unionjackk Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 2383 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 42 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 210 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 85 Achievement Points: 1562 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2012 Birthday: 01/25/1970 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) I am home finally after a week or so in the hospital. So this is what I know for sure. My appendix ruptured and had it removed i also unfortunately lost part of my abdomen and part of my lower intestine.I had a small molignant tumor removed. I also have been told that i can no longer drink alohol so they gave me a buch a pills to cope with pain .I have 2 optons 1 I can go through extensive chemo and radiation therapy or wait it out and hope my body is strong enough to fight the good fight.I also can not return to work anytime soon and depeding on well I cope it could be indefinately.I wont miss the alcohol as much as i'll miss work..I have lost so much in my life and lord knows it hasnt been a good and easy life but it's mine and damnit im gonna fight for it every misserabl litle inch of it.My dailly routine will consist of rest and pills with occasional clinic vissits. It's ironic we can spend millions of dollars to send a robot to mars but we cant find cures for the things that affect us down here on earth. For those of u that have kids or wives and husbands u should hug them and say you love them no one know what tommorow brings or exactly when our last moments may be so do all the things you want to do today. To my freinds Rat Chris sgt scott and especially Boomer I just want to say thank you I know I can be annoying in games at times and say smartass comments but you guys have always been there for me just by listening and asking how I am. I appreciate it .I hugged my baby girl today and litteraly started crying to me familly is everything and its not fair for her not to understand how much i love her I hope I can stick it out long enough for her to be old enough to thats what I wish for well we will see how hard I can fight when have to Cheers and thank you for your kind words Edited August 15, 2012 by unionjackk BigPapaDean, PingLo, genvonsyks and 7 others 10
little_old_man Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 1194 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 436 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6692 Content Per Day: 1.21 Reputation: 11691 Achievement Points: 53094 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 76 Joined: 02/27/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 16, 2023 Birthday: 04/15/1960 Posted August 15, 2012 Keep fighting Jack. The fat lady hasn't started singing yet and it sounds like you have a lot to live for. Do what the doctors tell you and just keep fighting. We'll all be here pulling for you and cheering you on. Sonovabich, loaderXI and genvonsyks 3 Awards
DEEJAYKEG Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 1238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.10 Reputation: 4985 Achievement Points: 50728 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11, 2024 Posted August 15, 2012 You have won the first battle of the war, mate, and have the positive attitude to overcome this. Take it easy and recover speedily and fully. My wife's boss is coming to the end of his chemo (at the age of 30) having won the fight! Live well and, when you are recovered, enjoy life! I wish you all the very best. BigPapaDean, coolmd and Unchileno 3 Awards
Unchileno Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 101 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.13 Content Count: 8139 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 6768 Achievement Points: 61591 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 21 Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Posted August 15, 2012 You made it home brother..Now NO one can take that away from you..Look around...Those are people that give you strength and love..Embrace them and keep fighting..we are all here pulling for you..Dont Give Up..Good luck brother.. BigPapaDean, coolmd, loaderXI and 1 other 4 Awards
HarryWeezer Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 20166 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 611 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 7655 Content Per Day: 1.81 Reputation: 7232 Achievement Points: 53682 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 36 Joined: 10/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 26 Birthday: 10/16/1946 Device: Windows Posted August 15, 2012 You WILL kick its ass!!!!!!!!!!!!! genvonsyks and BigPapaDean 2 Awards
Noears711XI Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Posted August 15, 2012 You did good my Brother and that's the way to look at it, keep up the Good fight for your wife and your daughter you will see this through. You and your family are in my prayers my brother. BigPapaDean 1 Awards
Flezno Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 3305 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 67 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 32 Achievement Points: 443 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 23, 2019 Birthday: 07/28/1986 Posted August 15, 2012 We need more people like you in this world. My best regards to you and your family. Keep up the fight.
Fire Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 496 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 282 Topic Count: 227 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3249 Content Per Day: 0.57 Reputation: 1083 Achievement Points: 22334 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/23/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 5, 2017 Birthday: 10/26/1969 Posted August 15, 2012 Glad that your home safe and sound UnionJack with your wife and daughter i know you can get through this m8 and i,ll keep my fingers crossed for you. Awards
Gatorgirl Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 2986 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 206 Topic Count: 384 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6456 Content Per Day: 1.31 Reputation: 7140 Achievement Points: 50711 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 21 Joined: 11/13/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Sunday at 12:32 PM Birthday: 12/19/1967 Device: iPhone Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) You have been and continue to be in my prayers!! Keep the positive attitude!! Great to see you on tonight!! Edited August 16, 2012 by Gatorgirl BigPapaDean 1 Awards
Super Max Posted August 15, 2012 Member ID: 558 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 57 Topic Count: 577 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 3788 Content Per Day: 0.67 Reputation: 1487 Achievement Points: 29091 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 10/14/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Sunday at 11:00 AM Birthday: 06/09/1964 Device: Windows Posted August 15, 2012 Keep fighting Jack. +1 Awards
unionjackk Posted August 16, 2012 Member ID: 2383 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 42 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 210 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 85 Achievement Points: 1562 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2012 Birthday: 01/25/1970 Author Posted August 16, 2012 Keep fighting Jack. The fat lady hasn't started singing yet and it sounds like you have a lot to live for. Do what the doctors tell you and just keep fighting. We'll all be here pulling for you and cheering you on. Thank you n know my mother in law cant sing. and i my wife will make sure i follow doctors orderscheers BigPapaDean 1
unionjackk Posted August 16, 2012 Member ID: 2383 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 42 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 210 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 85 Achievement Points: 1562 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 25, 2012 Birthday: 01/25/1970 Author Posted August 16, 2012 You have been and continue to be in my prayers!! Keep the positive attitude!! Im always postive even in my darkest moments i dont believe in freting over things we cant control I mean life is basically like a crap shoot u roll the dice and make the best with what u get thnk you for your compassioncheers
asasn8r Posted August 16, 2012 Member ID: 1515 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 21 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 5 Achievement Points: 162 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/20/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 17, 2024 Birthday: 08/09/1949 Device: Windows Posted August 16, 2012 Unionjackk, Once you have made it home from the hospital you have won the first half of the battle and the second half is easier as you go! My wife was in the hospital for 6 months with the first 3 in intensive care because of that dreaded disease. That was over 2 years ago and she is doing great, every day is a battle but eventually you will win the war. PM ME if I can help in any way. You will remain in our prayers. asasn8r AKA Tom PS I live close to Scott and Boomer if you do let me know Damage_inc- and BigPapaDean 2
Iron Belly Posted August 16, 2012 Member ID: 1493 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 16 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 314 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 40 Achievement Points: 1885 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/09/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 14, 2016 Birthday: 01/14/1965 Posted August 16, 2012 My friend Jack, get well soon, Like I told Boomer, half the battle is a KICK ASS ATTiTUDE! You, like Boomer, Have an endless supply. So KICK SOME ASS. See you soon. BigPapaDean 1
brat Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 22348 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 44 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 242 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 54 Achievement Points: 2010 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 6, 2016 Posted August 21, 2012 I am praying for you and Manthis! My mom has had breast cancer twice (17 years apart) and lived. She kept a great attitude and we were able to laugh as a family. I know that is one of the things that gave her the strength to live. Cancer is a nasty thing but there are huge medical advances being made. I tested positive for the breast cancer gene and was able to have preventative surgery. 10 years ago that would not have been a possibility. I am praying God will give you and your family peace, comfort, good nights sleep and tons of smiles and laughing! Damage_inc- 1
Damage_inc- Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.27 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Posted August 21, 2012 (edited) brat is correct its all about attitude and living life to the fullest.Having a great" Im gonna kick this thing in the ass attitude",will significantly help yourself as well as your family.Just be strong for yourself and your family.. gl mate Edited August 21, 2012 by Damage_inc- Awards
loaderXI Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 72 Topic Count: 396 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6438 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 6581 Achievement Points: 54654 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 32 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Sunday at 03:49 AM Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Posted August 21, 2012 Bravo Jack !!!1 Modern treatments now can do many things....My mother in-law was given a few months to live with stage 4 cancer 3 years ago and has fought very hard and is doing pretty dam good....Rap yourself in that flag and love those close to you never give up and enjoy every second my friend... God bless loADER>XI< genvonsyks 1 Awards
BigPapaDean Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 1128 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1210 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6553 Content Per Day: 1.18 Reputation: 4430 Achievement Points: 63653 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 18 Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Posted August 21, 2012 I am at a loss for words, but I am praying for you! I pray you will conquer this terrible thing and see that precious baby grow up! I pray that you can have an enjoyable life as you beat this thing. I pray, "May God bless you!" genvonsyks 1 Awards
genvonsyks Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 203 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 37 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 178 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 55 Achievement Points: 1659 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 9, 2012 Birthday: 02/19/1966 Posted August 21, 2012 My prayers are here for you to , mate. You gonna win this one.
Hunter1948 Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.62 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Posted August 21, 2012 Best of luck to you Jack. Never say Never you can win alot of things just being possitive. Prayers go out to you. Awards
Shamu Posted August 21, 2012 Member ID: 715 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 418 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 2178 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 1183 Achievement Points: 16606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 2, 2023 Birthday: 11/04/1943 Posted August 21, 2012 I am impressed. There is more fight in you than I think I would have in myself. Your attitude will go a long way in helping you in such a difficult time.
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