BigPapaDean Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1202 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6536 Content Per Day: 1.25 Reputation: 4421 Achievement Points: 63517 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted January 3, 2011 A few months ago I was talking to a couple of my friends who happened to be ladies. I asked them what they looked for in a guy when they were looking for a partner/mate/husband. One thing they each told me really has me puzzled, cause I do not understand what they really mean by it. For information purposes only by their own admissions neither one of them are real good character judges. They told me that they didn't like a guy for a long term relationship that was, "too nice." Sorry but I have never heard that before in my life, and most ladies I know complain that their men are not nice enough and they refer to them as "jerks". Would some of you ladies please give me your opinion and tell straight out which you would prefer? I know all about the looks and all that stuff, but what about the personality of your man? where does that rate in your assessment of what you really want him to be like. Remember if he's not nice when you meet him he is not going to change> Now I give you the microphone and fire away so not only me but all us men have a better understanding what you really want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Blackbart Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 51 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 51 Topic Count: 342 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5974 Content Per Day: 1.11 Reputation: 3766 Achievement Points: 45818 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 27, 2021 Birthday: 06/26/1949 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Are you kidding?...It's not about what they want in a man it's about what we want in a woman...LMAO...J/K...Sorta... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
AyeAyeRon Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 1371 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 348 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 1906 Content Per Day: 0.37 Reputation: 585 Achievement Points: 14042 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 04/26/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 2, 2018 Birthday: 03/01/1990 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Lemme tell ya... im labeled as the sweetheart, and the nice guy. Women love to take advantage of nice guys.... they they bitch that all guys are assholes. to simple put my friend (who is a girl) said that flat out.. "All girls are evil, i dont kno why we work the way we do, or do half the dumb things we do... were just evil." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angel Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 132 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4316 Content Per Day: 0.80 Reputation: 2955 Achievement Points: 34774 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 18, 2021 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Well I do like the nice guys....but I must admit I did take advantage of him and I think thats what ruined our relationship. But I have also had the "bad boys" and they didnt work for me either. But my guy now...hes what I have been lookin for. Hes fun, knows how to make me laugh, even when Im bitching at him....its just that something that clicks. He is a good guy and this time, I wont take advantage of what I have...Im gonna keep it this time. Personality is the key....u have to click together. My opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudSr Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 5 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 359 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 2475 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 242 Achievement Points: 16234 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 25, 2020 Birthday: 02/02/1966 Share Posted January 3, 2011 dean,dean,dean, that's like asking what is the meaning of life. is there a real true answer. just find a women who drinks beer. loves Nascar. takes all your shit and only hits you in the head with a beer bottle every now and then and you will be fine. God i love Mrs.Bud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arrienn Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 669 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 77 Topic Count: 150 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1478 Content Per Day: 0.28 Reputation: 289 Achievement Points: 10375 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 11/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 8, 2018 Birthday: 06/28/1984 Share Posted January 3, 2011 What I would take that as is not that women dont want a nice guy. I know I do. I think not "too nice" meaning to me, not one that lets you completely walk all over him. Never disagrees, never challenges you in any way. If I had a guy that was that "nice", I would get annoyed and bored really fast. As for whoever told Kush that all women are evil, I would have to disagree. I think there are alot of them that are, and those tend to be the ones that are "louder" than the others, thus giving the impression that we are all that way. Thats my 2 cents. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Malificent Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 38 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 92 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1255 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 7228 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 11/06/1971 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Man...all I know is if you keep thinking about relationships and what you want...it won't happen! Love yourself first, do what you wanna do, be who you are...don't change for a relationship, that's why it will end...you weren't your true self. When and if it happens, being honest is the key...and not just to the other person, but to yourself. Every person on this planet has a bad side...its up to the person that they are with if it is worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kilroy45xi Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 105 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 603 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 2 Achievement Points: 3524 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Share Posted January 3, 2011 They aren't intelligent enough ta know what they want...... It's up to US MEN to tell them .....LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malificent Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 38 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 92 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1255 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 7228 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 11/06/1971 Share Posted January 3, 2011 killroy45xi They aren't intelligent enough ta know what they want...... It's up to US MEN to tell them .....LMAO Well I'm intelligent enough to know what you wanted this evening.... Guess who has the power now?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kilroy45xi Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 105 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 603 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 2 Achievement Points: 3524 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Share Posted January 3, 2011 Well honey I'm just letting you think that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malificent Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 38 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 92 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1255 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 7228 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 11/06/1971 Share Posted January 3, 2011 killroy45xi Well honey I'm just letting you think that. Oh really?! I'm just letting you "feel" that.....won't be "feeling" it tonight sugar plum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudSr Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 5 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 359 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 2475 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 242 Achievement Points: 16234 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 25, 2020 Birthday: 02/02/1966 Share Posted January 3, 2011 killroy45xi They aren't intelligent enough ta know what they want...... It's up to US MEN to tell them .....LMAO LMFAO. good 1. oh shit here comes the bottle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kilroy45xi Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 105 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 603 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 2 Achievement Points: 3524 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Share Posted January 3, 2011 LMAO.....Woman I knew i was gonna bone you that first phone call Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malificent Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 38 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 92 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1255 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 7228 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 11/06/1971 Share Posted January 3, 2011 killroy45xi LMAO.....Woman I knew i was gonna bone you that first phone call You hoped... You got lucky snookums...I sent you packin the first date though. Threw you for a loop! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudSr Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 5 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 359 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 2475 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 242 Achievement Points: 16234 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 25, 2020 Birthday: 02/02/1966 Share Posted January 3, 2011 phone sex now were talkin. what is c-bags # again. i need a fill in for next sunday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kilroy45xi Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 105 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 603 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 2 Achievement Points: 3524 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Share Posted January 3, 2011 Again.... I let you think you sent me packin..... One more kiss and you would have melted in my arms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damage_inc- Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.36 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted January 3, 2011 tru dat. many women always want the bad boys.nice guys get walked over and taken advantage of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
killgirl Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 687 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 10 Topic Count: 32 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 442 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 17 Achievement Points: 2604 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 24, 2019 Birthday: 02/21/1970 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Nice guys finish last. If you know what I mean Just kidding...Not really. No seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickTheGrip Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 177 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 16 Topic Count: 145 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1669 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 281 Achievement Points: 10581 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2023 Birthday: 05/08/1961 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 3, 2011 Two of my ex-wives said the same thing to me - all women are evil bitches, so I have to go with the consensus. LOL (hope those bottles can't cross state lines Bud - my soon-to-be ex#3 uses dishes and such. She won't waste the empty bottles on my hard head because they are worth 10c each here in MI) Having said that I think the main thing you have to understand is that women just plain think different to men (in general of course) Men think with their head (not always the one on their shoulders) and women think with their hearts. If you treat a woman as if they think like you, then you will fail real fast (trust me, I know) What Mal said was closest - just be yourself. If that is not what they want, it is not meant to be. They need to be attracted to you, not some fake version of you that you manufacture to please them. BTW Dean, if you ever do figure out the "secret" let us all know before you are "taken out" ha ha ha ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
ShadowLady Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 25 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 27 Topic Count: 111 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2250 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 136 Achievement Points: 12871 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 10/30/1969 Device: Windows Share Posted January 3, 2011 Smart Ass Answer: I like men with lots of money...the rest I can work on...rotflmao! I don't know what is the true answer Dean.... All I know...is I have to "Click" with him. So far... my "Clicker" hasn't been very successful considering my current situation. But I hope that maybe this time it is working right....lol -Shadow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
wahoo4 Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 192 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 29 Topic Count: 26 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 105 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 32 Achievement Points: 911 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 17, 2022 Birthday: 09/22/1974 Share Posted January 3, 2011 LOL Dean women do want nice guys, but what they don't want a push over or a weak minded guy. They want to know their man is strong in mind and body. It don't matter if you are superman or not. It's about what they perceive about you. Say no at times, even if they get mad, they will love you for it and they will test control over you. Don't give in all the time. If they can push you around so easy then it's weakness. Are you smart enough to stand up to their jedi mind games? One more thing, they don't really want to know how you feel! LOL Never ever give them your deepest toughts or feelings. Anything that makes you look weak! lol Don't do it, lol, they say they want to know but they don't. lol My wife sometimes test me, she don't even know she's doing it. In her deep women like mind she asking are you strong enough to be my man. Does she feel safe? They want a rock and foundation, be it, and confindence is everything. Sometime it don't hurt to tell her how it's going to be and how your going to have your way with her. lol Good luck. PS on that last part, timing, read her body language after you say that and test the waters. Hate to see someone get charged with rape. lol Legal notice here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
kleinehexe Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 107 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 29 Topic Count: 95 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1215 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 685 Achievement Points: 8562 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 20 Birthday: 02/11/1972 Device: Android Share Posted January 3, 2011 Hehehe...very funny to read this......Its interessting what you all think about this here.. I can speak now for me here: I have a man (Dr. Bakke ) since 19 years now, and we make fights and we make discussion, we have good times and we have bad times..this is the real World..But we found all the time together..He is my Partner, he is my Lover and he is my best friend...This is what a Man make it out..same as a woman....Sure womens think in a other way as a men, but this is the great note from all^^ When you will have a dream Partner, you must backed yourself^^ Its not going.... ask nothing from your Partner, what you can give yourself, than you had a good live together.... greats from germany hexi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Milky Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 1786 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 37 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1062 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 729 Achievement Points: 7865 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/11/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 28, 2023 Birthday: 07/21/1985 Device: Windows Share Posted January 3, 2011 Women wants a mixture (in general) between George Clooney, Brad Pitt and a bad boy.. If you are to nice you are going to get curled around their fingers.. if you are too rough you are going to pay alimony the rest of your life.. if you are too charming and good looking you are going to have a jealous MONSTER who will chew every single woman you talk to.. If you got to much money she is going to rip your money away from you and then dump you for the younger and better looking pool guy (only kidding here) but all in all you have to be yourself and no mather what if a woman wants you for good and the rest of her life she wont let you off.. the only thing thats for sure here women are from Venus and men from Mars.. and only in very few occations we will understand each others.. very very few.. but here and there it happens and glorius relationsships comes out of it.. And girls this wasnt an attack on you.. just what ive learned from my girl friends over the years.. its good to be the fly on the wall when going of to town or a party and sitting with a few of the girls (or a lot) that you consider friends they will let you in on the most odd wierd and funny things!! from that perspektive i think i know women quite good and im still lost!! hahahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
chavez Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 206 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 43 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 705 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 149 Achievement Points: 4266 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 17 Birthday: 11/29/1961 Device: Windows Share Posted January 3, 2011 I like the conversations from killroy and mal . Nice couple ,rofl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Unchileno Posted January 3, 2011 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 109 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 8133 Content Per Day: 1.51 Reputation: 6747 Achievement Points: 61498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 04:01 AM Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 3, 2011 killroy45xi Again.... I let you think you sent me packin..... One more kiss and you would have melted in my arms. Geeez..get a room..lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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