StanG Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 824 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 19 Topic Count: 29 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 317 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 168 Achievement Points: 2144 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 8, 2023 Birthday: 03/08/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 MY dad has had brain cancer for about 4 yrs now , he has been fighting the good fight . but by the end of this week the doctors say its will be over he is in good care with the nurses and doctors rt now . SUCKS tho to watch him die slowly in front of my mom . my mom has been taking care of him the hole time as i have been helping too . but i wish i could of done more for them these past 5 yrs . i guess why iam writing this to say to all the xi members and family , telling the people in your life that you love them even if they know it already still tell them , everday hug them , do something for them show your love not only in words but in actions . How does one sum up ones life ? by the car they drive ? by the house they live in ? How does someone look back on there life and value it ? ALL this stuff is fine to have, but you cant take them with you when you die , the only thing that you can take with you is the love that you gave and the love you got back ! MEMORIES make more of them with the ones you love !!!! thats the only thing i wiLL have when my dad is gone . XI family go make some good ones to day with people you care about !!!!! LIFE IS SHORT AND ITS LATER THEN YOU THINK !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BUDMAN Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 135 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6945 Content Per Day: 1.32 Reputation: 4486 Achievement Points: 58221 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 2 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear the bad news Stang our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Unchileno Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 109 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 8133 Content Per Day: 1.52 Reputation: 6747 Achievement Points: 61498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 9 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Share Posted September 27, 2011 Hang in there Stang..Look at it this way..his suffering and your families will soon be over..he will be missed for sure..But..he needs to rest now my friend..Lost my father when I was 18..to Bone cancer ..is never easy..but the pain is too much for them brother..God bless him and yours..Good luck friend. HE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU ALL.. Yours truly.....UnChileno>XI<ADM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
HarryWeezer Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 20166 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 611 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 7652 Content Per Day: 1.98 Reputation: 7228 Achievement Points: 53663 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 36 Joined: 10/04/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 16 Birthday: 10/16/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 So sorry to hear... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Evil-Monkey Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 221 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 85 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1864 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 745 Achievement Points: 12302 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 17, 2023 Birthday: 06/10/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 sorry to hear .we will keep your family in our prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TheLastColdBeer Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 489 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 51 Topic Count: 547 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 4669 Content Per Day: 0.88 Reputation: 5853 Achievement Points: 41044 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 09/22/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 01/09/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Take care Stan. Be there for your mom, that's her husband that's passing. This is a part of life, just not the part that's fun. Thoughts and prayers go with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BattlewolF Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 2028 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 12 Topic Count: 42 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1740 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 545 Achievement Points: 10637 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/10/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 18 Birthday: 03/10/1963 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear take care stan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
StanG Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 824 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 19 Topic Count: 29 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 317 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 168 Achievement Points: 2144 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 8, 2023 Birthday: 03/08/1967 Device: Windows Author Share Posted September 27, 2011 thanks all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Shamu Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 715 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 418 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2178 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 1183 Achievement Points: 16606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 2, 2023 Birthday: 11/04/1943 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 "MEMORIES".............so important because it is memories that stay with you long after someone is gone. As StanG said, take the time to build good memories, but also try your damndest to avoid Regrets. It's never too late. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PingLo Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 1103 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 64 Topic Count: 119 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1977 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1122 Achievement Points: 15642 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 02/08/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 16, 2013 Birthday: 01/01/2012 Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear it Bryan, hoping for the best for all of your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonovabich Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 82 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1534 Topics Per Day: 0.29 Content Count: 5020 Content Per Day: 0.94 Reputation: 5171 Achievement Points: 131490 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 116 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Really sad for you Stang, you told me a while back about your dad, also saw your photo of you with your Dad in the rate my image, i hope he don't suffer too much m8..take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[BUL]JACKO Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 1787 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 4 Topic Count: 80 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 196 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 1788 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/12/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 11, 2013 Birthday: 09/30/1975 Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear STANG But: This is part of life Tace care dude Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deerejon Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 842 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 62 Topic Count: 278 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 3712 Content Per Day: 0.71 Reputation: 3150 Achievement Points: 28451 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 12/06/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 18 hours ago Birthday: 05/04/1965 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 My thoughts and prayers go out to you Stang.... In the past 3 years we lost my father, mother in law and most recently my father in law... We loved them dearly and cherish the memories....be strong for your mom... not a day goes by 3 years later that i dont talk to my dad....he doesnt answer but I know he is listening... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
SassyBitch Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 2457 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 9 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 164 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 13 Achievement Points: 1112 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/03/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 7, 2014 Birthday: 09/29/1968 Share Posted September 27, 2011 My thoughts are with you and your family and this most heart crushing time myself as being a care giver i have seen the affects of many forms of cancer and its a very painfull fight for them and for all of you your losing someone you care very much for just remember this they will not be in anymore pain and the memories are priceless take care and god bless you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T-Rat Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 168 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 115 Topic Count: 99 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 882 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 429 Achievement Points: 6400 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 19 Birthday: 07/28/1957 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 My deepest sympathies. Morn the loss or celebrate the life. I like your perspective. Savor life. Highest Regards, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Cpt.TennealXI Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 24 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 42 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1753 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 640 Achievement Points: 12250 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 20 Birthday: 12/30/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 It's a terrible thing to watch a loved one waste away before your eyes...The best thing that can be done to help deal with it is to ensure there are no regrets,and that nothing is left unsaid.Stay strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Hunter1948 Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 1850 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 98 Topic Count: 328 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8620 Content Per Day: 1.74 Reputation: 4222 Achievement Points: 55994 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/29/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: November 29, 2023 Birthday: 06/19/1948 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear about your Dad StanG I know what you are going through lost my Dad with cancer to and now my brother is fighting it. My prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TBB Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 989 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 25 Topic Count: 265 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 18136 Content Per Day: 3.47 Reputation: 20152 Achievement Points: 132908 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 263 Joined: 01/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 13 hours ago Birthday: 01/27/1946 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Prayers with you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Mule Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 390 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 410 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 4251 Content Per Day: 0.80 Reputation: 3050 Achievement Points: 35625 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 09/14/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Thursday at 09:17 PM Birthday: 05/08/1959 Device: Windows Share Posted September 27, 2011 Sorry to hear that but you gave me some hope. I posted not long ago my brother has brain cancer and I hope he can stick out the fight for a few more years God Bless you all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
StanG Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 824 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 19 Topic Count: 29 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 317 Content Per Day: 0.06 Reputation: 168 Achievement Points: 2144 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 12/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 8, 2023 Birthday: 03/08/1967 Device: Windows Author Share Posted September 27, 2011 again it means alot to have friends to talk to about this . again thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
PimpedOutPete Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 174 Group: +++ COD2 Head Admin Followers: 129 Topic Count: 387 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 14881 Content Per Day: 2.78 Reputation: 7823 Achievement Points: 91059 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 52 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 04/23/1970 Device: Macintosh Share Posted September 27, 2011 Hey Buddy, I went through this with my mom a few years back. Stay strong, support and make your dad as comfortable as u can.. My thoughts and prayers are with u and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
billyblade Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 34 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 47 Topic Count: 182 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2097 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 1003 Achievement Points: 14880 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 12, 2018 Birthday: 04/29/1966 Share Posted September 27, 2011 good luck Stan, for you and your DAd. Lost my dad way back when to cancer. Prayers, strength and goodwill to you and yours...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Cavey Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 92 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 42 Topic Count: 97 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2241 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 606 Achievement Points: 13358 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 11, 2020 Birthday: 06/09/1977 Share Posted September 27, 2011 StanG - my dad MY dad has had brain cancer for about 4 yrs now , he has been fighting the good fight . but by the end of this week the doctors say its will be over he is in good care with the nurses and doctors rt now . SUCKS tho to watch him die slowly in front of my mom . my mom has been taking care of him the hole time as i have been helping too . but i wish i could of done more for them these past 5 yrs . i guess why iam writing this to say to all the xi members and family , telling the people in your life that you love them even if they know it already still tell them , everday hug them , do something for them show your love not only in words but in actions . How does one sum up ones life ? by the car they drive ? by the house they live in ? How does someone look back on there life and value it ? ALL this stuff is fine to have, but you cant take them with you when you die , the only thing that you can take with you is the love that you gave and the love you got back ! MEMORIES make more of them with the ones you love !!!! thats the only thing i wiLL have when my dad is gone . XI family go make some good ones to day with people you care about !!!!! LIFE IS SHORT AND ITS LATER THEN YOU THINK !! StanG you're a GOOD man, and am so sad to here this news. You are doing the best you can do, and if it was me in your dad's shoes, then all I would want is my closest family to be there in my final hours. Just be strong, and support your mum the best you can. That way you can be proud of yourself. I wish you and your family all the best during this period, and over the coming months. Hit me up whenever buddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bushape Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 839 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 18 Topic Count: 83 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1334 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 64 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/05/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 12, 2020 Birthday: 07/17/1958 Share Posted September 27, 2011 I just want to say that you sound like a very good person and that everything that you said is right on. Really sorry to hear about your Dad, I thought is was cool that you sent in the picture of him and you. I have been through a lot with my wife, she has beat cancer twice and now I have to take care of her from a stroke. That is one hard job, you really have to praise your Mother for everything that she has been through. And yourself, it isn't easy. You can be proud of yourself and your Mom for all that you did for your Dad. I have a similar situation with my Mom, she can go at anytime. She is in a nursing home, it is so hard to go see her and to know what she once was. Now she can't even recognize part of the time. Life is tough and this is all part of life. I know it is never easy. But you will get through it. My prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Angel Posted September 27, 2011 Member ID: 46 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 104 Topic Count: 132 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 4316 Content Per Day: 0.81 Reputation: 2955 Achievement Points: 34774 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 11 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 18, 2021 Share Posted September 27, 2011 So sorry to hear...vic and i will be praying for u and ur family. And for sure...never take a day forgranted. Theres not a day that goes by i tell my family i love them and there isnt a day or night that goes by I dont tell my kid i love her and tuck her into bed every night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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