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my nick name is not the best for whish you my sincerly condolences i'm verry sorry to hear that i will pray for you Shamu Innocent

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sorry to hear of ya loss!!!!

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Shamu,

 

I am deeply sorry for your loss.  I can only imagine how losing a wife of forty years would leave an un-fillable void.

 

Sometimes you need close friends & relatives to talk to, but sometimes it helps to talk with people far away & not-so-close as well.

 

While I admittedly don't really know you, I don't feel you are a stranger, either.  ANYTHING you need or want from us at XI, you've got it.

 

For whatever it's worth - you, your family & friends, and Dianne WILL be prayed for by an entire congregation next Sunday in Knoxville, TN - every little bit helps.

 

God Bless.....

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So very, very sorry. My deepest sympathies to all of the family.

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my condolences. sorry

 

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sorry to hear that ..you have always been a great person to play the game with ..hope you are ok ..and if you need to talk i will be here for you ..  it is so hard to deal with this ..as i lost my mom last month and it is hard to think .that the person you love so much is gone ..

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I want to take a quick moment to thank all of you for kind, gracious and concerned replies. I assure you it does help. I find that a community like this is a better support group than anyone can imagine.

 

Today I have taken care of what immediate business needs to be addressed but I sort of dread the gap with not much to do.

 

E-mail and posts have been a good release and some comfort, it just helps expressing things.

 

Right now I would not do to good talking about it. Handling necessary matters has been difficult enough.

 

Don't even ask about being in a empty house, I would not wish it on anyone.

 

With the help of family and friends we will get through this.

 

I have yet to meet with my grand kids, some old enough to understand but maybe not accept.

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All my thoughts and prayers are with you my friend. Take care and you can vent or talk anytime you feel like it. Your family here are always ready to isten

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Oh Shamu, words fail me right now. I'm so sincerely sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Know that many of your online friends are grieving with you.

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Im sorrry to hear this shamu. Im sorry.

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Sorry for your loss,my condolences

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I am sorry to hear,

Not that strange posting, in 2006 I lost someone close to me and I posted on another forum.

I said things I kept from my family because I did not want to dump more on them then they were already trying to cope with themselves.

In a small way it did help me go forward.

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Extremely sorry to hear about this mate,as jimp said XI we will be here for you pal

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Shamu - With Deep Regret

It is with my deepest regret that I must tell you I lost my wife of over 40 years to a sudden and unexpected illness last night at mid-night.

 

I find my self typing here as a form of accepting the facts and grief relief by sharing  my burden with the friends I have made at XI.

 

My family was with me throughout the day Sunday and we leaned on each other for support.

 

I hope this does not seem odd but there are just times you need to communicate, I find this is one of them.

 

In memory of Diane Carlson 4/25/2011

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 My dear Shamu, My heart goes out to you with the most si9ncere condolences I can give to you and your family at this time. I don't know if your a christian or not but I have found a lot of comfort when I have lost dears ones to me the the foowling bible verse Psalms 116:15 -Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. No doubt she was a very special woman and God wanted her to be by His side forever! I amm praying for you anf your dear family!

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Wow...so sorry to hear that.Thoughts and prayers to you and your family at this difficult time.

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Wow Brother I am so very sorry to hear about the lose of you wife. I know the pain you are going through, I lost my wife 6 years. If you ever want to talk PM me or xfire me when you are ready. Talking about what you are going through is the best thing you can do. I thank the Lord you have your family to lean on, that is so important. Believe it or not you will get through this, and she will always be close to your heart and mind. I will be praying for you brother, for peace and strenght to go through this time of greif. Any time bro we are here.

MY Deepest condolence

Sabreeyes, Michael

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You are in our prayers Shamu , I'm really sorry for your loss . I can't imagine losing your wife and best friend . My heart saddens at the thought of it.   Peace   pwrcrzy52  [ Darryl  ]  

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Shamu. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

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I really hate to read this Shamu. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Remember your extended XI family is always here for you. If you need to talk you can catch me or others on xfire. Don't even think about it bothering us, it won't. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts go out to you

and your family at this sad time

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Sorry for your loss Shamu, my family's prayers are with you.

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Hey brother sorry for your loss, thinking of you and yours, we are all here to help in anyway we can.

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Wow, Sometimes life is just too damn short, I am choked up a bit thinking of the sadness you all must feel. You are one nice guy, luckily for your wife she got too spend 40 plus years with you ! Take care of your self. With deepest regret. Sweat...

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Shamu I am so sorry for you loss. I cant imagine what you are going through right now. I pray you get through this bro. I hope you are ok. Take care my friend.

 

I will be thinking of you brother.

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