Angelz Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 24295 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 2311 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2829 Achievement Points: 20239 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 17 Joined: 03/27/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 2, 2021 Share Posted October 6, 2020 I have spent the last month helping my youngest daughter who just had a baby. She has been having a very rough time. She went to the hospital this morning and they told her she is going through a very bad case of postpartum depression. She can't sleep or eat and she is suffering from anxiety. They gave her sleeping pills and made appointments to get her help. She said, "Mom, how do you know so much? They said almost word for word what you have been saying to me all along." I just told her I didn't get to 62 years of age without learning things. She is a lot better now and she is coming to my house to sleep. FUNky, EastCoast50, AthenA and 15 others 12 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 28144 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 32 Topic Count: 26 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1146 Content Per Day: 0.74 Reputation: 1417 Achievement Points: 28306 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 01/31/20 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 2, 2021 Share Posted October 6, 2020 Sorry to hear she's going through such a rough time. It's good that she has such a supportive mother looking after her. baldie and Angelz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loaderXI Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 252 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 71 Topic Count: 392 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 6417 Content Per Day: 1.20 Reputation: 6494 Achievement Points: 54337 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 30 Joined: 09/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 01:37 PM Birthday: 03/22/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted October 6, 2020 I am glad she is doing better and im sure she is so very greatful to have you as Mom...Funny how knowledgeable we become with age...Perhaps she could self blog her difficulties and someday share with others to maybe help them come thru their own postpartum depression...In any event Congrats to you both on the new baby ! baldie and Angelz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Labob Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 42 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 50 Topic Count: 338 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 8265 Content Per Day: 1.54 Reputation: 5977 Achievement Points: 53618 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 01/30/1959 Device: Android Share Posted October 6, 2020 Thats a long road and she will get better as the baby grows and her as well. Mothers are so strong. baldie, loaderXI and Angelz 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angelz Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 24295 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 2311 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2829 Achievement Points: 20239 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 17 Joined: 03/27/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 2, 2021 Author Share Posted October 6, 2020 2 hours ago, loaderXI said: Perhaps she could self blog her difficulties and someday share with others to maybe help them come thru their own postpartum depression... She belongs to 2 mom groups on facebook. She told me once she is over this she is going to be sharing her story with them. She said she does not want any future mother to feel they going through the same as her alone. She has thanked me many times for being there for her when she needed me. I told her that's what moms do. No matter how old the children are their moms will will always be there for them no matter what. blackcat, baldie, BlackRose and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBB Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 989 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 265 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 18136 Content Per Day: 3.47 Reputation: 20152 Achievement Points: 132909 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 263 Joined: 01/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 41 minutes ago Birthday: 01/27/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted October 6, 2020 Hope she gets better soon - so important that you are there for her. Angelz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted October 6, 2020 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.74 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Device: Windows Share Posted October 6, 2020 Hopes she feels better soon soon. My daughter is going through some stuff as well. Angelz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BlackRose Posted October 7, 2020 Member ID: 2208 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 305 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3619 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 3944 Achievement Points: 37737 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 54 Joined: 02/09/11 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 06/09/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted October 7, 2020 yes there is no MOM book,,it all come from life experience,,sending hugs as this is one of the roughest time for a new mother,,please keep an eye on her!!!!! Angelz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angelz Posted October 8, 2020 Member ID: 24295 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 2311 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2829 Achievement Points: 20239 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 17 Joined: 03/27/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 2, 2021 Author Share Posted October 8, 2020 The colick part is over. The baby has slept for 7 hours for the last 3 nights. The cries have stopped. My daughter still has issues though and is getting help for them. I hugged her and told her how proud I am of her that she has managed to get through one of the most intense stages a new parent can experience. I told her to pat herself on the back for a job well done. WeednFeed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rexbowan Posted October 10, 2020 Member ID: 27522 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 13 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1914 Content Per Day: 1.00 Reputation: 1564 Achievement Points: 13391 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 01/25/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: Wednesday at 04:21 PM Birthday: 07/22/1951 Device: Windows Share Posted October 10, 2020 She is lucky to have a supportive mother. Good luck. Angelz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angelz Posted October 18, 2020 Member ID: 24295 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 2311 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2829 Achievement Points: 20239 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 17 Joined: 03/27/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 2, 2021 Author Share Posted October 18, 2020 Nice to see her laughing after all the crying she did... BigPapaDean and WeednFeed 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeednFeed Posted October 18, 2020 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 39 Topic Count: 345 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2333 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 3799 Achievement Points: 24047 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 35 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: iPhone Share Posted October 18, 2020 (edited) Now that’s a beautiful baby right there! A gift from God. Nice to hear mommy is feeling a bit better too. Edited October 18, 2020 by WeednFeed BigPapaDean and Angelz 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BigPapaDean Posted October 19, 2020 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1196 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6519 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4407 Achievement Points: 63373 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Thursday at 10:08 PM Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted October 19, 2020 Angelz, I remember my ex had that pretty bad on our 3rd child. She had me running all over town getting her this and that and we were in a bad financial state as well. I look back now and she has gone on to other things but that baby is the only one of the three that wants to come by everyday. BTW I write about the experiences I have with depression and have even shared it here a time or two. I found out there were a lot of young people here that was suffering from it as well and had no idea what it was. Sharing has some great results so keep encouraging her to share with whom ever she feels to. Angelz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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