Bushape Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 83 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1334 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 64 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 12, 2020 Birthday: 07/17/1958 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hi guys and gals. I am sorry that I haven't been on much lately. As some of you know my wife had lung cancer, notice I said had. She had a mild stroke on April 12th. After that she went through seven straight weeks of radiation therapy. Once a day, everyday. The last test came back that the cancer has almost disappered and is malignant. She got done with her radiation on Friday. That is fucking awesome. This morning I was in my office on the computer and I normally get up an hour or so before her. Usually I will hear her and tell her good morning. Well this morning I heard a little noise and didn't think much of it. So I went into the living room about a half an hour later and she was laying on the floor and she was completely paralyzed on the right side. So I immediately called 911. And then helped her onto the couch. And then gave her an aspirin. The paramedics arrived within minutes. She had no feeling at all on her right side. Even when I left the hospital tonight she had no feeling in her right arm and couldn't move it at all. And June 5th is her 53rd birthday. That is tomorrow as I write this but it is today depending where you live. She will probably be ok with some therapy. I am crossing my fingers and toes on this one. The doctors said that she had two strokes early this morning. It scared the living shit out of me. We have been together since we were 19. And I am the first to admit that I am a complete fucking wreck without her. A total puss. I depend on her so much it is really unreal. I guess I need to figure that out, because some day she might not be here. That is a hard one to deal with. I really want to play more and I will when I get a chance. I just have to channel my thoughts towards my wife right now. What a hell of a birthday present for her. I just had to vent as I am setting here alone. I am glad I have my XI family. You people mean the world to me. Love you guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
ChEnChEn Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 863 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 45 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 317 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 21 Achievement Points: 2068 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 15, 2022 Birthday: 07/26/1995 Share Posted June 5, 2011 That's terrible man.. I hope everything turns out right for you guys.. My thoughts go out to you and your wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackbart Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 51 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 51 Topic Count: 342 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 5974 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 3766 Achievement Points: 45818 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 27, 2021 Birthday: 06/26/1949 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Spend all the time you can with her bro she needs you and your strength to help her through this...It's great news that the cancer is gone...Now all her energies and yours are needed so she can make a full recovery from this stroke...I'll keep you both in my prayers... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
PimpedOutPete Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 174 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 129 Topic Count: 387 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 14881 Content Per Day: 2.78 Reputation: 7824 Achievement Points: 91060 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 52 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 13 hours ago Birthday: 04/23/1970 Device: Macintosh Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hey Bushape, I understand and sympathize with you my friend. Don't think for second you have to worry about your duties here. Take your time and be there for your wife. Hey guy! I will be in the Centralia area as of tuesday. If u need anything just drop me a message.. Anytime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BUDMAN Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 135 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6946 Content Per Day: 1.32 Reputation: 4487 Achievement Points: 58230 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 4 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Sorry to hear about your wife,our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BigPapaDean Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1197 Topics Per Day: 0.23 Content Count: 6521 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4407 Achievement Points: 63388 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 08:53 AM Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Bush bro she has been the rose that brought you beauty and peace when things were tough. Now she thinks your her steel magnolia to carry her where she can not go now but bro your love for her will see you both through! Its a beautiful chance to show her what she means to you and how much you appreciate her! Dude I live in Monroe so if you need i can listen tho i dont have a vehicle i am a great support in times of need! God Bless you both and you will beat this! PM me if you want my cell! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
sabreeyes Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1642 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 22 Topic Count: 72 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 900 Content Per Day: 0.18 Reputation: 241 Achievement Points: 6952 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/05/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 3, 2016 Birthday: 07/30/1958 Share Posted June 5, 2011 brother that is so awesome about the cancer, but I am very sorry to hear about her stroke, I hope and pray that everything goes well, and that God gives peace to your hearts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yop Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1719 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 71 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1982 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 518 Achievement Points: 12060 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 8 Birthday: 04/03/1981 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hope everything goes well for you and for your wife ! Bon courage ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Sun Tzu Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 542 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 5 Topic Count: 311 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 1628 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 29 Achievement Points: 11299 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/30/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 3, 2014 Birthday: 03/01/1975 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Bush take your time dont worry about the gaming man we are gonna be here not going anyware your wife is more important at the moment. My thoughts are with you both my friend. Need to talk hit me up when you see me on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunStick Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1100 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 164 Topic Count: 164 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1035 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 618 Achievement Points: 9247 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 18 Birthday: 11/30/1980 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Bush, I am so sorry that you and her are going through so much and I can understand exactly how you feel. I hope all will be ok and that she will recover properly. IF SHE IS SMOKING THE E CIGS, THEN GET HER TO STOP... I THINK THAT IS WHAT IS GIVING HER THE STROKES. If not then I am not sure. Also, Wish her a happy birthday from all of us and tell her that we all at XI have her in our thoughts and hope she gets better. And you remember that we are all here for you. If you are able to read this by the time her bday is here, then give her the best birthday you possibily can give her. that will make her feel so much better. We are here if you need us alright? both of you hang in there and try to pull through. God works in mysterious ways man. And don;t leave her side. Go back to the Hospital and be with her! And make sure those doctors are doing there jobs correctly! I am very happy and amazed to see that you two been together since 19. This is true love and i pray that for all of us who are married and love our wife's that we have a long lasting love relationship with our wifes like bush has with his. Sir, I truly admire your true love for your wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
NightmareXI Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 68 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 44 Topic Count: 62 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2709 Content Per Day: 0.51 Reputation: 132 Achievement Points: 14854 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 20, 2022 Birthday: 04/13/1969 Share Posted June 5, 2011 thats bad news buddy... hope all goes well and a speedy recovery for your wife wish you all the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Deranged Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 295 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1535 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 8175 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/07/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 01/01/1970 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Sun Tzu Bush take your time dont worry about the gaming man we are gonna be here not going anyware your wife is more important at the moment. My thoughts are with you both my friend. Need to talk hit me up when you see me on. thats right!. hope everything turns out well bro..we aint goin nowhere just hit us up whenever u need us! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardcore Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 86 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 27 Topic Count: 223 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1824 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 464 Achievement Points: 13395 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 5, 2022 Birthday: 06/29/1967 Share Posted June 5, 2011 No problem mate. We got ya covered. Preyers with ya and hope all turns out good for ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
RickJames Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 58 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 7 Topic Count: 370 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 2552 Content Per Day: 0.48 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 16507 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 26, 2012 Birthday: 08/27/1975 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Sorry to hear that bushape. I will pray for her for a speedy recovery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ROCKAPE Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 4 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 171 Topic Count: 1094 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 5157 Content Per Day: 0.96 Reputation: 3040 Achievement Points: 43597 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 02:40 PM Birthday: 08/16/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Bushape thank you for sharing what is going on in your life at the moment,I wish your wife,you and all your family the very best and keep us updated so we can see how things are going for you...take care fella....Rockape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
wickedwelk Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 84 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 493 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 2695 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Never Birthday: 12/31/1967 Share Posted June 5, 2011 my thought are with you and your wife be strong for her xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamu Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 715 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 418 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2178 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 1183 Achievement Points: 16606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 2, 2023 Birthday: 11/04/1943 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Although I also sent a PM I wanted to post here to express my heart felt sympathy for the difficulties you are facing. I found tremendous support from XI members and guests in my recent loss. I think you to will find support from your friends at XI. As for gaming, in time you may find that gaming is a tool that can actually help get you through difficult times. Sometimes you will just need to "get away" with friends. Gaming is a good way to do that. You do not have to talk, just come in and pass time with friends you have made over the years. As I did, I think you will find tremendous support and respect from those who know what you are going through. Take full advantage of XI, it helps reduce that "alone" feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unchileno Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 109 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 8133 Content Per Day: 1.52 Reputation: 6747 Achievement Points: 61498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 05:52 AM Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hang in there my friend...Take your time...we are all here for you..Happy Bday to her...And GOD BLESS HER.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Chris Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 65 Topic Count: 181 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2289 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1725 Achievement Points: 16590 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Thinking of you and your family Bushape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.74 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 Best of luck for you and your wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
CplMOFO Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 1924 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 68 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1012 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 101 Achievement Points: 5864 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/26/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 21, 2023 Birthday: 05/30/1973 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I'm with you on that one Bushape! Our ladies are often the best thing happening to us and they deserve the best we can provide! XI buddies will still be around while you take care of her and yourself. Best of everything!!!!!!! Mofo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Merlin007 Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 2068 Group: +++ COD5 Head Admin Followers: 69 Topic Count: 1073 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 8435 Content Per Day: 1.73 Reputation: 7292 Achievement Points: 74924 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 64 Joined: 12/25/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 05/23/1973 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 My thoughts are with you and your Wife and hope all turns out well. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Mazdarati Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 173 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 42 Topic Count: 94 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1392 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 769 Achievement Points: 9957 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 30 Birthday: 02/08/1962 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 I'm so sorry to hear that Bushape , my prayers are with you both ... Mazdarati ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
tsw 8.5 Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 906 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 143 Topic Count: 512 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 17079 Content Per Day: 3.26 Reputation: 42067 Achievement Points: 148520 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 677 Joined: 12/20/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 11/30/1960 Device: Windows Share Posted June 5, 2011 bush you are one hell of a person.. and me and you have been talking for about 2 years now ..if there is any thing i can do ..you let me know ..you are on the prayers ... and if you need to talk ..just pm me and i will give you me #and we can talk ..hang in there we are here for you .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
billyblade Posted June 5, 2011 Member ID: 34 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 47 Topic Count: 182 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2097 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 1003 Achievement Points: 14880 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 12, 2018 Birthday: 04/29/1966 Share Posted June 5, 2011 thoughts and prayers to you brother...take care and i hope everything goes ok in your wifes recovery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
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