My mom passed away

[BuddyChrist]

so sorry to hear boombom.

[daniel]

Sorry for your loss Boomboom.

It always sucks to see loved ones pass away, I hope you can find a way to deal with it.

For me it helps to keep remember the good things they tought us, and be thankfull for the time I could spent with them, the way you talk about your mother...she must have been a very good woman!

again, sorry for this big loss!

[Damage_inc-]

so sorry to hear.please share a story about your mom with us when you can.

[STAMINK]

Sorry for you and your families loss Boom

[ausimatador]

so sorry ...My heartfelt condolences...

[Big Banana]

hey buddy  bomebome so sorry to hear that about your lost,......my father is  passed away a week ago, i have to same feeling as you right now!!!! My condolences and i have prayd for you and for your family!!   i am glad to hear that your mom spenned some time atleast for 2 month with your son!!  sorry again!!

let me know if you wanna talk about something! with me or other in ts!!!

 

 

 

[dipsy1 xi]

Sorry for your loss,our condolences and prayers for you and your family.

[TheDrimpXI]

shit sorry boom, condolences and prayers for you and your family

[Roxy!]

I gave you my condolences at that time and again I give them to you today .... it is never easy to lose someone so close to the heart, especially in this times of the year a lot of memories came back ... hold in there my dear friend, I'm in here to hold your back. XI family is with you!!

[Morris]

So sad, there are no words.

 

[GUMP61]

So sorry for your loss bud. My family prays for comfort for you my friend. Sending much love to you and your family this Holiday season.

[Ramistar]

Sorry for your loss - prayers to you and your family

[Joe Canadian]

Sorry for your loss iboom, receive my sincere condolences

[NITRO]

Sorry for your loss Boom, my thoughts are with you and yours.

[iboomboom]

On 12/23/2017 at 4:19 PM, Damage_inc- said:

so sorry to hear.please share a story about your mom with us when you can.

This is more of a story of me keeping the poor woman on her toes. I was five or perhaps six years old. She wouldn't let me go out to play with my friends until I finished my homework and locked me in my room. We lived on the 5th floor in a residential suite. I had a window with no child protection bars (good old days) that opened next to  an outside water/sewer pipe. I finished my home work, tried calling her but she was busy in the kitchen which was downstairs so she couldn't hear me. I tried everything I could to unlock/break the door but to no avail. Then I remembered watching Rambo repelling down on a hill with a rope in an action movie. The movie scene made an impression on me and as a child I thought it to be possible and true. I had an idea, I could do the same with that pipe. The challenge was to reach it without losing grip in the window. I was too young to know how this was the stupidest idea ever. I leaned out the window extended my leg  to use my toe as friction point between the wall and the pipe. Then when I was confident I leaped in grabbing the pipe with my both my hands and putting my feet on the wall. I was so proud that I did that. I slowly descended down went to the bike locker got my bike and had a merry time with my buddies.

I was not allowed to stay out after sunset so I came back and now I wanted to figure out how to go back up there. I climbed 2 times and fell half-way thru the first floor. The third time I reached just about the first floor and fell again, fucking gravity.  I believe this was a 6-7 foot fall. I felt a current go thru my legs when I landed on the ground, it was cemented ground. At this point somehow some sense came to me that if I fall from the 2nd or third floor I might die. On the other hand my mom may or may not kill me for this. I was willing to take that bet. So I go home, I ring the bell, she opens the door and I am just ready to get my ass beaten up.  To my surprise she greets me with a smile, "Oh you're back, good. Go wash up and I will bring milk and cookies to your room". For a moment I couldn't believe it, but then without showing any reaction I quietly chased up the stairs thinking I got away with it. Just as I reached the top step, she came back running up to me. I think it finally hit her. She  grabbed my hand and took my outside my room. The door was locked, yes they had a lock outside my room as I used to sneak out. She looked at me and looked at the lock and as asked me how did I escape. Now, she taught me never to lie, even if it hurts you, a good person will always speak the truth. For whatever reason lessons such as those stuck with me. However, I wasn't that brave to, so I said "I was very  quiet". She's starting to lose her mind, I think at this point she had begun to consider the "impossible" but was in denial. She unlocked the door to my room, kept checking the door up and down and then the open window caught her attention. She had that look on her face, that said no-way. She looked out, looked around, looked at the door and in a timid voice asked me, "Did you go out the window?" I was caught, couldn't diplomat my way out of this, so I came clean and described the entire adventure. She had tears running down her cheeks, she suddenly started slapping my face but it didn't hurt. Then she hugged me so tight that actually hurt. Then she says to me, "don't you ever do that to my heart again. You can go play any time you want, I just need to know that you're Ok". I told her that I tried calling her but she didn't come up so I solved my problem a different way. Sufficed to say mom dad never locked me again and then put bars on my window. 

It wasn't the last time I did something like this, falling of a 10-foot roof, getting my arm pierced by the metal rods on a security fence, getting electrocuted, sneaking in to a military compound, chased by wild hogs while trying to hunt then with my homemade bow & arrow, falling of my bike going downhill etc etc. I didn't make her life easy but she still gave me room to grow, to travel, and explore. Every time something bad happened I just remember how she always cared and loved me, her sweet face would calm my woes. The strongest love that exists in this world is between a mother and her child. I am thankful I grew up knowing what that feels like.

If you read it this far, thank you.

 

Also, thank you everyone for sharing your experience and the kind words, they were comforting.

 

With Much Love,
~iBoomBoom

 

 

 

 

[WldPenguin]

Loved reading this, Boom.......through my tears I want to say that this is what we need more of around here........we can have our fun, make our jokes, but at the end of the day, what we play is just a game, while outside of all that, life happens.  Hearing about your mom, and all of the other stories so many of our members share, is what can keep all of the other nonsense in perspective..........

[Icequeen]

What Penguin said. Thanks for sharing a little something about you and her.

[Damage_inc-]

great story thanks for sharing and celebrating your mothers life.she will always be with you.