Janey Posted January 1, 2013 Member ID: 434 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 58 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 1289 Content Per Day: 0.23 Reputation: 1448 Achievement Points: 12930 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 13 Device: iPhone Posted January 1, 2013 My oldest brother died this morning. He was in ICU for the last few days and last night they took him off life support.The same thing happened with my mother in 1983; we had to have her "unplugged" then we waited. It's a weird feeling to wait for someone to die; to know with certainty that the end is shockingly near. Even when there is a terminal illness, as was the case with my mother, when they die it still slaps the shit out of you. My brother, Jimmy, was a grown man when I was born and I barely knew him. I didn't want him to live in pain, but now I'll never have the chance to know him. I worry for my other siblings whom I am closer to. I worry more that I may be last and have to watch them all go. This is me and my siblings in about 1968 in our house in Metairie, LA. Top: Jimmy, DD (Anne). Bottom: Johnny, Kathy (me), Joey. (only my family call me Kathy or my sister DD.) Dad & Mom (with her Frankenstein hairdo) 1965 in the house I was born to in New Orleans (Uptown). LordOfChaos, simplemod, Angel and 2 others 5 Awards
Hunter1948 Posted January 1, 2013 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.62 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Posted January 1, 2013 My prayers go out to you and your Family Awards
Chris Posted January 1, 2013 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 67 Topic Count: 182 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2364 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 1824 Achievement Points: 17229 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Posted January 1, 2013 So sorry for your loss Janey. Awards
Giggles Posted January 1, 2013 Member ID: 1217 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 73 Topic Count: 94 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1608 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 1865 Achievement Points: 14709 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 03/04/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 19 Birthday: 01/21/1978 Device: Android Posted January 1, 2013 so sorry to hear of your loss ...My prayers are with you. Awards
Unchileno Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 101 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 110 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.13 Content Count: 8139 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 6768 Achievement Points: 61591 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 21 Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Posted January 2, 2013 Im sorry Janey..God rest his soul.. 1lost1 1 Awards
ViPRZ Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 2978 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1657 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 1107 Achievement Points: 26123 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/11/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 23 hours ago Birthday: 09/23/1970 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 Sorry for your loss..thoughts and prayers are with you Awards
BurnnBright Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 22339 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 168 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1722 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 685 Achievement Points: 13018 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 01/13/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 8 Birthday: 03/20/1972 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 Sorry for your loss, Janey. I'm praying for you and your family. Awards
Angel Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4326 Content Per Day: 0.76 Reputation: 2974 Achievement Points: 34860 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 29, 2024 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 I liked it for the pics..so wonderful. I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you. Let us know if u need anything. Take care hun. 1lost1 and LordOfChaos 2
PimpedOutPete Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 174 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 130 Topic Count: 387 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 15027 Content Per Day: 2.63 Reputation: 8043 Achievement Points: 92206 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 59 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 29 minutes ago Birthday: 04/23/1970 Device: Macintosh Posted January 2, 2013 I'm so sorry to hear your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with u and your family. Awards
LordOfChaos Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 3174 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 100 Topic Count: 78 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1645 Achievement Points: 17423 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/03/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 27, 2017 Birthday: 07/24/1957 Posted January 2, 2013 (edited) yes i liked the pics too... you have had enough hardship Janey.. time for some good times now in 2013... the 13th year of this century... go get a lottery ticket!!! Prayers and thought are with you sweety. Edited January 2, 2013 by LordOfChaos naty48 1
LordOfChaos Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 3174 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 100 Topic Count: 78 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1645 Achievement Points: 17423 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/03/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 27, 2017 Birthday: 07/24/1957 Posted January 2, 2013 I liked the pics too... good memories to Cherish... You have had enough hardship Janey. Its now 2013, the 13th year of the Century, so go buy a lottery ticket. You can use some luck. My prayers and thoughts are with you sweety.
DEEJAYKEG Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 1238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 1207 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6083 Content Per Day: 1.10 Reputation: 4985 Achievement Points: 50728 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 03/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 11, 2024 Posted January 2, 2013 Deepest sympathy, Janey. "Grief is the price we pay for love". Awards
JACKO:) Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 4474 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 25 Topic Count: 162 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1065 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 374 Achievement Points: 7622 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 3, 2014 Birthday: 09/30/1975 Posted January 2, 2013 Sorry for your loss Janey.My prayers are with you.
FRENCHI Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 1729 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 106 Topic Count: 279 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 7521 Content Per Day: 1.40 Reputation: 3632 Achievement Points: 49202 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 16, 2021 Birthday: 12/26/1969 Posted January 2, 2013 désolé janey je vous souhaite bon courrage .... Awards
BigPapaDean Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 1128 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 78 Topic Count: 1210 Topics Per Day: 0.22 Content Count: 6553 Content Per Day: 1.18 Reputation: 4430 Achievement Points: 63653 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 02/13/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 18 Birthday: 10/21/1954 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 My oldest brother died this morning. He was in ICU for the last few days and last night they took him off life support.The same thing happened with my mother in 1983; we had to have her "unplugged" then we waited. It's a weird feeling to wait for someone to die; to know with certainty that the end is shockingly near. Even when there is a terminal illness, as was the case with my mother, when they die it still slaps the shit out of you. My brother, Jimmy, was a grown man when I was born and I barely knew him. I didn't want him to live in pain, but now I'll never have the chance to know him. I worry for my other siblings whom I am closer to. I worry more that I may be last and have to watch them all go. This is me and my siblings in about 1968 in our house in Metairie, LA. Top: Jimmy, DD (Anne). Bottom: Johnny, Kathy (me), Joey. (only my family call me Kathy or my sister DD.) Dad & Mom (with her Frankenstein hairdo) 1965 in the house I was born to in New Orleans (Uptown). I know what you are feeling and saying about even terminally ill aaaaaaaaaaand long term at that. My dad was terminally ill for years and I saw him suffer so much. We all knew he was going to pass but that didn't end the pain when he finally did. I am praying for you and you families comfort! Awards
KillerKitty Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 2905 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 72 Topic Count: 54 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2190 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 2545 Achievement Points: 18662 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 10/17/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 11, 2018 Birthday: 02/26/1977 Posted January 2, 2013 So sry for ur loss..... my thoughts r with u and ur family Awards
THOR435 Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 2050 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 14 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 360 Content Per Day: 0.07 Reputation: 193 Achievement Points: 2359 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/16/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 3, 2016 Birthday: 03/10/1952 Posted January 2, 2013 Sorry for your loss Janey, my thoughts and prayers are with you
simplemod Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 623 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 21 Topic Count: 62 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1072 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 417 Achievement Points: 7809 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 10/24/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 27, 2018 Birthday: 10/26/1982 Posted January 2, 2013 We'll keep you and your family in our prayers.
Evil-Monkey Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 221 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 85 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1865 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 751 Achievement Points: 12313 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 06/10/1967 Device: iPhone Posted January 2, 2013 my familys prayers go out to you and your family Awards
dadda2 Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 1566 Group: Fallen Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1152 Topics Per Day: 0.21 Content Count: 7674 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 4167 Achievement Points: 68081 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 8 Joined: 07/11/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 5, 2020 Posted January 2, 2013 sorry for your loss janey my thoughts are with u
Belle Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 503 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 181 Topic Count: 71 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2461 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 1213 Achievement Points: 15555 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/24/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 My condolences Janey Awards
Wraith Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 3135 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 95 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 659 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/16/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 8, 2013 Birthday: 04/19/1964 Posted January 2, 2013 I lost my father just 1 year ago so you pain is very near to me. So sorry for your loss.
Volvotech Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 808 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 2 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 36 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 31 Achievement Points: 292 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 19, 2024 Birthday: 08/24/1966 Device: Windows Posted January 2, 2013 Sorry for your loss Janey
TheLastColdBeer Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 489 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 52 Topic Count: 553 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 4745 Content Per Day: 0.83 Reputation: 6058 Achievement Points: 42053 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 18 Joined: 09/22/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 23, 2024 Birthday: 01/09/1963 Device: Android Posted January 2, 2013 Condolences & Prayers to you Janey. Carried a lot of my family to the cemetery. It's not fun being the baby. Awards
Boo Yaa Posted January 2, 2013 Member ID: 22349 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 2 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 766 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 4612 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 5, 2015 Posted January 2, 2013 I'm very sorry for your loss Janey. I"ve been through the disconnect and wait 3 times now. While it never gets any easier, i've found that it does give me time to make my internal peace with the situation and i got to spend a few last precious days or hours with my dad, step dad and grandfater that way. God Bless you and your family.
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