actually happening are slim to none, it is still not comfortable being on the receiving end of such a threat. It would be like me, younger, stronger, and with 20+ of martial arts training, telling you I'm going to come to your home for you. While unlikely, you would be a fool to not let it weigh on you a bit... This is NOT the same as what you've mention. So I beg you... implore you even, with whatever friendship we once had, and for your own good and the good of the clan.. lets this go a little bit, and go along to get along some.. could you please?? For everyone's sake.
My $0.02... bash away if you must.