I thought it'd be a good idea to clue you into why I may be a little quiet for a while or absent from the servers.
If I'm not my usual happy self, please don't think you've done anything to offend. I'm hurting.
I got in from a great dinner at a restaurant, last night, switched on the computer and read a simple "RIP" on a friend's
Facebook profile. It was no secret that he was ill but the latest assessment was that he was in no immediate danger.
No, I found out, by chance, that my friend of 25 years, had died a week previously. I'm numb and shocked and sad
I had to find out this way. At least this time I didn't read about it in the newspaper - that happened to me 30+ years ago.
So, as well as having to deal with the emotions I am feeling, I am now treading on eggshells with a late expression of
condolences to his wife and family who must have thought me a heartless bastard for saying nothing for a week or more.
As one gets older, one has to suffer the pain of losing friends more often - that's life, I know, but it doesn't get any easier.