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Hi guys and gals.

I am sorry that I haven't been on much lately. As some of you know my wife had lung cancer, notice I said had. She had a mild stroke on April 12th. After that she went through seven straight weeks of radiation therapy. Once a day, everyday. The last test came back that the cancer has almost disappered and is malignant. She got done with her radiation on Friday. That is fucking awesome.

This morning I was in my office on the computer and I normally get up an hour or so before her. Usually I will hear her and tell her good morning. Well this morning I heard a little noise and didn't think much of it. So I went into the living room about a half an hour later and she was laying on the floor and she was completely paralyzed on the right side. So I immediately called 911. And then helped her onto the couch. And then gave her an aspirin. The paramedics arrived within minutes. She had no feeling at all on her right side. Even when I left the hospital tonight she had no feeling in her right arm and couldn't move it at all. And June 5th is her 53rd birthday. That is tomorrow as I write this but it is today depending where you live. She will probably be ok with some therapy. I am crossing my fingers and toes on this one.

The doctors said that she had two strokes early this morning. It scared the living shit out of me. We have been together since we were 19. And I am the first to admit that I am a complete fucking wreck without her. A total puss. I depend on her so much it is really unreal. I guess I need to figure that out, because some day she might not be here. That is a hard one to deal with.

I really want to play more and I will when I get a chance. I just have to channel my thoughts towards my wife right now. What a hell of a birthday present for her.

I just had to vent as I am setting here alone. I am glad I have my XI family. You people mean the world to me. Love you guys.

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That's terrible man.. I hope everything turns out right for you guys.. My thoughts go out to you and your wife.

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Spend all the time you can with her bro she needs you and your strength to help her through this...It's great news that the cancer is gone...Now all her energies and yours are needed so she can make a full recovery from this stroke...I'll keep you both in my prayers...SmileSmile

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Hey Bushape, I understand and sympathize with you my friend. Don't think for second you have to worry about your duties here. Take your time and be there for your wife. Hey guy! I will be in the Centralia area as of tuesday. If u need anything just drop me a message.. Anytime.

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Sorry to hear about your wife,our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Bush bro she has been the rose that brought you beauty and peace when things were tough. Now she thinks your her steel magnolia to carry her where she  can not go now but bro your love for her will see you both through! Its a beautiful chance to show her what she means to you and how much you appreciate her! Dude I live in Monroe so if you need i can listen tho i dont have a vehicle i am a great support in times of need!  God Bless you both and you will beat this! PM me if you want my cell!

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brother that is so awesome about the cancer, but I am very sorry to hear about her stroke, I hope and pray that everything goes well, and that God gives peace to your hearts.

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Hope everything goes well for you and for your wife !

Bon courage !

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Bush take your time dont worry about the gaming man we are gonna be here not going anyware your wife is more important at the moment. My thoughts are with you both my friend.

Need to talk hit me up when you see me on.

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Bush, I am so sorry that you and her are going through so much and I can understand exactly how you feel.  I hope all will be ok and that she will recover properly.   IF SHE IS SMOKING THE E CIGS, THEN GET HER TO STOP...  I THINK THAT IS WHAT IS GIVING HER THE STROKES. If not then I am not sure.  Also, Wish her a happy birthday from all of us and tell her that we all at XI have her in our thoughts and hope she gets better.  And you remember that we are all here for you. If you are able to read this by the time her bday is here, then give her the best birthday you possibily can give her.  that will make her feel so much better.  We are here if you need us alright?  both of you hang in there and try to pull through.  God works in mysterious ways man.  And don;t leave her side.  Go back to the Hospital and be with her!   And make sure those doctors are doing there jobs correctly!   

 

 

I am very happy and amazed to see that you two been together since 19.  This is true love and i pray that for all of us who are married and love our wife's that we have a long lasting love relationship with our wifes like bush has with his.   Sir, I truly admire your true love for your wife.   

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thats bad news buddy... hope all goes well and a speedy recovery for your wife

 

wish you all the best

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Sun Tzu

Bush take your time dont worry about the gaming man we are gonna be here not going anyware your wife is more important at the moment. My thoughts are with you both my friend.

Need to talk hit me up when you see me on.

thats right!. hope everything turns out well bro..we aint goin nowhere just hit us up whenever u need us!

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No problem mate.  We got ya covered.  Preyers with ya and hope all turns out good for ya. 

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Sorry to hear that bushape.  I will pray for her for a speedy recovery.

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Bushape thank you for sharing what is going on in your life at the moment,I wish your wife,you and all your family the very best and keep us updated so we can see how things are going for you...take care fella....Rockape.

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my thought are with you and your wife

 

be strong for her

 

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Although I also sent a PM I wanted to post here to express my heart felt sympathy for the difficulties you are facing.

 

I found tremendous support from XI members and guests in my recent loss. I think you to will find support from your friends at XI.

 

As for gaming, in time you may find that gaming is a tool that can actually help get you through difficult times. Sometimes you will just need to "get away" with friends. Gaming is a good way to do that. You do not have to talk, just come in and pass time with friends you have made over the years. As I did, I think you will find tremendous support and respect from those who know what you are going through.

 

Take full advantage of XI, it helps reduce that "alone" feeling.

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Hang in there my friend...Take your time...we are all here for you..Happy Bday to her...And GOD BLESS HER..

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Thinking of you and your family Bushape.

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Best of luck for you and your wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.

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I'm with you on that one Bushape!

 

Our ladies are often the best thing happening to us and they deserve the best we can provide!

XI buddies will still be around while you take care of her and yourself.

 

Best of everything!!!!!!!

 

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My thoughts are with you and your Wife and hope all turns out well.

 

Take care.

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I'm so sorry to hear that Bushape , my prayers are with you both ...

 

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bush you are one hell of a person.. and me and you have been talking for about 2 years now ..if there is any thing i can do ..you let me know ..you are on the prayers ...Cry  and if you need to talk ..just pm me and i will give you me #and we can talk ..hang in there we  are here for you ..

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thoughts and prayers to you brother...take care and i hope everything goes ok in your wifes recovery.

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