First try to understand that beers server is his server and he can do as he pleases.
As a COD5 admin I would not go into his server incognito looks like your spying. REally don't do that. Use your name and tag drop the admin from it though. Can't say he won't ban you from anger but you stand a better chance of playing.
If you use the saying I just wanted to play with people I know and they were in his server. PFFt sit in our server people will come might take a bit but they will come.
Yes Beers still has a hurt butt what do you expect the time and effort he applied to XI is WOW . Might take some time for the kick wound to heal. I'm sure DJ is hurting a bit to anybody drop him a hello lately ? Its a two way street. So want players less drama would help.
If your a head admin or an old admin who was not a friend or fan your banned already. He does know how we work. I do not know the story of his ban or the process of how it went down but I would think there was a good chance it went to a vote. I can see it so can Beers . People voted against him he does not know who so your banned through association .
Want all this to go away ? Just drop it and try to get along with everybody. Forgive and forget. Things have a way of sorting themselves out.
And that's not how you do it. All that does it add another row of bricks on the wall. And he can not see this , members section.
Anyway the game is dying no need to keep kicking it on the way down. Lets all be nice now you too Chile