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For Those That Do Know Me And The Battle I Went Through


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20 years ago I had to do what was right for my kids. At the age of 23 married and two kids I found that my wife of that time was cheating on me and fucking anything she could get her hands on. I went to the state and had her declared unfit as a mother. I then had to do the thing that hurt me the most and a choice I never wanted to make. I gave up my rights to the court so that my kids would have a mother and a father not just a father working two jobs to make ends meet and never get to see me. Well about 3 years ago I was still sending cards and letters to a file. When my daughter turned 18 the people that had adopted my kids gave her the card. Around New years of 2010 I got a call asking if I was Eric S. and i said yes why? I am your daughter Cassandra. We set up a time and met. Well at that time my son did not want to see me because he thought I threw them away. Two days ago i got a call and he final decided to see me. Here is the picture of me and my kids4f78fd28f050d_100_4301.jpg

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That is awsome man. Glad the time finally came where he accepted you as his blodd father and not someone who just discarded him.

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Yay :)

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awesome wild good luck with you in rebuilding a relationship with them again

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Wildthing! Reading this brought tears to my eyes! I am so happy you did the right thing for those kids. They will come to understand completely and its so cool that now they can get to know you as the father they have always loved in their hearts! Gats bro!

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wildthing,

 

Sometimes choices can be dificult ones to make but best for all. I'm sure you made the right decision for the welfare of your children. The unconditional love that you must have knowing they could have a better life with a mother and father. You are a saint!

 

I adopted a child from Kiev, Ukraine. He was 14 months old at the time. He is now 8 (turning 9 in may). My wife and I have tried everything we could do to find his parents. I would love for them to know how he's doing and to see pictures. it would be nice to have an open adoption with them. I have names and the region where they lived but with language and being so far away, it's dificult.

 

Not being able to have kids, this has brought so much joy to my home.

 

Bless you!

 

YellowSnow

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oooh verry nice Wildthing , you dith the ryd choise , i am proud off you and your kids .Verry nice kids you have and its e verry nice picture

the day will come that your children understand you and than thy say i have e verry good dady , he dith the thing ryd

Love too you and your children :give_rose:

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Top :P I hope it works out and get you your kids back

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That is aw-some Wild......glad to hear that all went well!!!!

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Great story Wild, hope it all works out well in the future. :clap:

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Wow wildthing.. im really glad to hear that your Kids came to you again!! but wow what a decission to make.. that must have been unbeliveble hard.. i hope i will never be in that situation!!

 

You are are truly a great man!!

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Well you sure have a very happy smile on you face.Nice job PAPA.And you're a good man.

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That is awsome wild! Half the fun of living is to be with your children!

GBY!

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A wonderful story. So happy for you!!!

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For the life of me I cannot think of a harder decision to have to make.

 

Many of us should be thankful that we have not been out in that position.

 

Good on you and I hope all the bonds come back together for the future.

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I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT.GL

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That is a great story Wild..... i am sure a huge weight has been lifted. Now is your chance to get to know them and them you.

 

And you did the right thing but boy sure that was a very a hard choice to make and harder to live with it over the years wondering and not knowing who they became.

 

Great job getting reunited.

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Awesome to hear Wild. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your found again family!

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OMG, how wonderful for you!!!!

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Congratulations and best wishes on such a wonderful and loving reunion!

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You're a good man wild and I hope you and the kids will have a great future together.

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That's fantastic Eric....cant wait to see more pics in the near future bud!!!!!!!!

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Great news Wild that is brilliant I hope you now have many happy years with your kids and make up for lost time.

All the best mate..

Rob

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thats good to hear wild hope u now can have a good relationsip with ur kids.Congrad

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Thats great wild!

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