Twinkie 13 Posted May 15, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 437 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 370 Achievement Points: 3716 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:18 PM Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Posted May 15, 2014 For sale...one heart.... broken, beaten, used, abused, stabbed in the back and drug through the mud. Free to a good home. this is how i feel. twinkie Awards
Gatorgirl Posted May 15, 2014 Member ID: 2986 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 206 Topic Count: 384 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6456 Content Per Day: 1.31 Reputation: 7140 Achievement Points: 50711 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 21 Joined: 11/13/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 27 Birthday: 12/19/1967 Device: iPhone Posted May 15, 2014 Awards
little_old_man Posted May 15, 2014 Member ID: 1194 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 436 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6692 Content Per Day: 1.21 Reputation: 11691 Achievement Points: 53094 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 76 Joined: 02/27/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 16, 2023 Birthday: 04/15/1960 Posted May 15, 2014 I always found that the best way to get over a woman was to get under another one. Leadfinger, ScRiPt3r, Phoenix911 and 5 others 8 Awards
Sammy Posted May 16, 2014 Member ID: 3036 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 219 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 9419 Content Per Day: 1.92 Reputation: 7515 Achievement Points: 62539 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 21 Joined: 11/29/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 04/26/2008 Device: Windows Posted May 16, 2014 I always found that the best way to get over a woman was to get under another one. Just be ultra damn sure to use the right name. Or the safer route, get online and pop headshots into all female members playing your video game of choice. Noears711XI and KingStinger! 2 Awards
Angel Posted May 16, 2014 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4326 Content Per Day: 0.76 Reputation: 2974 Achievement Points: 34860 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 29, 2024 Device: Windows Posted May 16, 2014
Twinkie 13 Posted May 18, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 437 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 370 Achievement Points: 3716 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:18 PM Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Posted May 18, 2014 Packed my whole life in garbage bags and moved in with my brother. Nowhere else to go. No job, no money and no life. 35 and having to start at zero. So depressing. Awards
KaptCrunch Posted May 18, 2014 Member ID: 389 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 48 Topic Count: 316 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4882 Content Per Day: 0.85 Reputation: 4066 Achievement Points: 39497 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 51 Joined: 09/14/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 01/01/1970 Device: Windows Posted May 18, 2014 Twinkie set it free if it comes back then it's to be sometimes people say stuff that they don't mean in a heated argument hope it works out 4u KingStinger! 1 Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted May 18, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 437 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 370 Achievement Points: 3716 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:18 PM Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Posted May 18, 2014 Something told me to login to her skype account and I found out she has bee sex skypeing guys. So there is no telling what else she has done. That is cheating as far as I'm concerned. I wouldn't take her back knowing this now. I would spend an eternity in hell as long as I knew she would be there also. There is no excuse for a spouse to cheat. If they dont want to be married anymore fine but divorce then whore around all you want. She said my attitude was sour. Well on 4-11-11 I blew out 3 ligaments in my left knee and over the next 2 and a half years I was operated on 5 times. And my knee is still screwed up and I can barely walk and can't find a job. I think having one failed operation after another on my knee and all the medications causing me to be depressed that she might be a little more understanding. I think someone that has been through that would have a good excuse to be depressed and upset. Awards
blackcat Posted May 18, 2014 Member ID: 122 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 64 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2852 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 2051 Achievement Points: 21967 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 5, 2024 Birthday: 10/10/1964 Device: Android Posted May 18, 2014 They say everything happens for a reason, sometimes we can't see it. They also say in everything is something good, that's hard to see sometimes also. Your life will go on regardless of the pain and the hurt, Better days are always ahead even when you think it could never be. Stand strong, don't give in and let the past years hard times get the best of you. You didn't ask to be injured,nor cheated on. GOOD things will come to you in time and you will be a better person for having lived thru the hard times. Don't just sit around the house and think about the past, go out even if you have to force yourself, meet new people, surround yourself with postive thinking people. Don't turn to drugs or drinking, nothing gets better there. Once the high is past the feelings and problems are still there. Sometimes one has to hit rock bottom before they realize the only way is up, I can say that I've been there and if I can survive it, you can also. You know you can talk to me anytime you can catch me online. I've been a little busy here lately, but if you need me I will always take time to talk with you. Leadfinger, Wild Fire, KingStinger! and 6 others 9 Awards
Twinkie 13 Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 3003 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 36 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 437 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 370 Achievement Points: 3716 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/21/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:18 PM Birthday: 03/17/1979 Device: Windows Author Posted May 19, 2014 I am so devastated right now. I can't believe I have to start back at zero again. I feel worthless. Awards
Bazza Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 340 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1082 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 393 Achievement Points: 6691 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/10/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 29 Birthday: 06/21/1971 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 I feel for you twinkie... we all do. I have had a similar thing, tho my injury isn't as serious as yours as it isnt fixed as its muscular on the bum affecting the entire back in varying degrees, I also had time away from the wife for 2 years. tho I kept in touch cos I have kids, we eventually got back together. 10 yrs on, i'm still not sure that was the right course, but thankfully I have the fellow idiots and idiotessess to keep me sane. tho I have a inordinately high lvl of being an idiot/child I try to thro myself into finding fun ways to live mostly NOT including the wife is playfull and as much fun and as a boulder. So I hope you keep looking positive, tho it will be hard for a while. Just remember you have the community of nutters here for you if u ever need them. all our Skype/xfire addresses are in log, so feel free to hit us up anytime and DEFINATELY if I get dragged into having intimacy with my wife(20 months and counting......I cant reach from the living room) that would be awesome timing. good luck bro. thinking of you Awards
codpiece Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 5470 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 52 Topic Count: 373 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2509 Content Per Day: 0.56 Reputation: 3609 Achievement Points: 23134 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 8 Joined: 02/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 22 hours ago Birthday: 09/17/1968 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 Dude - this is EXACTLY why god made hookers. To quote Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay for sex, I pay for them to leave." Leadfinger and ScRiPt3r 2 Awards
PimpedOutPete Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 174 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 130 Topic Count: 387 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 15027 Content Per Day: 2.63 Reputation: 8043 Achievement Points: 92206 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 59 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 56 minutes ago Birthday: 04/23/1970 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 I can sympathize with your pain for sadly your not alone. At some point we all have experienced this, being hurt by the one we love or worse, hurting them. The cruelest lies are often told in silence... Having your heart broken is the easy part; knowing when to move on is the challenge. KaptCrunch, KingStinger!, Leadfinger and 1 other 4 Awards
blackcat Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 122 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 64 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2852 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 2051 Achievement Points: 21967 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 5, 2024 Birthday: 10/10/1964 Device: Android Posted May 19, 2014 I am so devastated right now. I can't believe I have to start back at zero again. I feel worthless. You're not worthless, here's something read it and think about it. It has a point. A well-known speaker started off his seminar holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill. He then asked, "Who still wants it...?" Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now, who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air. "My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We may feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE. You are special-Don't EVER forget it." If you do not pass this on, you may never know the lives it touches, the hurting hearts it speaks to, or the hope that it may bring. Count your blessings, not your problems. Nisty*, Gatorgirl, KingStinger! and 5 others 8 Awards
KingStinger! Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 2465 Group: +++ Minecraft Head Admin Followers: 30 Topic Count: 170 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1818 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 1937 Achievement Points: 14560 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/06/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 20 Birthday: 04/17/1972 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 I am so devastated right now. I can't believe I have to start back at zero again. I feel worthless. I understand your pain, i truly do.. Starting at zero sucks hardcore, ive been there. BUT couches, clothes, dishes... ALL materialistic things and easily and i mean easily replaced. Start by replacing things from garage sales and replace them as you get your feet back on the ground. A junky coffee table is still a coffee table so to speak. You can get better when youre life becomes more stable again. Who cares what others think. Now, about what you think... My friend, DONT FEEL WORTHLESS. Why would you feel worthless because of someone else's poor decisions. Statements like this will only bring yourself down. Stay positive, Stay focused. The only reason a person cant see a bright future for themselves is because they clouds there vision with dark thoughts.. Good luck my friend.. Nisty* 1 Awards
KingStinger! Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 2465 Group: +++ Minecraft Head Admin Followers: 30 Topic Count: 170 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1818 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 1937 Achievement Points: 14560 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/06/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 20 Birthday: 04/17/1972 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 The cruelest lies are often told in silence... Having your heart broken is the easy part; knowing when to move on is the challenge. Very well said!!! Awards
KaptCrunch Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 389 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 48 Topic Count: 316 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4882 Content Per Day: 0.85 Reputation: 4066 Achievement Points: 39497 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 51 Joined: 09/14/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 01/01/1970 Device: Windows Posted May 19, 2014 Kat that was bill Clinton Twinkie don't dwell on the past, it will eat you alive, please forgive and forget, get out to meet people, don't mope around Leadfinger 1 Awards
azzkikr Posted May 19, 2014 Member ID: 20697 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 254 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 239 Achievement Points: 2750 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/18/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Device: iPhone Posted May 19, 2014 Twinkie, I want reiterate what was said above, everything happens for a reason and I believe that things always change for the better. The more the difficulty, the more the improvement. Being a believer, I believe that God never puts difficulties on us more than we can handle. In times of difficulty, I tell myself that "Everything I am is because of my God. He is the one who has given everything to me (my strengths/capabilities/knowledge) and He is the one who will carry me forward". In the words of great legend Kelly Clarkson "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger", we all know that you are going to come out strong from this. Keep your head down and plow through the challenges, one at a time, day by day. I know its easier said than done but you know that you have worked hard to get somewhere in life and you got there, so you have the skill to do it and there is more in you. Lots of prayers for you, friend. Awards
tinmann Posted May 20, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 26 Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Posted May 20, 2014 Twinkie, you are in my prayers. God bless Awards
Leadfinger Posted May 22, 2014 Member ID: 4888 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 56 Topic Count: 69 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2020 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 3795 Achievement Points: 26312 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 01/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 29, 2023 Birthday: 08/29/1962 Posted May 22, 2014 Twinkie, OK so you're just a cream filled sponge cake. There are ladies out there that can suck the cream out of a twinkie and not mess up the cake. (just trying to cheer you up buddy) Seriously, something that has been mentioned already is get out and do something . . . anything to keep your mind occupied. Meet new people . . .your local religious hangout (church) is a great place to start . .good people and proper ladies (for the most part) the sooner you start talking to new people the easier is will become. Hang in there . . . you feel like your at the lowest point in your life and perhaps you are . . .But it only gets better from there. @blackcat You are so full of it . . .. . . .good advice that is Are you married? . . he he he you seem like a gal with her head on straight Awards
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