tinmann Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Posted August 17, 2014 my ex is going for child support after 3 years and wants to change our parenting agreement... if she gets the money I will no longer be able to keep the house that my kids know as "home"... and how much she gets will depend on a new parenting agreement... unfortunately she treats the kids like a fashion accessory and makes them sleep at her boyfriends house together in the same bed... btw 13 year old boy and 8&9 year old girls they always complain to me about it but she don't listen to me or them but even after all this is done, I am going to try to get full custody of my kids so I know they are well taken care of and can sleep in their own beds...... I should have done that a long time ago BigPapaDean, dadda2, L!ckALotAPus and 10 others 13 Awards
Hunter1948 Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.62 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Posted August 17, 2014 Best of luck to you buddy and hope you get full full custody. Kids that age should have their own bed. DEEJAYKEG, tinmann and JohnnyDos 3 Awards
Senapsbread Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 20680 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 6 Topic Count: 22 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 205 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 100 Achievement Points: 1481 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/11/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 8, 2023 Birthday: 01/05/1993 Posted August 17, 2014 I fucking hate people that is like that, seriusly you should need a permit to able to be a parent....I bloody hope you get custody, growing up like that will just damage the children... tinmann and BigPapaDean 2
BUDMAN Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 139 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7097 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4633 Achievement Points: 60345 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 9 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Posted August 17, 2014 Let the oldest speak for him self....... A good judge will listen! Nisty*, BigPapaDean and tinmann 3 Awards
NITRO Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 1095 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 34 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3639 Content Per Day: 0.65 Reputation: 2460 Achievement Points: 24702 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/06/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 03/23/1979 Device: iPhone Posted August 17, 2014 Good luck, sounds like a bad buzz. Hope you come out on top! tinmann 1 Awards
NITRO Posted August 17, 2014 Member ID: 1095 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 34 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3639 Content Per Day: 0.65 Reputation: 2460 Achievement Points: 24702 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/06/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 03/23/1979 Device: iPhone Posted August 17, 2014 (edited) Edit: double post. Edited August 17, 2014 by NITRO Awards
Fire Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 496 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 282 Topic Count: 227 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3249 Content Per Day: 0.57 Reputation: 1083 Achievement Points: 22334 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/23/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 5, 2017 Birthday: 10/26/1969 Posted August 18, 2014 tinmann 1 Awards
Evil-Monkey Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 221 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 85 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1865 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 751 Achievement Points: 12313 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 06/10/1967 Device: iPhone Posted August 18, 2014 Good Luck tinmann 1 Awards
ViPRZ Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 2978 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 35 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1657 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 1107 Achievement Points: 26123 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/11/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 10 hours ago Birthday: 09/23/1970 Device: Windows Posted August 18, 2014 Good luck Tinman..hope it all works out for you! tinmann 1 Awards
Nisty* Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 21058 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 220 Topic Count: 101 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2494 Content Per Day: 0.62 Reputation: 2778 Achievement Points: 20963 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 04/25/14 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 18, 2021 Birthday: 03/07/1987 Posted August 18, 2014 Like BUDMAN said.. Kids that age are well aware of most of the things that go on around them and they certainly have their own opinions. Good luck with it all! L!ckALotAPus and tinmann 2 Awards
Giggles Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 1217 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 73 Topic Count: 94 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1608 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 1865 Achievement Points: 14709 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 03/04/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 19 Birthday: 01/21/1978 Device: Android Posted August 18, 2014 Best of luck to u tinmann 1 Awards
FRENCHI Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 1729 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 106 Topic Count: 279 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 7521 Content Per Day: 1.40 Reputation: 3632 Achievement Points: 49202 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 16, 2021 Birthday: 12/26/1969 Posted August 18, 2014 bonne chance a vous .... tinmann 1 Awards
Noears711XI Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Posted August 18, 2014 My Prayers are with you keep the faith it will work out you will have custody, do not back down. tinmann and Angel 2 Awards
reddog955i Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 691 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 4 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 292 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 152 Achievement Points: 2273 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 17 Birthday: 02/27/1953 Device: Windows Posted August 18, 2014 keep the faith and good luck ,,,, tinmann 1 Awards
JohnnyNashville Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 25938 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 21 Topic Count: 346 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1496 Content Per Day: 0.51 Reputation: 290 Achievement Points: 13343 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/17/17 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 8, 2024 Birthday: 08/08/1961 Device: Windows Posted August 18, 2014 I always hate to hear these situations...Praying for you! Here is a organization in your area that can help... http://www.fatherhoodinitiative.cuyahogacounty.us/ I assume you already have a lawyer but if not...GET ONE! http://www.lawyers.com/fathers-rights/parma/ohio/law-firms/ JN tinmann 1
LandShark Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 698 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 43 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1145 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 782 Achievement Points: 7232 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/06/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 15, 2024 Device: Windows Posted August 18, 2014 You are definitely in our prayers. As a minister I have seen this stuff many times. Praying God will bless!! Landshark tinmann 1 Awards
7Toes Posted August 18, 2014 Member ID: 87 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 58 Topic Count: 98 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3789 Content Per Day: 0.66 Reputation: 3589 Achievement Points: 27251 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 18, 2022 Birthday: 04/02/1871 Posted August 18, 2014 let the kids tell the judge about that sleeping arrangement most judges will listen to the kids tinmann and QueenCobra 2 Awards
RiDDiCk_VI Posted August 20, 2014 Member ID: 20405 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 14 Topic Count: 22 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 71 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 26 Achievement Points: 725 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/23/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 6, 2015 Birthday: 05/16/1967 Posted August 20, 2014 Hang in there! I'll be praying for you and the kids. I'll also pray that God opens this woman's heart and does a THOROUGH house cleaning in it! It's no secret that the court systems all across America FAVOR the mother in cases like these REGARDLESS of how sorry or low-down she is. Sadly, the ones who are hurt most in all this are the children. You're quite a man for putting up with the whole situation and I'm proud to call you FRIEND... tinmann 1
tinmann Posted August 30, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Author Posted August 30, 2014 i do have a lawyer. Awards
tinmann Posted August 30, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Author Posted August 30, 2014 Thank you all! i couldn't ask for a better extended family Awards
tinmann Posted September 13, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Author Posted September 13, 2014 update.... currently having a trial run of the new parenting agreement. the big difference is I do all the driving now increasing my fuel consumption. supposed to go to court Wednesday but my lawyer is trying to postpone it to see how this will work out. also in the new parenting agreement will be a clause that states no sleepovers at boyfriends house on school nights... right now my lawyer has the child support paperwork from her lawyer, she told me im looking at a quarter of my monthly income in support but we are going to try to get that down. I need to look at my budget and see how much I can do without. im not gonna get away with paying nothing, but that will be temporary as I will be going for custody Awards
tinmann Posted September 13, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Author Posted September 13, 2014 today I let my ex get some dining furniture that I no longer need and she demanded I give her back her wedding ring and anniversary band that she gave to me 4 years ago...she threatened to tell the judge that she wants them back and a bunch of other stuff too... she doesn't know yet that I sold them for the gold and used the money to give my kids a nice Christmas in 2012. lol loaderXI, WolfTiS and billyblade 3 Awards
Noears711XI Posted September 13, 2014 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Posted September 13, 2014 It was yours she can want what she wants but she can not touch your personal effects. She gave them back to you just say you tossed them that it did not have anymore value to you or tell them the truth you spent it on the kids. Either way there was no signed written agreement that they were to be returned. Good Luck my brother I truly hopes it all works out for you. tinmann 1 Awards
Angel Posted September 14, 2014 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4326 Content Per Day: 0.76 Reputation: 2974 Achievement Points: 34860 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 29, 2024 Device: Windows Posted September 14, 2014 So sorry your going through this, will be sending some prayers for you! tinmann 1
tinmann Posted September 17, 2014 Member ID: 3821 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 158 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 52 Achievement Points: 1050 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/20/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: Saturday at 11:42 PM Birthday: 04/20/1972 Device: Windows Author Posted September 17, 2014 after speaking to my lawyer, she cannot demand anything I have once the divorce was finalized and she had plenty of time after to take whatever she wanted. I find it entertaining to get a text this morning from my ex asking about the jewelry she left here. I will not answer it. todays court date has been postponed till October to give me another month with the new parenting agreement deerejon and billyblade 2 Awards
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