Thanks boss that"s explained it fine, I do not know who he messaged but he certainly verbally told some of us which server he was playing on, although he never insisted I play on it, at least to me. However fact is I do occasionally play on others servers, which many of our members do also, I also play with my tags on unlike a couple of others I've seen on occasion. On that particular server he was on, there were at least two current admins and three current members playing there also at times, under real or assumed names, never once did I hear him recruiting, but you got the feeling he was unhappy with XI, that is true.
Your explanation about recruiting is fine, and a just punishment, enforced by all clans but does not explain why he left in the first place. Chile has a point, he was a bit possessive, but not over the top, but he did devote himself to that server. Hopefully we will move on now, but if he apologises he deserves a second chance, I am now curious as to who -grassed' on him? human beings eh?