DEEJAYKEG Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.10 Reputation: 4985 Achievement Points: 50728 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11, 2024 Posted July 22, 2010 I thought it'd be a good idea to clue you into why I may be a little quiet for a while or absent from the servers. If I'm not my usual happy self, please don't think you've done anything to offend. I'm hurting. I got in from a great dinner at a restaurant, last night, switched on the computer and read a simple "RIP" on a friend's Facebook profile. It was no secret that he was ill but the latest assessment was that he was in no immediate danger. No, I found out, by chance, that my friend of 25 years, had died a week previously. I'm numb and shocked and sad I had to find out this way. At least this time I didn't read about it in the newspaper - that happened to me 30+ years ago. So, as well as having to deal with the emotions I am feeling, I am now treading on eggshells with a late expression of condolences to his wife and family who must have thought me a heartless bastard for saying nothing for a week or more. As one gets older, one has to suffer the pain of losing friends more often - that's life, I know, but it doesn't get any easier. Awards
WiZiD Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 804 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 446 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 3600 Content Per Day: 0.64 Reputation: 1053 Achievement Points: 24386 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 11/28/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 26 Birthday: 04/25/1960 Device: Windows Posted July 22, 2010 I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I as well got an email that my step father passed a week after his passing. That was so cold. Things just dont seem the same anymore with my biological mom. I hope you can look past that. Hang tight. Awards
BlackOp8 Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1440 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 588 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 3170 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/23/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 01/18/1986 Posted July 22, 2010 sorry about your friend
loaderXI Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 72 Topic Count: 396 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6439 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 6582 Achievement Points: 54661 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 32 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Posted July 22, 2010 Very sorry to hear of ur loss of a dear friend...Everything happens for reasons nd most times we never know why...I can speak for myself here as I know the feeling all to well finding out too late or so it seems is never a pleasent feeling but rest assure bro ur dear friend knows how u felt about him nd the grief u must feel...I moved from my home town almost a year ago nd many friends have past on that I have had life long bonds with nd to be honest I think at certian points in our lives death is always to close or was for me atleast...It had become so common that i found myself at someones funeral once a week nd it had really started to affect me mentally...I hate saying good bye nd when u lose someone real close its hurts like hell to say it...So my friend cherish all the great memories that u have shared nd rest easy ur friend knows now maybe more then before how u feel nd if u have others give them a hello nd share u love nd respect for them with them while they r still here...We all have become so caught up with our lives that people will slip away from us ..... All the best loADER Awards
AyeAyeRon Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1371 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 348 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 1906 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 585 Achievement Points: 14042 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 04/26/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 2, 2018 Birthday: 03/01/1990 Posted July 22, 2010 im sorry deejay, i recently lost a brest friend. More than that he was like my brother i had known him from the 3rd grade when he moved here in fed of 09 he wrecked his car and took so much impact and trauma to the head and chest it had to be a closed casket. im very sorry for your loss brother. i have a tattoo on my calf of a peace symbol with his initials over it to remind me everyday that life is not guarnteed and that the life we know is fragile. Awards
chavez Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 206 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 43 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 705 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 149 Achievement Points: 4266 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 27 Birthday: 11/29/1961 Device: Windows Posted July 22, 2010 sorry to hear this sad news deejay. Awards
Arrienn Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 669 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 77 Topic Count: 150 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1478 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 289 Achievement Points: 10375 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 11/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 8, 2018 Birthday: 06/28/1984 Posted July 22, 2010 I completely understand what your going through. I just lost my Mom to stomach cancer last week. If you need or want to chat dont hesitate to hit me up on xfire. Hang in there. Awards
Iron Belly Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1493 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 16 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 314 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 40 Achievement Points: 1885 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/09/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 14, 2016 Birthday: 01/14/1965 Posted July 22, 2010 So sorry to hear about your loss and Arrienn's as well. Hang in there. We are grieving for you. Tears.....
Unchileno Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.13 Content Count: 8139 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 6768 Achievement Points: 61591 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: Android Posted July 22, 2010 Hang in there m8...You might have lost a friend...but ..you have gain many more here...When a you are ready to talk..We are here to listen. Arrien this goes for you too ...Sorry about your lost guys.. Yours Truly UnChileno.. Awards
ShadowLady Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 25 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 27 Topic Count: 111 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2251 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 136 Achievement Points: 12883 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 28 Birthday: 10/30/1969 Device: Windows Posted July 22, 2010 Sorry to hear about your loss...........you are in my thoughts. -Shadow Awards
Dark Asylumn Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 809 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 41 Topic Count: 252 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2840 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 1032 Achievement Points: 20424 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 06/25/1979 Device: Windows Posted July 22, 2010 sorry to hear for your loss. It seems the lord has called quite a few of our friends and family home recently. My prayers will be with you and the family Awards
WolfTiS Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1130 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 28 Topic Count: 216 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2267 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 586 Achievement Points: 17291 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 12, 2021 Birthday: 04/02/1948 Posted July 22, 2010 Sorry to hear of your loss Deeja. Like Loader said, as we get older we start to loose more family and friends around us. I know it doesn't help but that is part of life. I know what you are going through bro as I lost my brother last October and he was 2 years younger than me. Sometimes life just doesn't seem fair. Awards
RAMBOS SON Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 960 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 22 Topic Count: 87 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 634 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 159 Achievement Points: 4341 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/01/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 16 Birthday: 05/03/1963 Device: Android Posted July 22, 2010 Sorry to hear of your loss Awards
Bushape Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 83 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1334 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 64 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 12, 2020 Birthday: 07/17/1958 Posted July 22, 2010 Sorry to both of you on your losses. It is really tough to lose someone you love. Beleive me they know how you felt and that is the main thing. I had a few people pass away that I never got a chance to tell them how I felt, so for the ones that meant something to me or changed my life some how that were left I wrote a letter and told them, they all ready knew. It makes me wonder about my own mortality, with all of the problems that I have. I may not survive another trip to the hospital. I hope that I do but you never know. Just remember you have friends here and that also helps keep me going as well. Hang in there it only gets better. See you in the games, Bushape Awards
DEEJAYKEG Posted July 22, 2010 Member ID: 1238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.10 Reputation: 4985 Achievement Points: 50728 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11, 2024 Author Posted July 22, 2010 Arrienn I completely understand what your going through. I just lost my Mom to stomach cancer last week. If you need or want to chat dont hesitate to hit me up on xfire. Hang in there. Thanks, Arrienn, and to all others who have responded. You're all true friends and I appreciate it. Arrienn, the cruel twist to this is that my friend was suffering from cancer of the oesophagus. He was being treated with chemo and doing OK in between treatments. I have now been told that he was admitted to hospital for an unrelated matter and contracted an infection (in the UK infection control is a major problem in hospitals due to private contractors doing the cleaning). He could not be stabilised and passed away. I feel for you, sister, as I had to cope with my mother going just a few years back. One never gets over it, or stops missing them. It's just the religious faith keeps one going - I hope to see her and my other loved ones again eventually. I love you all. Awards
Pharticus Posted July 23, 2010 Member ID: 1320 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 7 Topic Count: 37 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 611 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 357 Achievement Points: 4498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 22, 2024 Birthday: 01/14/1976 Device: Windows Posted July 23, 2010 So sorry to hear of the loss of your loved ones DeeJay and Arrienn. Three weeks ago I drove to Arkansas to bury my granddad. His funeral was more of a celebration than mourning as we all knew he would pass on soon, however, I still miss him. Mourn your loved ones and cherish your memories. Kudos to the Idiots for taking care of family! Awards
Flash Posted July 23, 2010 Member ID: 234 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 2 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1064 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 191 Achievement Points: 6692 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 20, 2016 Birthday: 04/16/1993 Posted July 23, 2010 Man i am so srry deejay.. thats probably the worst way to find out that your friend passed. i hope you feel better. Awards
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