Yeah, I was the admin in game with you this evening. You called out another player on his gaming style, in particular shooting through walls. I noted that there was nothing technically wrong with that strategy. As a matter of fact, there is a pre-game tip built right into the game that speaks of different materials and being able to shoot through them. We all laugh at (or lament over) certain of those materials, like leaves, that seem impervious to heavy caliber rounds in some of the maps, but the long and short of it is, shooting through things to kill others is certainly allowed. I've made many a kill shooting up through a floor or through a wall because I was certain there was someone up/over there. Sometimes it pays off, other times not.
The map we were in this evening was a "kill house" map, or others might call it a "meat grinder." It was the one with nothing but cargo containers in a small enclosed yard for those who are reading this and weren't there in person. Anyway, it's a small, target rich environment and shooting through a container wall has a pretty high probability of hitting someone. Not a strategy I would personally choose, but I saw the same person you commented on doing precisely that. Whatever.
But here's the thing, you made a snarky comment, and rather than warning you not to be criticizing that person's style of game play - for which we have a specific rule against - I simply noted shooting through walls was not disallowed. But here's where it got icky for me, you replied with something like, "Yeah, well it's all being recorded." To which I noted that if you had a problem with a certain player, you need to bring it to the attention of an admin, which I also noted was me at that point in time. As you said you were only recording your own game play, I let it go and let it be at that point. Nevertheless, it still felt "icky" to me. Now comes this post from you.
I'm sorry if you've battled with gaming addictions in the past or in the present. It sounds like you want to play in an honorable manner, but it also sounds like you get quite engrossed in the competitive ambiance of the whole thing. I respect and commend you for your comment about taking a step back and remembering it's all just a game. Others will play as they choose, and we all have our individual styles of play. Some styles may not enjoyed by some others, but that notwithstanding, it surprises me when some players take such exception to another that they walk away when that person comes into the server. Sorry, but this isn't Second Grade; we are adults and can make adult decisions.
Now you may not take it to that extreme, and I'm not one to evaluate whether you have a game addiction problem. What I can tell you is that it's your choice to be in the games on XI servers or any one else's servers around the internet. An even keel is appreciated by all players and admins alike. And the latter are there to ensure the servers are being enjoyed by all who enter. When you believe something isn't right, we are there to moderate, mediate, or just plain kick some moron in the ass who is not "getting it." Making passive-aggressive commentary about other players is only likely to bring about a festering sense of poor sportsmanship among all those playing with you. I'd suggest against that. Instead, come to the Admin team and let us do our job - even if that means you get told there's nothing out of sorts with another player or their style of gaming.
See you in the maps.