Here is your problem (read slow):
You have listed on your website profile your xfire username as 'Logan XI', but that username does not exist in xfire.
Your username is 'commandoh', your nickname is 'Logan XI'.
Get with RockApe to fix your website profile, or edit it yourself. To do that, go to your profile.. click 'edit' at the bottom and change your xfire username to 'commandoh'. Whoever is now keeping up with xfire users can add you to the xfire list as 'commandoh'. Your nick name is what will show up in the xfire list.. so you should change your xfire nickname to: *COD2 Logan>XI<ADM. That way, you will show up where you should at the top of the XI xfire list. (if you don't know how to do that.. ask)
Once all that is settled, you can log on xfire and peeps will see '*COD2 Logan>XI<ADM' online. This is all completely separate from your ingame name, which I assume is 'Logan>XI<ADM' in a COD2 server.
Get with one of your Head COD2 admins if ya need help, or give me a shout if I'm around. 'ptbama' if you dont have it in your list already.