Thanks Sammy, I can deal with abusive people both mentally and physically, been doing it all my life, it is more attitude, this is a popular server, but very aggressive at times, a perfect example is just now, I played on it about 2 hours ago, then went to Acemod, joined Freezetag 146 said good morning (I have to type wifes asleep) - nothing (no response), did same on Acemod and everyone came back with hi Rob, greetings etc. Now the sensible and easy thing is to never go back, but I'm going to play, enjoy playing and sod them, miserable c...s! Of course the majority on there are great people, and you get some laughs, but what I'm talking about is my perception after playing all COD servers, perhaps WAW freezetag is the one for me, only tried it once. You would have to meet me to realise I am not the type to be intimidated, but I've never been a bully and try to be pleasant and helpful, remember it's a game, if you want to live your fantasies on it go elsewhere, facebook or something like that.
Update, went on 3 hours later and the atmosphere couldn't have been more different, enjoyed it, like most things in life a few people spoil things!