Bama Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 19 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 101 Topic Count: 318 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4444 Content Per Day: 0.82 Reputation: 2763 Achievement Points: 29399 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 11 Birthday: 02/29/1968 Device: iPhone Share Posted June 5, 2011 Bushape, even though the news is grim.. as you well know it could have been a lot worse. Hang in there bro, and help her through recovery. Im prayin for you and the wife. Give us a shout anytime if we can help in some way. Godbless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Bushape Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 83 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1334 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 64 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 12, 2020 Birthday: 07/17/1958 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 I really want to thank all of you. I didn't get much sleep. It is almost 7:30 PDT. I am just getting my day together and do some things around here and then head to the hospital. She is one tough person, I wish I was as strong as she is. I have gotten a lot of my strength from her. When I was having health issues, she would always tell me to do this or that. And you know us guys, you don't want to listen, especially if your wife is telling you to do something. Well I probably should of listened because she was right. So now I have to have the role of making sure she does everything right and get in a decent healthy routine that will be healthy for both of us. I was asked yesterday, apparently they found scar tissue on her catscan. They asked me about anything traumatic in her child hood. And the only thing that I could think of was when her dad knocked her out with a 2 x 4 when she was 9. It also broke her collar bones. And he also raped her that year. So she has had a lot happen to her. At the same time she had to milk 100 cows before and after school, while her parents got drunk all day. It was nothing for them to have a fifth by lunch time. So when I came along, I told them to fuck off and stood my ground. And so she has always looked up at me pretty strongly. And I in return. So I have great impathy for her as well. And there is more to what I mentioned, but I am not writing a book. She is not too bad of looking today by no means, but damn when she was a teenager, son of a bitch she was nice. And as you grow older together, you never really lose that. Even though times and conditions change. She is still the same size as she was when she was 12. That is pretty cool. The most I ever seen her weigh was 126 lbs. when she was pregnant. She has really taken care of herself. I wish I could say that. I want to thank all of you fine people for your thoughts and prayers. It means the world to me. I couldn't imagine a better group of people. Even if we don't know each other, we are here for each other. So for you people that are new to this clan, then read some of the things that these people tell each other in times of need. They are here for you and will do anything that they possibly can. You won't find a better group. This is a testament to this fine family that we call XI. I truly love you people. I will be here forever. I will come back and haunt you when I go. lol Thank you, Bushape Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BiG CheesE Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 589 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 12 Topic Count: 347 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 1346 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 341 Achievement Points: 10798 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/18/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 25 Birthday: 07/04/1979 Device: Android Share Posted June 5, 2011 wish you all the best, your wife seems to be a very strong person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Cpt.TennealXI Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 24 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 42 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1753 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 640 Achievement Points: 12250 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 5 Birthday: 12/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 So sorry to hear this Bushape,you both are in our prayers.Stay strong brother,and don't fret,first life always comes first. Take care and if you need to vent or anything,you know where to reach me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
PHUCKITMAN Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 23 Group: ++ COD2 Admin Followers: 32 Topic Count: 193 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1835 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 1588 Achievement Points: 16159 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 8 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:13 AM Birthday: 08/06/1960 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Wow your love and respect for your wife are obvious and it is inspiring and reminds me to more grateful for my wife. I will say prayers for you both and wish her a speedy recovery but it sounds like she is a tough gal and should do fine with your loving care. Take care of her like she would you,that's your birthday gift to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
CplMOFO Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1924 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 68 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1012 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 101 Achievement Points: 5864 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/26/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 21, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1973 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I second Phucket on that...it's a reminder for me to keep being be nice to my wife or try to be nicer... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TBB Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 989 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 271 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 18295 Content Per Day: 3.48 Reputation: 20347 Achievement Points: 134029 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 273 Joined: 01/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 43 minutes ago Birthday: 01/27/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 My thoughts are with you man - hang in there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Bryuk Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 266 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 21 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 673 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 125 Achievement Points: 3852 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/06/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 20, 2022 Birthday: 11/16/1964 Share Posted June 5, 2011 sorry m8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
LilAcorn Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1818 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 61 Topic Count: 140 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1042 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 556 Achievement Points: 14310 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 06/12/1975 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 damn bushape, sorry to hear your wife is going through this. Like others said we are all here for you, and spend as much time as you can with her and your family members. *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SHADOOW Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1126 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 1 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 679 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 4007 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 07/21/1970 Share Posted June 5, 2011 sorry to hear about mrs. bushape, your both in my thoughts, take your time we'll be here when she is well again i'll be waiting in the shadows for you with my sights on you, HAHAHAHAHAHAHA black ops will be here when your ready Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trolloc Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 143 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 7 Topic Count: 39 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 414 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 26 Achievement Points: 2514 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 1, 2014 Birthday: 08/25/1966 Share Posted June 5, 2011 . I'm very sorry to hear about your wifes stroke Bushape. She sounds like a true fighter and will battle through this too. Thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery. David. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DEEJAYKEG Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.17 Reputation: 4984 Achievement Points: 50727 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11 Device: Kindle Fire Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hugs over the water, Bush'! Wishing you both a good outcome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Renegade45 Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1915 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 33 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 289 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 11 Achievement Points: 1955 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/24/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 16 Birthday: 08/15/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Thoughts and Prayers from the Renegade household ...Hang in there Bush... !!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angel Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 132 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4316 Content Per Day: 0.80 Reputation: 2955 Achievement Points: 34774 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 18, 2021 Share Posted June 5, 2011 OMG! I am glad shes doing ok now. Thank goodness u went and checked on her. I will be praying for you. But plz spend all the time u can with her. We will be here for the fill-in times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damage_inc- Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 2048 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 294 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 6689 Content Per Day: 1.36 Reputation: 4709 Achievement Points: 48999 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/15/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 wow I hope things get better Hang in there.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
X-RayXI Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 133 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 77 Topic Count: 602 Topics Per Day: 0.11 Content Count: 6889 Content Per Day: 1.28 Reputation: 1371 Achievement Points: 44115 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 29 Birthday: 12/12/1971 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Yes, one of the ones in your life that you don't want to read close to you. Buddy, hang in there and you two are so strong together even though you are apart. I hope things to get better for you: tWogether my friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Shamu Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 715 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 418 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2178 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 1183 Achievement Points: 16606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 2, 2023 Birthday: 11/04/1943 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 I am sure all of XI and the guests will stand by you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bushape Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 83 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1334 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 64 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 12, 2020 Birthday: 07/17/1958 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 You people are true friends and family to me. I can be myself in here and just be part of all of this. I really appreciate your concerns and comments. She will have to go through a lot of physical therapy, but I will by her side, as always. We have had our differences and life wasn't always easy together, but we both had a common goal and we stuck together through the bad times. So many people don't do that. They find it easier to give up. In some cases yes and some no. Sometimes it can't be reapired. But if you communicate and can talk to each and try to figure life out from the other persons point of view, then that helps a lot. I have never physically hurt her and I have never called her a bad name. I find her biggest fault was just like her mother's, just god damn stubborn. Get something in their head and come hell or high water, it ain't changing. Just communicate to each other and love will get you through. Enjoy life and your loved ones while you can. Because you never know. I know we all love our spouses more than we would ever let on. It is strange how some tragedies can change a lot of things in life for the better. Kind of ironic. Love you people Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
WolfTiS Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 1130 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 28 Topic Count: 216 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2267 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 586 Achievement Points: 17291 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 12, 2021 Birthday: 04/02/1948 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Sorry I didn't see this post sooner Bush but the wife and I are praying for you guys. Out thoughts are with you and I know how you feel. I don't know what I would do without my wife because she does so much for me I doubt I could take care of myself without her. Take care brother and stay strong for her in her time of need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Nutcutter Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 1540 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 13 Topic Count: 40 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 856 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 100 Achievement Points: 4812 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/28/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 6, 2017 Birthday: 09/20/1969 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Take care of you and your wife Bush, I have been with my wife forever also and cant think of what it would be like to be without my best friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evil-Monkey Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 221 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 85 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1864 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 745 Achievement Points: 12302 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 8 Birthday: 06/10/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 6, 2011 srry i ddint c this earlier .you and your family will be my thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Sweatnbullets Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 213 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 819 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 517 Achievement Points: 5645 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 06/06/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted June 6, 2011 We all feel bad for you two, One day at a time brother. When you need to post post... no apolgies, life throws us some tough shit once and awile, and you will find that other people do wanna help. Take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
FunStick Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 1100 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 164 Topic Count: 165 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1038 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 622 Achievement Points: 9273 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 3 Birthday: 11/30/1980 Device: Android Share Posted June 6, 2011 Bushape You people are true friends and family to me. I can be myself in here and just be part of all of this. I really appreciate your concerns and comments. She will have to go through a lot of physical therapy, but I will by her side, as always. We have had our differences and life wasn't always easy together, but we both had a common goal and we stuck together through the bad times. So many people don't do that. They find it easier to give up. In some cases yes and some no. Sometimes it can't be reapired. But if you communicate and can talk to each and try to figure life out from the other persons point of view, then that helps a lot. I have never physically hurt her and I have never called her a bad name. I find her biggest fault was just like her mother's, just god damn stubborn. Get something in their head and come hell or high water, it ain't changing. Just communicate to each other and love will get you through. Enjoy life and your loved ones while you can. Because you never know. I know we all love our spouses more than we would ever let on. It is strange how some tragedies can change a lot of things in life for the better. Kind of ironic. Love you people Thank you God damn it I Love you!! fucker! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SirJorge Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 1983 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 13 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 81 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 22 Achievement Points: 568 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/18/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 3, 2020 Birthday: 09/04/1974 Share Posted June 6, 2011 I may not be XI but I feel this is like a second home sometimes and I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife. Always keep the positive thoughts going!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2cuteSue Posted June 6, 2011 Member ID: 73 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 111 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 907 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 38 Achievement Points: 5701 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 18, 2013 Birthday: 08/31/1972 Share Posted June 6, 2011 My prayers are with you and your wife bushape!!! My dad had a stroke 2 years ago, he woke up one morning and just knew something was wrong... He is fine today and getting along great as ever!!! It took him some time to get back to his normal self but God Bless he is his normal self.!!! Praying your situation turns out just fine!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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